i'm part of a running group and i found it out via Facebook

lusthill is popping and i know the ppl who run it (a little) but crowds might be too young for u

but the DM FOR ADDY parties can be hit or miss, i can try to point u in the right direction

i used to feen in hs for parties and would end up going to the same decrepitate trap house in brooklyn (i swear by accident) thru those kind of parties lol

it would just be black market weed vendors trapping

weird mix between 30 year old white guys who look like undercovers, teens like me at the time who were too young to be there, niggas from like east nyc , canarsie, brownsville, s*** used to be a mess lol

but dont let that scare u tho bro, its part of the experience, honestly i have great memories at the worst parties ive been to in the city, but thats just me.

follow me back and we can exchange instagram on ktt2.com/messages

im back in the states in june bro just in time for us to have some nutcrackers at wash lol

Last time I had a healthy social life was in about Feb 2020. It was a pretty big work building with a ton of people and thats where I would socialize with my friends and talk to girls at. I was actually just starting to get the hang of talking to girls too and there were so many hotties there

Then COVID hit, sent us all home, and the work became monotonous and insufferable. In 2021 I got a job with some cool people but most were mostly really mean and made my life a living hell for that whole year.

Now I just got another work from home job and the money is great and with a great company, but goddamn man, I'm thinking about voluntarily going into the office. I don't really like bars and clubs, so work was the main opportunity I had to socialize. Wish I could make friends on the internet but I really f***ing suck at that.

Try kava lounges.

You in college?

Lmfaoo this true tho

It’s easy to make friends in school because you see the same people every day.

So as an adult you have to find hobbies where you consistently see the same people.

i’m tryna figure this out

i f***ed up in my teen years and remained isolated of my own doing

In the process of trying to go back, but it’ll be mostly online

I was outside all my teens it’ stopped when I moved to a new city it’s def a learning experience I’m in rn

Try to be on campus as much as possible, sign up for activities on campus, extracurriculars etc, will make it a lot easier for you

Had 2 look that up. U been? how r they?

Go to Coachella, get high, and interact with people

On a serious note, you need to find an activity that you can be social in on a regular basis.

It can be a gym, social club, party scene, job, convention, church, college, social media, etc.

Your social skills will also develop in the process while regularly interacting with people.

Its way better than bars because people aren’t intoxicated and the environment is usually way more chill. Most people are regulars and they just go there to hang out. They usually have their own communities and it helps me get a solid friend group in new cities fast. Kava is euphoric and makes you relaxed and talkative so it’s easier to just chill and talk for hours at these.

That sounds cool fr might have to check one out

This is such a conflicting thing because I agree it’s definitely hard to find genuine friendships in your 20s, but also when you do they are some of the most meaningful relationships. This unfortunately is an era of people choosing aesthetics over relatability (meaning someone is quicker to befriend you because you match their aesthetic and they fetishize the idea of you Vs actually liking you for you) and also an era full of significant social recluse, people who don’t know how to keep a connection longer than a week. The 2 things make things extremely difficult.

You gotta do s*** that involves people.

facts going through this as well

I feel like my thing is I dont wanna come off as annoying, and make a joke and someone takes offense lmao. I love meeting new people too, but they usually come to me first