If youre acting emotionally then that‘s psycho but if youre just emotional whats supposed to be wrong about that

calling him out is fine you don't need to escalate s*** beyond that

say your peace and keep it moving, if you still consider him a friend then make that known or people get the wrong idea

it isn't, although we are human and when the red mist comes down i can relate to how we struggle to contain our composure.

I think it all depends on the right timing

in your case you did what was needed cause it’s something built up

This depends on the company you keep. If being emotionally numb is considered “cool” than maybe you should stop hanging out with people who think not being able to property process and express emotions as a good thing.

People like that are a wreck internally once they finally peel back all of that callousness.

No matter what people say, it's not cool. Always seen as showing weakness. Even when it's praised for "being real", you're seen as impulsive, weak or irrational when the dust settles.