i went on 2 dates with this guy 1.5 years ago and i ended things because i really wasn't feeling it. the morning after these texts, he was waiting for me in my lobby on my way to class. he tried to beg me for another chance and i said no. for the next 2-3 weeks, i would see him around my neighbourhood, in random cafes and on the street (he lives 45 minutes away and never comes to my area).

a week ago, an instagram account was created that only followed me, and reposted one of my photos on their story, with a circle around my stomach. they also somehow found another account of mine that is not linked to my main and liked photos on it. not sure if this is him, but my boyfriend thinks its likely.

today, i was at mcdonalds, and i saw him. i grabbed my food and literally sprinted out of the building while hyperventilating and ran to a friend's house in case he followed me home (i have relocated since the lobby incident).

Tell the police

secretgarden still putting in that work

bro those texts LMAO

"I'm too nice" LOL

Stay strapped

at first i thought he was joking

afraid they won't take it seriously

How old are both of you?

then you'll be in the same spot as you are now
can't hurt to atleast try and create a report

i was 19 and he was 22

im sorry you’re going through all this op but this is the wrong place to ask for help. prayers up to you tho

i guess you're right

kill him

Start taking pictures and gathering evidence of your routine and your sightings of dude

Basically gather as much physical proof of everything as possible so you can protect yourself

Tell me Ellie, does this man’s name happen to be David?

stay safe OP, bro sounds like a massive weirdo

word of advice if a guy starts doing this sob story bullshit (especially past the age of 17) just cease all communications and do not appease them in the slightest. any kind of reaction you give that they could interpret as positive will only fuel them further. any reaction really.

damn gang he think he joe goldberg idk what to tell u he need to start being himself and honest stop catering to people with this "nice" stuff and get a grip. stay safe god bless

Best is to report him since this is turning into very creepy stalking

Maybe reach out or let your man do it and let him know if he continues stalking, you will report him to police and get restraining order against him. Maybe that will scare him off

Also, carry mace or something like that with you just in case this weirdo acts out

I've been down bad in my time where my self esteem was low and I felt like a loser, thankfully I would just stick to myself and avoid everyone, instead of acting like this dude

YEAH LOL WTF