I didn't just meet her I knew her for mad long but I saw her after a long time. I just don't like the waiting game.

Whenever this guy gives advice
Do the opposite

You ain’t doing enough my guy

Who advice you talking about.

The dude i quoted

Oh ok. I think he like the waiting game. FOH

I don’t think the texting thing is a big deal. I think the gaps are normal at the start of dating. People like to pretend they’re busy

If your intentions are to date her and that 40 year old funding her life is a red flag that’s reasonable imo. Not sure you needed to unsend messaged and block you could’ve just stopped replying lol

Nah I didn't block her I just unsent my IG messages and unfollowed her - remove her from my follower list Yeah that's ode but s*** I asked her and she told me so I bounced.

It sound like you expected her to just fall in line off the rip based on how you’re wording all of this.

If you’re trying to get into something serious, you’re going to have to play the waiting game 🤷🏾‍♂️ jumping into something serious without properly vetting your partner is a red flag.

Oh you’re good then. On to the next. I don’t think I’d want to get serious with someone who’s getting an allowance from a random man either

theres a world outside of the phone op

Yeah but I'm good 2 hours nah hell to the no. After I asked her why she said she isn't looking for a relationship. I got my answer from her so I bounce.

I like your philosophy though.

I feel you king. Do what you gotta do to protect your peace.

How do you get “used”? Most women are not interested enough in you to “use” you? Most likely they may have you were cute or could carry entertaining convo. Not so much “usable”.

I mean used for things. Like saying ok maybe I'll keep chasing her knowing she got you in the friend zone. After this she start using you for small things.

She was definitely more interested in that guy paying her imo you was the one dodging the bullet.

Yeah just when they ask for that say no and like create boundaries. It’s just a matter of being fluid enough to not get caught in rigid constructs of how conversations should unfold or scenarios play out.

What that mean?

😂😂😂😂😂

cause 1 or 2 hours isn't a big deal man... especially when you're just in the talking stage, don't expect the girl to just be on your nuts from the beginning unless it started off like that

also why shut the door on some side p**** when you're single, just let things happen and don't do too much

but yeah a girl having a sugar daddy is kind of a red flag to me

DONT SAve HA SHE DON T WANNA BE SAVED