to me, that seems like it has nothing to do with personal pronouns though, if you work with a team then it’s likely people will refer to your group as such then, no?

does that not make sense? am i completely misunderstanding how pronouns work lmao?

now lets talk about the weirdest s*** you can find on bios and that's "Loving husband. Proud father of 3"

i think it would probably be easier for you to, in this example convo, reply to "oh he did a great job in representing his client in this case" with "thank you, but it really was a team effort" or something to that effect

i just don’t think you shouldn’t be cooking niggas who don’t if it seems impractical and there fallacies in the explanation of the theory. that’s why i compared it to BLM because i feel the same way about that, and it directly pertains to me. the bio warrior s*** is the wack part

i'm not mad or anything at all man, i'm jus tryna learn

i don't think you responded to my earlier response to you

where are the "fallacies" in explanation? Please be specific in pointing them out

I don't even try to understand all this s*** bro it's confusing af and i don't really care. Everybody just do you and i'll keep doing me. No harm done

why would you wanna consider yourself as they&them if u r a f***ing straight male man

i thought this was about pronouns? i'm tryna learn

a smug way of saying i’m better than you because i do this and you don’t. same with BLM a lot of the times.

I understand that you might perceive it that way but I don't think it negates the benefits of the action

For instance, imagine if right after the segregation era (US) restaurant owners critiqued other owners for allowing "colored people" in their restaurants/shops on the premise that they're only doing it to look better than others (virtue signaling), make more money etc

Yes most white people were still racist and yes it benefitted whites owners from allowing more people in but it doesn't negate that it helped black people at least get acces to better produce (groceries) or schools etc (in my hypothetical example)

When it comes to blm I'm 100% sure that there are better ways to fight racism then putting 3 letters in your bio
But when it comes to gender it's not just 3 letters

It's language with which you adress them : sir/ma'am/miss/he/she/they are means used to adress a person

Names/nicknames/titles (dr/professor) are other means (non gendered issues)

Adressing as in acknowledging their presence and their identity within the group

If you were an officer wouldn't you like to be called one as to validate your status within the group?

If you're a man wouldn't you like to6be adressed as such ?

For cisgendered people the gender pronouns go without saying but were dealing with a group that either doesn't identify with what they were born with (biologically) or do not identify with a gender at all... For those individuals I don't think it hurts to get to know their pronouns

I imagine that any confused person would ask the trans/NB person how they prefer to be adressed just to be polite

Well with the pronouns in bio thing they're basically making it easier for us:
"here's what I go by who don't have to wonder anymore"

It's also a way of coming out

"in case you didn't know I'm a he/him"

For the "it's only on social media" well most social circles connect on social media, you might not talk to every class mate/co-worker but you can acces their social media profiles in a heartbeat, it'll indicate you who's what (social status, personality and know even gender that you'd assumed anyways if they were cisgendered)

dudes act like someone wanting to be called her is like trying to understand quantum physics

that's a big assumption there

approximately 11% of women experience infertility issues
it's about the same in men too
cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr067.pdf

why don't you try reading instead of trying to shame people about trying to learn about topics they clearly don't know about

But you’re just assuming that someone who does that is gonna attack people who don’t lol. No one is targeting you bro, they’re just trying to do something good

cisgender