Sep 18, 2023·1 reply
lionedBruv thinks they're at the library or something
😂😂facts f*** he smoking. That is how you get used by a girl by doing that waiting game crap and end up sad/depressed wondering why did I keep pursuing her for. I did that once and I told her if you interested tell me because I just got out a situation like this. At least she told me I just erased her number/unfollowed her IG/unsent my messages/etc.
- Sep 18, 2023
dootI had a girl I had a thing with briefly my senior year of college and she made it seem like she was head over heels w me, texting me constantly, hanging out, etc then randomly one day just dropped it and said she didn’t think it would work out. Stopped texting fully after one night basically. After that, for about 2 weeks, all I did was worry about what she was doing, what I did wrong, etc. Eventually I realized though that it was a great opportunity to work on myself and put myself in a better place than I was before. That exact situation made me stop worrying about what girls are gonna do, whether they text back,etc because I was truly secure with who I was and was going to do me and work on me. What’s funny is once i cut her off fully and started doing me, she hit me back up again like a month later. And I ghosted that bozo
It’s a very freeing feeling, and led me to much more opportunities w women once I was in that bag, and I bet you can do it too 👌
Wise Words
Sep 18, 2023·1 replyMiddle KeysBe friends so I can be used hell no. I already made that mistake being in the friend-zone f*** all that.
You don’t need to put a label on everything
Just enjoy spending time together and see where it goes
Of course this also means you can’t make her the center of your life or base your emotional state on her
Sep 18, 2023King
- Sep 18, 2023·2 replies
You did the right thing @op don’t play her games and she’ll come back running lol
Sep 18, 2023·1 replyLet her get that bag but you're being extra by unfollowing her and unsending IG messages lol
- Sep 18, 2023·1 replyMiddle Keys
Be friends so I can be used hell no. I already made that mistake being in the friend-zone f*** all that.
You hooked up and asked to date and chucked her in the trash when she said no. Who used who
Idk both of you have problems. Good luck out there
- Sep 18, 2023youngtubesteak2
You did the right thing @op don’t play her games and she’ll come back running lol
🙏 some here are saying I'm wrong.
- Sep 18, 2023·1 replyBlock Muteson
You hooked up and asked to date and chucked her in the trash when she said no. Who used who
Idk both of you have problems. Good luck out there
Nah we didn't hook up. We just hung out ad talked.
Sep 18, 2023·1 replyOfflineMental illness
Sep 18, 2023Dont you dare undo this.
- Sep 18, 2023DaParkDog
Let her get that bag but you're being extra by unfollowing her and unsending IG messages lol
😂 I know.
- Sep 18, 2023youngtubesteak2
You did the right thing @op don’t play her games and she’ll come back running lol
😂😂yeah but I unsent my messages and unfollowed her so idk
- Sep 18, 2023·1 replyMiddle Keys
Nah we didn't hook up. We just hung out ad talked.
And you asked her to date within a week? Nah man. You didn't even smash and asked if she wanted to date?
If you ever do get in a situation where you're feeling ignored or w/e with a girl who you have something real going with, you are better off communicating it to them. You're telling a forum everything you could've told her. But idk, it also sounds like things were rushed and this wasn't serious yet. Crazy to do both
- Sep 18, 2023Ghoma
Hopefully she has a life and isn’t on call 24/7
- Sep 18, 2023Block Muteson
And you asked her to date within a week? Nah man. You didn't even smash and asked if she wanted to date?
If you ever do get in a situation where you're feeling ignored or w/e with a girl who you have something real going with, you are better off communicating it to them. You're telling a forum everything you could've told her. But idk, it also sounds like things were rushed and this wasn't serious yet. Crazy to do both
Let OP cook tbh. Learning moment
- Sep 18, 2023
Nah you made the right choice, you stood on your morals and now you've unlocked integrity.
You ain't have to go nuclear on her tho but I understand when the temptation is too strong. Go find better women that won't be getting her guts tickled by some middle aged pickle.
Sep 18, 2023A girl didn’t respond to me for days and eventually responded and it was positive. Some people just don’t care about online like that. Try to get more irl convos underway
- Sep 18, 2023Middle Keys
😂😂facts f*** he smoking. That is how you get used by a girl by doing that waiting game crap and end up sad/depressed wondering why did I keep pursuing her for. I did that once and I told her if you interested tell me because I just got out a situation like this. At least she told me I just erased her number/unfollowed her IG/unsent my messages/etc.
I mean you only get depressed if you’re over invested. Develop a healthy amount of investment proportional to the level of familiarity. No one who barely knows you owes you conversation. Learn that and like others said, learn to be patient.
- Sep 18, 2023
Seriously tho, sometimes I feel like the waiting game is kind of like a test… if you just dgaf, you may be pleasantly surprised with time. Speaking from experience.
- Sep 18, 2023·1 replyMiddle Keys
not 1 hour but 2 hours plus I'll see she is online IG
dude that’s not even accurate, if somebody sends her something on IG it’ll show her as online
you overthought this and ended up doing way too much 
Sep 18, 2023Middle KeysNah I'm texting her and she did not respond. I went on IG and she online. So I asked her if she was interested and she said she not looking for a relationship. Why keep trying if all you gonna do is try try waste your time.
Seems like you're more interested in commitment so nothing wrong with passing on someone whos not going to reciprocate
Good luck out there, you'll find someone
- Sep 18, 2023·4 repliesdoot
Brother I used to be that way, worried about not getting texted back, and I’m telling you that is a massive turn off for the gyals
It isn’t healthy foryou either to be stuck on if they are online or not. Don’t do that to yourself, if they don’t text back it is what it is don’t sweat it and keep it moving. Millions of girls out there bro
when I find myself waiting for a text back, I simply ask myself: What would Drizzy do?
Sep 18, 2023lionedU like when they keep u waiting huh
Idk wtf you're laughing about. Yall just some desperate clingy mfs that don't know game. Who gives af how long it takes to hear back if she wanna hang we gonna hang if she don't then we won't. I'm not getting hung up on "reply times" thats some straight up b**** s***
Sep 18, 2023If she’s not into seeking a relationship rn and you are then probably for the best, if you were just trying to mess around for a bit with her then who cares