as someone who is about to leave their 20s by this time next year,
live it up as much as you can
take trips (when things open back up)
do new s***
meet new people
but also
make sure you are thinking ahead as well. try finding jobs that will provide you with marketable skills in the job market and start saving money early
that’s the basics really
At 21 its all down hill.
25 is where you are basically falling of the cliff lol
Make sure you’re falling in love with someone who shares the same values as you.
Be careful what you put your emotions into.
Mental illness shows up in your mid-20s, so be aware of your mental state and find help if you need it.
Yeah, there are going to be a lot of ups and a lot of downs.
It's all part of the journey.
Try s***, figure out what you really love to do, what is the essence of what brings you fulfilment.
F*** around, literally. (safely tho) Don't get too caught up in long term relationships. Be young, enjoy. Have a couple of flings. Settling down is a later 20s type thing.
use your 20s to build for your 30s
and dont squander your prime years (20-25 imo)
Disclaimer: i am 23
You are constantly going to be comparing yourself to the people around you in the early 20s.
Avoid that as much as possible and know everybody is on a different route. That'll help you avoid the essential crisis of 23-24 with, "What the f*** am I doing with my life."
Party hard, festivals, shows, women -- do it up and also slide in those internships, work, $$.
use your 20s to build for your 30s
and dont squander your prime years (20-25 imo)
Disclaimer: i am 23
this for sure
20-25 is peak life imo lol
25-30 start working on your future full time
Don’t listen to Doomers who tell you “it’s all downhill from here”
Life is what you make it. Don’t sit passive, let life happen to you and then play victim. take control of your own life.
As bravely finance said, use this time to build up for your 30s. You’ll thank yourself for it. Start investing if you haven’t. Have a savings account. Learn to budget. Learn to budget. Learn to budget.
Learn a skill that you can commodify.
Get in shape. Work out regularly. A sharp body is a sharp mind, and those who are less likely to be pushed around physically are also less likely to be pushed around mentally.
Try not to compare yourself to others. Everybody is going at different paces and some people have more
advantages than others.
Focus on building yourself and your purpose instead of chasing women. Though, if you do end up running into someone that’s fine too. There’s nothing wrong with settling down with a good woman. But make sure that you KNOW she’s the right one for you. You’ll know.
Always drive a car that you love.
happy birthday!
experience what you can
don’t worry about money just do things
in addition don’t break your back exchanging your youth to work for money
don’t take life too serious
try something creative that you’ve always wanted to do
don’t compare, we’re all on a different path
25 is where you are basically falling of the cliff lol
The moment I turned 21-23. I realized I gotta start preparing for 30 to 40 by having as much fun as I can, eating right, working out, etc
They got me going to the Doctor and s***
Its deadass no time for big Ls
The moment I turned 21-23. I realized I gotta start preparing for 30 to 40 by having as much fun as I can, eating right, working out, etc
They got me going to the Doctor and s***
Its deadass no time for big Ls
for real lol.
when i turned 26 i went to the doctor for a check up and i had an old lady as a nurse who was doing a blood test for me and she dead ass said “yep you’re at the age where health problems will start to develop”
that’s when i knew i was no longer a young adult but a grown ass man lol
as someone who is about to leave their 20s by this time next year,
live it up as much as you can
take trips (when things open back up)
do new s***
meet new people
but also
make sure you are thinking ahead as well. try finding jobs that will provide you with marketable skills in the job market and start saving money early
that’s the basics really
Yoo im starting next week at my new job as an it guy for a psychology office. Its a part time gig so im missing allot of money and idk how im feelin about that.
for real lol.
when i turned 26 i went to the doctor for a check up and i had an old lady as a nurse who was doing a blood test for me and she dead ass said “yep you’re at the age where health problems will start to develop”
that’s when i knew i was no longer a young adult but a grown ass man lol
Im at that stage aswell, every tingle or sensation i get its just my body adopting this older side of me lol.
I google these symptoms and luckily its nothing but it does give me hypochondria lol
Don’t listen to Doomers who tell you “it’s all downhill from here”
Life is what you make it. Don’t sit passive, let life happen to you and then play victim. take control of your own life.
As bravely finance said, use this time to build up for your 30s. You’ll thank yourself for it. Start investing if you haven’t. Have a savings account. Learn to budget. Learn to budget. Learn to budget.
Learn a skill that you can commodify.
Get in shape. Work out regularly. A sharp body is a sharp mind, and those who are less likely to be pushed around physically are also less likely to be pushed around mentally.
Try not to compare yourself to others. Everybody is going at different paces and some people have more
advantages than others.
Focus on building yourself and your purpose instead of chasing women. Though, if you do end up running into someone that’s fine too. There’s nothing wrong with settling down with a good woman. But make sure that you KNOW she’s the right one for you. You’ll know.
Always drive a car that you love.
It's cool to make your days count and be productive but also don't beat yourself up because you don't reach a certain insane expectation you or others have for yourself. It's ok to f*** up and be lost in life, it happens to everyone, as long as you know how to bounce back up.
Build your own pace and take things slowly if you happen to be down bad
Welcome to some of the best times of your life OP. 20s is all about working hard and playing hard. Set yourself up for the future by laying your foundation, and do as many things as you can while you have relatively minimal responsibilities. Happy birthday playa