no one wants me here 😞

I do

"friends" are overrated, trust me, as long as you love yourself you're good, if you meet some genuine good people that's great but you are a complete person on your own

you have to love yourself and be comfortable with yourself first then you're gonna be more open to new situations and life will turn better trust me

shoutsout to true introverts and not people who just have social anxiety (no disrespect to anyone who does, I just have depression lol)

I be mad confident and fine in social situation until, for lack of a better term, my mana bar is depleted and then I gotta dip and spend time alone to recharge.

people exhaust me like nothing else

I’m introverted and have social anxiety (never diagnosed, though). Social anxiety didn’t kick in this hard until more recently, I would say.

I got two jobs to desensitize myself to it, but it looks like things only worsened. I want to quit one of them so much, but I’m afraid it’ll look bad I’m quitting so soon.

i can't wait for winter and snow bro

hi

If you need to quit for your mental health then just do it. You don't owe anyone anything. Just include that somewhere in your resignation letter.

That's not very introverted of you

It's hard because I was never brought up to value my own desires, needs, and independence before others'. There have been many times when I would do something just for the sake of others, but not because I truly want to.

I basically work the full days on weekends since I work both jobs. It's overwhelming, especially when there's so much social anxiety due to certain coworkers and customers.

It's true that nobody truly cares about me, but people are also judgmental.

really started to notice when my gf in high school always wanted us to double date and stuff with her friends i just wanted to chill alone, used to be so awkward on car rides everyone acting obnoxious and im there wondering why i had nothing to say

Now ofc definitely more socially involved in holding conversations but only if i have too

Also in middle school at new school and everyone thought i was weird because i was quiet what they expect, even my teacher used talk s*** because i wasn't a annoying little kid smh

Bad for your self esteem a****** teacher acts that way

this b**** don’t know i like her yet i pay her special attn

I hate that I compare myself to how others are in social situations it just feels like such a gift to be socially good lol

But I legit feel like I’m doing better. Just started a new job and I’ve just put good pressure on myself being funny etc so my co-workers hopefully won’t realise my introverted a bit social awkward side

Is there a way to know if you’re an introvert or an extrovert with social anxiety?

i feel u i always have to keep telling myself not to compare myself to others

@LUNAR like bro i go out my way to hug her talk to her n everything ion talk to no other b****es n she don’t catch the sign

u sure she doesn't know? if u rly into her u gonna have to try even harder i guess :/ 🤷🏽‍♂️

I literally like my Weeknds to myself

Simple things i don't even feel like doing

Feels like it's laziness too at times or im wasting it away.

I just like being away not even messaging people back, not blowing them off just my body sometimes doesn't want to put the effort its its interesting

I can see how people could think that's lonely

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idk what to do bro..

I'm introvert but I feel like ppl think I'm just a a d*ck and dont wanna talk to them

Just dodged a get together tonight