Was having a peaceful, chill night until one of my male relatives opened my door and did his obnoxious laugh. He always does this like something about me's so funny. I can't figure out why he does this. It's as if he thinks he knows something about me, but maybe he's just projecting based on his own s***ty life experiences.

Nobody else does this.

And now my blood's boiling.

I want to get to a point where I just brush simple s*** like this off, but it affects so drastically. I feel self-conscious for logical reason.

Confront him about it.

Doesn't work that way, man. Might even make things worse, knowing how immature this dude's mind works. Pretty sure he has mental/psychological issues of some sort.

Maybe he keeps doing it because you easily bothered. Lock your door next time

Smoke a lot of weed

A male relative? Like someone part of your family?

Idk man just let it go. Who cares?

Get lock on ur door 🥺

so you recognise that he probably has mental issues but you still let it get to you?

Stop caring. You stop caring about that insignificant s*** he does by not giving him any attention. If he doesn't go away and continues his actions just say okay til he gets bored/confused and goes away

I just remember lifes too short and i can die at any minute and once im dead none of this s*** will matter. S*** helps me push through anything.

By the sounds of it, you have some sort of emotional trigger from your past that traumatized you. Maybe it was getting laughed at or bullied or something. Whatever it is, try to find out the source of it. I've been doing alot of self healing myself and realized certain memories stick out from my past for a reason... and I still get triggered today when something reminds me of those memories.

But what I've learned is it's all about how you react to it. You can choose get triggered by it and let it ruin your mood, or you can realize that he is projecting his own insecurities and it probably has nothing to do with you.

He likes f***ing with you for some reason. Maybe he's a bully or thinks you're just weaker or maybe something about you irritates him and makes him want to pick on you. You could try ignoring it, fighting him, or intimidating him if talking it out isn't an option. Another more creative option is to give him a reason to stop messing with you. Maybe rub s*** on your door handle or change your behavior to discourage him. Whatever solution you find would be specific to your situation. Good luck.

He thinks you’re weak. Challenge him to a fight and beat the breaks off him. He’ll stop for sure and be subservient to you because in his mind you’ll be the alpha male of the family

beat the brakes off someone is such a good expression

he probably laughing at you all the time coz he knows you won't do s***. stop being a b**** and ask him what the f*** he always giggling about

f*** them in the ass

i stop going outside.

I used to love irritating my siblings as a kid, especially my brother. it was just sooo funny when he got pissed off. I usually stopped when he got violent and started throwing things at me.

so try that, get violent and start throwing things at him.

this is also my outlook on life.

100 years and everybody on this forum will be dead. you gotta let people play their little games and keep it moving at all costs

That creates a crutch.

you cant

its character, if you're easily got to, i got news for u

Beat this niggas ass

not gonna lie

dude just opened the door and laughed and you're talking about HIM projecting?

you got some own personal s*** thats f***ing up your worldview and since there's probably nothing you can do to resolve it smoke more weed and focus on accomplishing future goals and just have tunnel vision towards whatever you need to do atm

unless i missed something

It's just annoying. He's laughing AT me for whatever reason he thinks he has. You'd probably be peeved if someone just opened up your door for no reason other than saying hi and laughing.

It's not like this guy just opens the door and coughs and I'm peeved by it.

But I know I care too much about what people think of me and things like this shouldn't phase me at all.