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  • Apr 23, 2022
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    25 y/o just moved to a new tiny town, only friends here are from work lol

    only other possible way i see would be to take some kind of class/join a hobby group or someshit

  • Apr 23, 2022
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    Gulpin

    25 y/o just moved to a new tiny town, only friends here are from work lol

    only other possible way i see would be to take some kind of class/join a hobby group or someshit

    You hang out with your friends outside of work?

  • start a redditor club at school

  • Apr 23, 2022

    Friends in 20s are different so it might feel like you not making friends but really you just don’t know that that’s how friendships work at this age, unless y’all known each other for years it’s different now

    Regardless you in your 20s time to start looking for a wife and starting a family old head

  • Apr 23, 2022
    americana

    I’m just waiting in line at places, or it’s a store clerk, or customers at my job

    Just wherever you’re standing around the same people for at least a few minutes it’s a great way to pass the time

    You can even make friends

    Basically the same dynamic here. The only reason many of us wouldn’t consider each other friends is the physical component

    Super good advice. Helps develop the skill of small talk.

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    genghiskharti

    You hang out with your friends outside of work?

    yeah, been like 1-2 times a week so far

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    I feel you @op

    I have the same issue. It’s especially hard for me to find people who I have commonality with. even my existing friends, I feel like we really don’t have anything in common anymore and are only friends bc of the history

    but even when I meet people that I do have similar interests with, it’s still that way. I reconnected with a dude I went to HS with last week and we’re gonna link up to make some music together once I finally have a day off. but even with him, it feels like we don’t have s*** in common outside of liking music

    depressing as f***

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    Gulpin

    yeah, been like 1-2 times a week so far

    what's the strat? I fw my work homies but to them that's just their B-group so they don't really feel compelled to hang out outside of work

  • Apr 24, 2022
    lildevastated

    Buying clothes mane I really like to get fly not a brand elitists tho I try to find upcoming brands . Also game a lil bit slapped everybody at my job on halo. And love music but idk if that’s a hobby

    Ah if only u were in toronto

  • Apr 24, 2022
    lewinskysdress

    don't worry about friends

  • Apr 24, 2022
    genghiskharti

    what's the strat? I fw my work homies but to them that's just their B-group so they don't really feel compelled to hang out outside of work

    im sure im B-group to most of the ppl at work too

    kinda just happened honestly. but its a rural area, high turnover and coworkers are all around my age. pretty much goes without say that none of us have friends living around there so we all naturally end up hanging out

    in the past tho ive never been shut down when saying we should all grab drinks sometime (at the right place/right time)

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    Imagine having friends in 2022

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    what borough r u in ?

    nyc can be rough and lonely it takes time to get adjusted

    lived my whole life and have diff groups of friends and it was hard for me when i was living there

  • cotton

    Meet bad b****es they be having hella cool guy friends in the friend zone

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    lildevastated

    Buying clothes mane I really like to get fly not a brand elitists tho I try to find upcoming brands . Also game a lil bit slapped everybody at my job on halo. And love music but idk if that’s a hobby

    we can link up when im back in nyc this summer fr and i can put u on, but im like 21 and in college idk how old r u

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    lovetalkgames

    You have the delve into specific interests. If you’re into gaming like I am, you should go to meetups and tournaments. If you’re into sports you should go to watch parties. Etc

    Gamers

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    Gym, Local Groups, Meet-Up App, Bars.

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    black hedi slimane

    what borough r u in ?

    nyc can be rough and lonely it takes time to get adjusted

    lived my whole life and have diff groups of friends and it was hard for me when i was living there

    east ny. Yea It’s tough I kinda follow the underground music scene and see those parties they throw on ig like dm for addy but id feel weird popping out to one of those alone idk

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    black hedi slimane

    we can link up when im back in nyc this summer fr and i can put u on, but im like 21 and in college idk how old r u

    26 gangy according to Ktt ima grandpa

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    Drogon

    Gym, Local Groups, Meet-Up App, Bars.

    Local groups but like what? i was thinking next time Nike has one of those customize your own piece thing I’ll def go but how do I keep track of those events?

  • Apr 24, 2022
    Delete this now

    Gamers

    Xbox? I’m always down 4 destiny or watever

  • Apr 24, 2022
    Nozuka

    Imagine having friends in 2022

    I check up on my day 1s sometimes but they all in different parts of the country now :/

  • lildevastated

    26 gangy according to Ktt ima grandpa

    lmaoo ill be there soon with u brodie

  • Apr 24, 2022
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    Warren Peace

    I feel you @op

    I have the same issue. It’s especially hard for me to find people who I have commonality with. even my existing friends, I feel like we really don’t have anything in common anymore and are only friends bc of the history

    but even when I meet people that I do have similar interests with, it’s still that way. I reconnected with a dude I went to HS with last week and we’re gonna link up to make some music together once I finally have a day off. but even with him, it feels like we don’t have s*** in common outside of liking music

    depressing as f***

    Bro like I can go out like bars or whatever and it always ends in me sticking w a random group and we really be kicking it lol but after we all Uber or catch the train home that’s the end of it