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When u put urself through something intense like that it gives a new perspective on what’s important and what’s not. Also builds confidence/looks and you’ll get more attention so you feel less of a need to be a nice guy. You’ll have more options.
Eh I feel like intense is subjective
I’m sure an “intense workout” gives the same dopamine as a hard boss battle on dark souls or something
Obviously exercising is good for your physical body but I’d argue accomplishing hard tasks in other, non physical areas is better for you mentally
Going to the gym isn’t a bad idea though
There is a negative stigma that surrounds the idea of being a "nice guy"
People who call themselves that are depicted as expecting to be rewarded for doing the bare minimum, which in a way is worse than just being a douche.
At least an a--hole is being true to themselves, whereas nice guys are only putting on an act in the hopes guaranteeing them companionship.
There is a negative stigma that surrounds the idea of being a "nice guy"
People who call themselves that are depicted as expecting to be rewarded for doing the bare minimum, which in a way is worse than just being a douche.
At least an a--hole is being true to themselves, whereas nice guys are only putting on an act in the hopes guaranteeing them companionship.
This isn’t an act
I’m a gentleman through and through and I don’t see myself just miraculously becoming some douchebag butthole
Gauging the replies in here I’d say that being a gentleman just truly is frowned upon nowadays
This isn’t an act
I’m a gentleman through and through and I don’t see myself just miraculously becoming some douchebag butthole
Gauging the replies in here I’d say that being a gentleman just truly is frowned upon nowadays
I didn't say you were, I'm just saying why it's mostly seen as lame to refer to yourself as one.
Saying you're a nice guy is like saying "I'm an adult that knows how to eat food" and expecting cheers.
I didn't say you were, I'm just saying why it's mostly seen as lame to refer to yourself as one.
Saying you're a nice guy is like saying "I'm an adult that knows how to eat food" and expecting cheers.
Well if being rude and misogynistic wasn’t seen as the norm nowadays it wouldn’t be needed to self identify as a nice guy
Look at the chivalry displayed in the 60’s for example, people kept it classy. Nowadays not so much
If being "nice" is what defines your personality you're probably just a bland and boring person tbh
But in general no being kind is not a bad thing, can't be a SIMP tho nonetheless
@op I don't mean to share this in a hateful way, but aren't you gay? I thought this stuff doesn't really happen with y'all
The harsh reality of dating in 2021 is if you’re not 6’5 with a hard body you have to settle for fat chicks
I know too much guys who bagged or in a relationships with hot women for this to be true. Social skills and confidence >>> gym body
Eh I feel like intense is subjective
I’m sure an “intense workout” gives the same dopamine as a hard boss battle on dark souls or something
Obviously exercising is good for your physical body but I’d argue accomplishing hard tasks in other, non physical areas is better for you mentally
Going to the gym isn’t a bad idea though
this is just wrong lol, this isnt how your body works neurochemically
Id tell you to exit the gene pool but judging by this thread you aint never gon be in it
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Bro just be yourself and you'll encounter something worth the wait.
If you are a good person, and u are genuine and well intentioned, just keep meeting people and things should go smooth
this is just wrong lol, this isnt how your body works neurochemically
Being a tad bit facetious here, no?
Bro just be yourself and you'll encounter something worth the wait.
If you are a good person, and u are genuine and well intentioned, just keep meeting people and things should go smooth
Appreciate it
Great outlook
thought it might be a troll thread at first but then i saw who posted it & realized “there’s no way this guy is lying about having trouble dating, look at his post history” so i unlocked it