Respect and understanding for people having other things to do besides sit on a f***ing phone and text all day = putting p**** on a pedestal??
Idk it's a balance. If she not texting you back and texting someone else is that being patient for her, you simping for her, or having your own life?
Plus if you're interested in girl then wouldn't you want her to carry on a good convo?
OP said he knew her for a while already
That's not playing games, that's just moving on without being extra about it like OP
Moving on is moving on. Stopping responding to see if they’ll start talking more is playing games
doing that after an hour or two seems a lil impatient, that being said purposely avoiding txting someone to seem less available is some of the cringiest s*** I can imagine
I mean there are multiple red flags here already aside from taking too long to respond.
You did what you had to do
im not even gonna go through this thread, first page is comedy gold by itself
lol I'm dead. They say I'm clingy or wrong. IDK
I mean there are multiple red flags here already aside from taking too long to respond.
You did what you had to do
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NTA. Everyone is on their phone all day lol if she wanted to talk to you then she would. Wouldn't call it a red flag necessarily but she wasn't as invested into it as you are.
NTA. Everyone is on their phone all day lol if she wanted to talk to you then she would. Wouldn't call it a red flag necessarily but she wasn't as invested into it as you are.
They were only talking for a week, there's always an investment mismatch early on. Bro should've definitely let the situation simmer longer
PLus texting is fake anyways
dawg unless you’re in high school expecting people to text you back all day everyday means you gotta outgrow that mindset, not everybody open to conversation at random moments even thru text but having a sugar daddy is kinda like yeah when she desperate she gonna do what it takes
I was confused why yall were bullying op but it looks like that was before he edited his message with more context
They were only talking for a week, there's always an investment mismatch early on. Bro should've definitely let the situation simmer longer
PLus texting is fake anyways
Didn't know it was only a week lol. That changes how I feel then. A week is pretty soon but if OP prioritizes someone who text back in a "reasonable" time I don't think he's asking for too much. Plenty of women do that, and I'm assuming a good timeframe for him is maybe 5m-45m range. I'm pretty sure I've been unmatched for taking too long to respond lmao.
To OP, She probably was interested, just busy or still getting warmed up you
dawg unless you’re in high school expecting people to text you back all day everyday means you gotta outgrow that mindset, not everybody open to conversation at random moments even thru text but having a sugar daddy is kinda like yeah when she desperate she gonna do what it takes
You right.
I was confused why yall were bullying op but it looks like that was before he edited his message with more context
Yeah I did add more stuff though.
I was talking to this girl and she asked me for my IG. After that I got her number then a few days later we hung out but when we hung out she said something that ticked me off that some 41 year old man is giving her money for food and stuff. So a few days later I saw are conversations was not so good. She'll take 1-2 half hour to respond so I got the hint maybe this girl is idk. So ask her if she was interested in a relationship. She said she isn't ready because she just got out a bad relationship. So I told her ok and unfollowed her/unsent my messages on IG and deleted her number. Only did this because I experienced this before a few months ago and I don't want to repeat this mistake.
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not 1 hour but 2 hours plus I'll see she is online IG
Yall are wild
My literal girlfriend sometimes doesn't even get back to me immediately even though she's on IG
It's really not that deep, a lot of people just suck with their phone
You think she should cut off her sugar daddy because yall hung out once?