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  • May 22, 2020

    i was just chillin in my room and it all hit me

    i don't have any real friends my parents are disappointed in me im not doing well in school i don't have alot of money and im out of a job and now i realize my girlfriend never loved me

    im still in a relationship with her and I don't know whether to leave or not because there still are things i want to do with her.

    but besides that I don't want to mope around I want to fix this.

    Wheres the first step?

  • May 22, 2020
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    themanwhocan

    i was just chillin in my room and it all hit me

    i don't have any real friends my parents are disappointed in me im not doing well in school i don't have alot of money and im out of a job and now i realize my girlfriend never loved me

    im still in a relationship with her and I don't know whether to leave or not because there still are things i want to do with her.

    but besides that I don't want to mope around I want to fix this.

    Wheres the first step?

    I'd exchange your rock bottom for mine in a minute.

  • May 22, 2020
    Moody mann

    I'd exchange your rock bottom for mine in a minute.

  • May 22, 2020
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    Bro in what way are you at rock bottom

    At a time like this, I promise you there are people dealing with 50x more hardship than you are

    Stop being a lil b****

  • May 22, 2020
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    Moody mann

    I'd exchange your rock bottom for mine in a minute.

    i will never be able to truly understand anyone elses pain but my own and i understand that. but this feeling of despair feels real to me and i know others have felt the same way. And they were able to pick themselves up and improve. We are all just soldiers in the trenches of life man. And we can pick eachother up for the better

  • May 22, 2020
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    so you want to stay in this relationsship y/n? I suggest you end it as she doesn't love you.. What do you expect is the outcome?

    I think you should concentrate on school more and also make your parents proud when you get good grades

  • May 22, 2020
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    Are you a manlet and/or fat by any chance?

  • May 22, 2020
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    Gamble

    Are you a manlet and/or fat by any chance?

    what this gotta do wit it

  • May 22, 2020
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    Hiro

    so you want to stay in this relationsship y/n? I suggest you end it as she doesn't love you.. What do you expect is the outcome?

    I think you should concentrate on school more and also make your parents proud when you get good grades

    i just want to stay so I might have a chance to do something that I haven't done yet. It's a lil bit of sunken cost fallacy but I was planning on just waiting until that moment and leaving

  • May 22, 2020
    themanwhocan

    i will never be able to truly understand anyone elses pain but my own and i understand that. but this feeling of despair feels real to me and i know others have felt the same way. And they were able to pick themselves up and improve. We are all just soldiers in the trenches of life man. And we can pick eachother up for the better

    reminds me of a nagato quote:

    "Do you understand Pain a little now?

    If you don’t share someone’s pain you can never understand them."

  • May 22, 2020
    Gamble

    Are you a manlet and/or fat by any chance?

    Lmfao

  • May 22, 2020
    Gamble

    Are you a manlet and/or fat by any chance?

    lol no. average in all accounts

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    May 22, 2020
    themanwhocan

    i was just chillin in my room and it all hit me

    i don't have any real friends my parents are disappointed in me im not doing well in school i don't have alot of money and im out of a job and now i realize my girlfriend never loved me

    im still in a relationship with her and I don't know whether to leave or not because there still are things i want to do with her.

    but besides that I don't want to mope around I want to fix this.

    Wheres the first step?

    see a therapist

  • May 22, 2020
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    Moody mann

    I'd exchange your rock bottom for mine in a minute.

  • May 22, 2020
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    actually op doesn't wanna fix his problems it seems. actually again does he even have problems? Or is he just procrastinating?. either way: /thread

  • May 22, 2020
    flackojodye

    what this gotta do wit it

    idk he just sounds exactly like this manlet jewish kid from my high school who reported the school news in the mornings and s***

  • May 22, 2020
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    Hiro

    actually op doesn't wanna fix his problems it seems. actually again does he even have problems? Or is he just procrastinating?. either way: /thread

    Big p**** behavior any way you look at it

  • May 22, 2020
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    BUMBLINGSPASTIC

    anime avi talking about a hard life

  • May 22, 2020
    Gamble

    Big p**** behavior any way you look at it

    this isn't some contest. im just looking for a lil bit of advice

  • May 22, 2020

    Stack the rocks on top of each other

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    Look at your lifestyle, start your change there and a mental change will come. Hit the gym, learn more (reading), socialise more.

    Also realise your problems are tiny to others, you need a reality check my guy

  • May 22, 2020
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    themanwhocan

    i just want to stay so I might have a chance to do something that I haven't done yet. It's a lil bit of sunken cost fallacy but I was planning on just waiting until that moment and leaving

    proposing ? smh what are you on about

  • May 22, 2020
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    Not Guilty

    proposing ? smh what are you on about

    ngl there is some freaky s***shit i wanted to do with her and she was just coming around the corner and I already opened up to her about it and I don't think anyone else would be interested/don't want to be unconfident about it. so I want to do it with her and get it over with

  • May 22, 2020
    themanwhocan

    i will never be able to truly understand anyone elses pain but my own and i understand that. but this feeling of despair feels real to me and i know others have felt the same way. And they were able to pick themselves up and improve. We are all just soldiers in the trenches of life man. And we can pick eachother up for the better

    don’t let people try to belittle your pain, it shouldn’t be a competition

    there will always be someone worse off than you, but that doesn’t invalidate your feelings

    best of luck to you

  • May 22, 2020

    This is not rock bottom