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  • mishima ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
    Nov 23, 2019

    Massive amounts of self awareness/focus. Meditation helps for me

  • Nov 23, 2019
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    coze

    It's just annoying. He's laughing AT me for whatever reason he thinks he has. You'd probably be peeved if someone just opened up your door for no reason other than saying hi and laughing.

    It's not like this guy just opens the door and coughs and I'm peeved by it.

    But I know I care too much about what people think of me and things like this shouldn't phase me at all.

    it's literally as simple as asking him "why do you always do that" not even in a confrontational or angry manner

    you said male relative so that eliminates (or should lmaoo) it being him trying to flirt with you or some s***

    but im not sure i really get the situation. he just opens the door and laughs at you?

  • Nov 23, 2019

    you getting mad over some petty laughter

    fake laugh at him. hell be like damn whats wrong with me am I buggin?

  • Nov 23, 2019
    user

    it's literally as simple as asking him "why do you always do that" not even in a confrontational or angry manner

    you said male relative so that eliminates (or should lmaoo) it being him trying to flirt with you or some s***

    but im not sure i really get the situation. he just opens the door and laughs at you?

    Yeah, he just opens the door and laughs like I'm a source of amusement. I'm not the type to confront family members. Just would rather not associate with them, but sometimes I don't have the choice.

    So since I know I can't do anything about, I'd rather learn how to be untouched by it.

    I said he's projecting because he thinks he's better than me and wants to feel superior due to his own insecurities. Does a lot of questionable things that make you wonder if he's trying to compensate for his lack of true happiness.