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  • Jun 5, 2020

    i dont feel like going into depth about the situation but as im becoming more aware im realizing things i have done in the past are wrong.

  • Jun 5, 2020
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    you cant change it so unless its rape/murder/something of that ilk that permanently altered someone else's life

    u kinda gotta say f*** it

    if it is one of those permanently altering things seek professional help before u do more damage to someone else

  • 666 馃挗
    Jun 5, 2020

    honestly its a slow process. you just gotta work on it depending of what you feel you did

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    user

    you cant change it so unless its rape/murder/something of that ilk that permanently altered someone else's life

    u kinda gotta say f*** it

    if it is one of those permanently altering things seek professional help before u do more damage to someone else

    i dont know if i did something wrong but the possibility scares me

  • Jun 5, 2020

    You鈥檝e gotta accept that you did something wrong, mental gymnastics will just make it worse. People are constantly forming themselves and changing, so recognize that from this point on you can in many ways shape the person you are, and also that your recognition of the fact that you did something wrong and your guilt over it is a good sign of where your morals are at

  • Jun 5, 2020
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    Ari

    i dont know if i did something wrong but the possibility scares me

    i feel like i already know what direction this is going lmao.

    hit up all parties involved and see their take on it if possible

    you feeling like this is something

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    user

    i feel like i already know what direction this is going lmao.

    hit up all parties involved and see their take on it if possible

    you feeling like this is something

    man like what if i hurt someone that s*** is scary

  • Jun 5, 2020

    Sometimes you gotta embrace being a piece of s***. someone has to play the villain

  • Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    Ari

    man like what if i hurt someone that s*** is scary

    s***s done so get clarification on whatever is unclear from the horses mouth and stop doing mental gymnastics

    depending on the severity of what you're talking about there is a chance it may be best to leave the situation alone especially given the timing

    it would be easier to help you if you just explained the situation but the ambiguity of whether or not you hurt someone is kinda revealing what is at the root of this lol

  • Jun 5, 2020

    Forgiveness

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    user

    s***s done so get clarification on whatever is unclear from the horses mouth and stop doing mental gymnastics

    depending on the severity of what you're talking about there is a chance it may be best to leave the situation alone especially given the timing

    it would be easier to help you if you just explained the situation but the ambiguity of whether or not you hurt someone is kinda revealing what is at the root of this lol

    i feel like talking to said person is a good idea because its highly possible that they might not even be mad/hurt and if the are the best thing i can do is attempt to make amends and understand that persons side of things

  • Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    Ari

    i feel like talking to said person is a good idea because its highly possible that they might not even be mad/hurt and if the are the best thing i can do is attempt to make amends and understand that persons side of things

    yep

    and you feeling like this + way youre phrasing it sounds like you didn't explicitly do some foul s*** but if my guess is correct this is more you being young and not knowing how to move in certain situations and that may have affected others in negative ways or not at all

    just go have the convo you wont know till then

  • Jun 5, 2020
    2 replies

    lmao i dont think yall are picking up what type of situation OP is kinda describing this to be

    You know you hurt someone when you hit them or steal from them or some s*** like that where u kinda just gotta say f*** it i was on some foul s*** at that moment lol

    there's no ambiguity there like OP has

  • Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    user

    lmao i dont think yall are picking up what type of situation OP is kinda describing this to be

    You know you hurt someone when you hit them or steal from them or some s*** like that where u kinda just gotta say f*** it i was on some foul s*** at that moment lol

    there's no ambiguity there like OP has

    I feel like I know exactly what you and op are talking about but I鈥檓 not bout to accuse op of nothing but so ima keep observing

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    user

    yep

    and you feeling like this + way youre phrasing it sounds like you didn't explicitly do some foul s*** but if my guess is correct this is more you being young and not knowing how to move in certain situations and that may have affected others in negative ways or not at all

    just go have the convo you wont know till then

    noted
    for all i know s*** could be fine and im just overthinking but if not best course of action is learning and helping that person i guess

  • Jun 5, 2020
    DevilOrAngelFM

    I feel like I know exactly what you and op are talking about but I鈥檓 not bout to accuse op of nothing but so ima keep observing

    Facts lmao.

  • Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    Ari

    noted
    for all i know s*** could be fine and im just overthinking but if not best course of action is learning and helping that person i guess

    Yeah I was just saying watch the timing because if you're talking about what I assume you to be talking about. You may trigger that person to relive the incident and follow what has been happening on social media.

    Not accusing you of anything but that's kinda what I'm assuming this is in the vein of.

    But only you know how close to something like that you're referring to.

    But yeah ultimately the solution is to go talk to that person.

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    user

    Yeah I was just saying watch the timing because if you're talking about what I assume you to be talking about. You may trigger that person to relive the incident and follow what has been happening on social media.

    Not accusing you of anything but that's kinda what I'm assuming this is in the vein of.

    But only you know how close to something like that you're referring to.

    But yeah ultimately the solution is to go talk to that person.

    noted

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020

    i might be reaching but its good to open about it

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020

    me and this person are still cool and hang out sometimes but i feel like its only right to check and see if their ok

  • plants 馃尰
    Jun 5, 2020

    man just tell us what you did

  • Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply

    you gotta forgive yourself

    the fact that you're guilty shows remorse which is very human which can mean what you did wasn't really you or who you want to be

    as kanye said 'you're not perfect but you're not your mistakes'

    and also you have to understand how evil people in this world really are and put it in perspective. idk what you did but there's people who kill people, lie, cheat, steal, do awful things and don't feel any remorse

    at least you're not that

  • OP
    Jun 5, 2020
    1 reply
    Weekend KaTeezy

    you gotta forgive yourself

    the fact that you're guilty shows remorse which is very human which can mean what you did wasn't really you or who you want to be

    as kanye said 'you're not perfect but you're not your mistakes'

    and also you have to understand how evil people in this world really are and put it in perspective. idk what you did but there's people who kill people, lie, cheat, steal, do awful things and don't feel any remorse

    at least you're not that

    this is really good advice