Jan 31Sounds like you made your decision
- Jan 31
BLACKSTAR HOOLIGANWhy would you have a problem being demoted? You’re the one that’s been actively ignoring him. Even if you weren’t demoted you don’t f*** with him so why even attend lol
Right
Jan 31You miss him, reach out and see what he says.
- Jan 31·1 reply
gangyWhat was the argument
This also
Jan 31
DaeHanOne of my childhood best friends and I fell out about 2 months ago. He said some things I didn't like. It escalated with him saying, "I'll cut you off"
He's tried to reach out since then, but honestly, I'm not really interested in smoothing things over. Not even upset, just over the relationship.
He's getting married in April and I was supposed to be a groomsmen, but I think I've been removed and demoted to just a regular attendee.
Should I still attend?
If he dies and you never get to meet his son you was sposed to be an uncle to, would it be worth it
Jan 31Why are y’all so dramatic
- OPJan 31·edited·9 repliesgangy
What was the argument
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
- OPJan 31·edited·10 repliesAlfieNoah
This also
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Jan 31·1 replyDaeHanBasically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Bible study
Jan 31·1 replyDaeHanBasically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Damn that’s crazy but Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
AR15 💯Jan 31·3 repliesDaeHanBasically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Add me to the group chat
- OPJan 31Smoofer
Damn that’s crazy but Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
- OPJan 31AR15
Add me to the group chat
I got you
eclass ⛓️Jan 31lol I would fake act that I wanna go then fake test positive for Covid before the wedding
Jan 31·1 replyTell him he a bozo.
- Jan 31·2 replies
He tried to make amends and you were acting like a b**** now you're whining you won't be in a wedding
Jan 31Now y'all just frenemies
- gangy 🥁Jan 31DaeHan
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Sounds like an a******
Jan 31DaeHanBasically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
grown ass men being gay you especially
Jan 31so u openly lust after other girls while taken? not every dude is cool with that, i wouldnt care too much as a friend really unless you cheating on a wife. Other than that your friend had a very disparaging hoe ass response to you offering a double date like a real friend and id feel the same way and probably wouldnt go at all
Niggamortis 👨🚀Jan 31·1 replyDaeHanBasically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
who are these other girls you were sending pics of during the relationship
- Jan 31·5 replies
blud really wants to get married to this dude the way he types whole harvard essays about him
Jan 31·1 replyDid y'all bully op off the site
- Jan 31DaeHan
Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years
He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)
He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful
I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged
He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.
He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'
I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"
My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."
I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"
His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"
After that I was done
Based on this story he has a leg to stand on. But don't feel pressured to go to the wedding.
My friend who I hadn't fully reconciled with invited me to his wedding. It was in Chicago and I was in Atlanta. I wanted to go but s*** kept getting in the way and I wasn't able to. In the end I was glad I wasn't there because my absence was some REAL S***. Y'no?
We still talk every now and again but just like you, this dude disrespected my girl way back then and he never apologized. So f*** that wedding, and him too lowkey, unfortunately.
The way folks do weddings nowadays... why I gotta pay to see your s***? So therefore, if we got a problem or a semblence of a problem and it hasn't been resolved.... mmmm nah I'm not really finna spend my dime to watch you get married. That s*** extra. Bring that s*** my way if I'm that important.
Jan 31well you're both formers for a reason, so