Man I get jealous seeing my friends at parties but idk why I get jealous because I would probably not even go if I was invited
Yes bro this is me every other weekend. It kinda sucks cause it also affects me reaching out to people, like I can ghost them for months then hang out with them a lot, just to go ghost again.
I get you.
I only got 2 things to say.
1) whenever girls say "I thought you hated me?!" it means they lowkey have been interested in you (as a person at least). Just say some s*** like "I gotta keep you on your toes!" with a smile and they'll prolly get wet LMAO.
2) What I was tryna to say before, DON"T USE YOUR PHONE AS A CRUTCH. just sit there and be comfortable with not saying s*** if you don't want to. But be in the conversation as far as looking at who's talking and following the topic. People are NOT weirded out by people being quiet, they're weirded out when they can tell you're uncomfortable. It's really that simple.
So just be happy being Henrik with your own thoughts during social time. You don't owe anybody anything as far as conversation, but you should give them your attention and a positive attitude if you want to be accepted and make friends.
Yeah man. The "I thought u hated me" comment I get isn't bad at all, I get that, but it's the fact that they really thought that. Like for all the people I Don't get to know more - they will always think I hate them lol. Which is like 99% of my high school class although I don't care what they think, but I think it affects my life a bit when people just think I hate them
Rule #1 never share your life outside of work with your co workers. Just do a simple greet and smile and causally joke and keep it moving. Your post is the prime reason you should do that. Share too much information they just gon gossip around on the shift. Which is common sense so I wouldn’t worry too much but if it’s giving you bad vibes then yea get as much money as you can then dip. Your mental health always comes first
Thanks. Sometimes I feel like sharing a bit about my personal life helps us move from acquaintances to friends. People are hesitant to open up, so I have to be the one to initiate. If I'm going to spend a lot of time working with these people, I might as well try to establish a friendly connection with them. That's how I feel about it. Obviously, it doesn't work that way sometimes.
I feel lonely cus idk anyone who I really fw . All my friends are so different to me , idk anyone who is really into music or nerd s*** like me. I used to think it was just me being a introvert but its not really that.
it’s draining to say some funny shyt and they don’t laugh but I try dumb myself down and I really make them laugh u know? It’s like I’m pretending and it’s so draining and I don’t even really enjoy they’re company . I wish I knew someone more like me
I feel lonely cus idk anyone who I really fw . All my friends are so different to me , idk anyone who is really into music or nerd s*** like me. I used to think it was just me being a introvert but its not really that.
it’s draining to say some funny shyt and they don’t laugh but I try dumb myself down and I really make them laugh u know? It’s like I’m pretending and it’s so draining and I don’t even really enjoy they’re company . I wish I knew someone more like me
And this goes for 99% of people I know I swear
I feel lonely cus idk anyone who I really fw . All my friends are so different to me , idk anyone who is really into music or nerd s*** like me. I used to think it was just me being a introvert but its not really that.
it’s draining to say some funny shyt and they don’t laugh but I try dumb myself down and I really make them laugh u know? It’s like I’m pretending and it’s so draining and I don’t even really enjoy they’re company . I wish I knew someone more like me
yea I used to say dumb s*** just to get people to laugh man, but you know its ok to say what you really mean.
Used to think I'm an extrovert because I did love socializing with people, but now I realize I'm extremely introverted. I'm awkward.
I find some of my new coworkers annoying. They're so cliquey. They love talking s*** about people behind their backs. They love laughing about people behind their backs.
Spent this whole weekend working retail at two jobs. Newer job is is mad annoying, man. I'm gonna quit sooner than I originally anticipated because this isn't me. The pay's good, but I get bad vibes from my coworkers.
People are selfish, man. They might talk to you and be nice to you at work, but when everything's done, you don't exist to them.
It's hard for me to even just message people on Snapchat or through texting because I don't know if they're really cool with me like that or if I'm just a bore to them.
Life's too short to worry about that.
I feel lonely cus idk anyone who I really fw . All my friends are so different to me , idk anyone who is really into music or nerd s*** like me. I used to think it was just me being a introvert but its not really that.
it’s draining to say some funny shyt and they don’t laugh but I try dumb myself down and I really make them laugh u know? It’s like I’m pretending and it’s so draining and I don’t even really enjoy they’re company . I wish I knew someone more like me
Embrace YOU being alone with yourself. Know thyself and you will never be alone.
"Peace in my hands worth twice than a friend" - Frank Ocean
chilling and playing video games under a cozy blanket with some hot cocoa during a snowy day >>>>>>>