25 y/o just moved to a new tiny town, only friends here are from work lol
only other possible way i see would be to take some kind of class/join a hobby group or someshit
25 y/o just moved to a new tiny town, only friends here are from work lol
only other possible way i see would be to take some kind of class/join a hobby group or someshit
You hang out with your friends outside of work?
Friends in 20s are different so it might feel like you not making friends but really you just don’t know that that’s how friendships work at this age, unless y’all known each other for years it’s different now
Regardless you in your 20s time to start looking for a wife and starting a family old head
I’m just waiting in line at places, or it’s a store clerk, or customers at my job
Just wherever you’re standing around the same people for at least a few minutes it’s a great way to pass the time
You can even make friends
Basically the same dynamic here. The only reason many of us wouldn’t consider each other friends is the physical component
Super good advice. Helps develop the skill of small talk.
You hang out with your friends outside of work?
yeah, been like 1-2 times a week so far
I feel you @op
I have the same issue. It’s especially hard for me to find people who I have commonality with. even my existing friends, I feel like we really don’t have anything in common anymore and are only friends bc of the history
but even when I meet people that I do have similar interests with, it’s still that way. I reconnected with a dude I went to HS with last week and we’re gonna link up to make some music together once I finally have a day off. but even with him, it feels like we don’t have s*** in common outside of liking music
depressing as f***
yeah, been like 1-2 times a week so far
what's the strat? I fw my work homies but to them that's just their B-group so they don't really feel compelled to hang out outside of work
Buying clothes mane I really like to get fly not a brand elitists tho I try to find upcoming brands . Also game a lil bit slapped everybody at my job on halo. And love music but idk if that’s a hobby
Ah if only u were in toronto
what's the strat? I fw my work homies but to them that's just their B-group so they don't really feel compelled to hang out outside of work
im sure im B-group to most of the ppl at work too
kinda just happened honestly. but its a rural area, high turnover and coworkers are all around my age. pretty much goes without say that none of us have friends living around there so we all naturally end up hanging out
in the past tho ive never been shut down when saying we should all grab drinks sometime (at the right place/right time)
what borough r u in ?
nyc can be rough and lonely it takes time to get adjusted
lived my whole life and have diff groups of friends and it was hard for me when i was living there
Buying clothes mane I really like to get fly not a brand elitists tho I try to find upcoming brands . Also game a lil bit slapped everybody at my job on halo. And love music but idk if that’s a hobby
we can link up when im back in nyc this summer fr and i can put u on, but im like 21 and in college idk how old r u
You have the delve into specific interests. If you’re into gaming like I am, you should go to meetups and tournaments. If you’re into sports you should go to watch parties. Etc
Gamers
what borough r u in ?
nyc can be rough and lonely it takes time to get adjusted
lived my whole life and have diff groups of friends and it was hard for me when i was living there
east ny. Yea It’s tough I kinda follow the underground music scene and see those parties they throw on ig like dm for addy but id feel weird popping out to one of those alone idk
we can link up when im back in nyc this summer fr and i can put u on, but im like 21 and in college idk how old r u
26 gangy according to Ktt ima grandpa
Gym, Local Groups, Meet-Up App, Bars.
Local groups but like what? i was thinking next time Nike has one of those customize your own piece thing I’ll def go but how do I keep track of those events?
Imagine having friends in 2022
I check up on my day 1s sometimes but they all in different parts of the country now :/
26 gangy according to Ktt ima grandpa
lmaoo ill be there soon with u brodie
I feel you @op
I have the same issue. It’s especially hard for me to find people who I have commonality with. even my existing friends, I feel like we really don’t have anything in common anymore and are only friends bc of the history
but even when I meet people that I do have similar interests with, it’s still that way. I reconnected with a dude I went to HS with last week and we’re gonna link up to make some music together once I finally have a day off. but even with him, it feels like we don’t have s*** in common outside of liking music
depressing as f***
Bro like I can go out like bars or whatever and it always ends in me sticking w a random group and we really be kicking it lol but after we all Uber or catch the train home that’s the end of it