ThisIsNeverThat

2y

cause 1 or 2 hours isn't a big deal man... especially when you're just in the talking stage, don't expect the girl to just be on your nuts from the beginning unless it started off like that

also why shut the door on some side p**** when you're single, just let things happen and don't do too much

Middle Keys

2y

Nah f*** all that. I just went thru a horrible experience so I'm so careful. Like it was bad.

Jbreezyondeck

2y

Sounds like she dodged a bullet clingy ass mf

Faith

2y

At the end of the day you made the right decision because of the nigga giving her money

Middle Keys

2y

Yeah she said that when we hung out. My tingling senses rang off cuz I know a girl like this.

ThisIsNeverThat

2y

she a ho fam

RenBop

2y

you jumped the gun for one and second, you have to reevaluate your expectations. It's gonna be really hard for you out here if you don't

Stop Alien Hate

2y

If a romantic interest leaves you on read for hours multiple times then she either not that interested or playing games. The right person won’t do that.

And y’all saying “maybe she has a life” know damn well that 99% of people these days don’t go hours without checking their phone

Laced

2y

U have an anxious attachment style. Heal that s*** or u gonna run off every girl u come into contact with

Middle Keys

2y

IDK maybe and not but I ain't doing that 2 hour reply and she told me some man is giving her money.

Middle Keys

2y

Bro I ain't talking to no girl who don't initiate convo. If I put my energy in and she doesn't why waste my time and hurt myself down the road.

RenBop

2y

I think your last experience is muddying the waters a bit. Do you but just be mindful of if your expectations are mapping on to reality or not.

95% of people I know only send a few messages a day and a lot of girls also get free s*** from people even after setting that boundary of wanting nothing more from them. These things could mean something more but on their own it seems like you moving out of fear

Faith

2y

You make good points. What do you mean people only send a few messages a day? Niggas just send each other good morning texts and stop talkin?

RenBop

2y

just sending memes/songs here and there or bringing up something that happened and stopping once that convo point is done .

sometimes its light flirting or plan setting but whether its me or seeing text from friends or girls I match with. I hardly see all day texting the same way I did when I was fresh in college

RenBop

2y

just sending memes/songs here and there or bringing up something that happened and stopping once that convo point is done .

sometimes its light flirting or plan setting but whether its me or seeing text from friends or girls I match with. I hardly see all day texting the same way I did when I was fresh in college

Middle Keys

2y

Nah I'm texting her and she did not respond. I went on IG and she online. So I asked her if she was interested and she said she not looking for a relationship. Why keep trying if all you gonna do is try try waste your time.

Faith

2y

I do this now

tryna talk all day be feeling so forced/chore even when it’s someone you like

Stop Alien Hate

2y

Ok but if someone you like messages you, do you ignore it for hours? There’s a difference between a natural mutual end to conversation and straight up not responding.