One of my childhood best friends and I fell out about 2 months ago. He said some things I didn't like. It escalated with him saying, "I'll cut you off"

He's tried to reach out since then, but honestly, I'm not really interested in smoothing things over. Not even upset, just over the relationship.

He's getting married in April and I was supposed to be a groomsmen, but I think I've been removed and demoted to just a regular attendee.

Should I still attend?

Get over yourself go to the wedding man, get a nice fit pic off in the tux and use that to make a new best friend

go to the reception and air that s*** out

Lol I have enough friends.

You really think I should still go?

If you think youll have a good time why not

It's a destination wedding in Texas. I'm based in Michigan.

If you guys were really really close like that, maybe you should hit him up and be like "yo no hard feelings either way, but am I a groomsman or a attendee?"
Only bc it's a big gesture if yall are actually boys, he'd most likely respect that you respected yall friendship. Also he's been tryna hit you up. Yall could make up in the future, life is too short anyways

Very high on sativa + caffeine atm

Why waste your time at a wedding for someone you dont fw especially if you're not desperate for friends

Yeah I agree with this in the sense you should make a genuine attempt to patch it up/see what’s up

If you go it'll be uncomfortable and weird, and likely afterwards you won't chill or see him again either.

Just skip it, if someone says "I'll cut you off" I would leave it at that

why tf would you attend if he aint even your friend anymore

Why would you have a problem being demoted? You’re the one that’s been actively ignoring him. Even if you weren’t demoted you don’t f*** with him so why even attend lol

your so gay man lol

God I am so happy I did not have a traditional wedding

I need you to answer one question: is there an open bar?

Go fight him at the wedding, it's the only way to make things right

F*** his bride

At this point, I really don't want to go.

Not on any malicious mean spirited type stuff. I'm really just over the friendship.

If I wanted to patch things up, I would've done it when he reached out.

Yes - We were childhood friends at one point, but we've grown apart over the years. We don't talk on a daily basis (only in group chats), and haven't seen each other in like 5 years lol

What don't you understand? Y'all not friends anymore

don't even show up

Lol and I'm perfectly fine with this

Just wanted to make sure I'm not being an a****** by not going to the wedding

You sound like you’re set in not going why even make this thread lol

What was the argument

Why not talk it out to see where you guys stand so you know for sure? One call or meetup just to see where things truly are. + You won't be the only one attending who doesn't like the groom or the bride.