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    Where do you draw the line between self expression and empty consumerism?

    Everything I wear just happens to be brand new overpriced streetwear/designer pieces?

  • Oct 24, 2023
    Malafe
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    Where do you draw the line between self expression and empty consumerism?

    Everything I wear just happens to be brand new overpriced streetwear/designer pieces?

    At the bottom of the receipt

  • Oct 24, 2023

    Dressing, art and style is so apart of me at this point, I really don't think about it that deeply anymore. Its just what I do, I know what to buy for myself, I know what I like. Attempting to impress women with clothes will have you looking silly out here tbh.

  • Oct 24, 2023

    if you make it that way i guess it also depends entirely on where you live, if you’re in a metro area or city you can be more confident because of the diversity all around you people are always looking for someone who stands out

  • Oct 24, 2023
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    Post a fit

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    Zokkon

    Post a fit

    Op gonna post himself in a Kenneth Cole sweatsuit

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    gnarlynasty

    Op gonna post himself in a Kenneth Cole sweatsuit

    Denim tears Canadian tuxedo**

  • Oct 24, 2023
    eclass

    Denim tears Canadian tuxedo**

    "Do these chicks not recognize me wearing the latest Denim Tears ensemble, tragic indeed, her loss"

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    My style is just safe silhouettes and wearing mysterious Stussy/Denim Tears/Needles/Kapital/Bare Knuckles/Beams pieces

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    My style is just safe silhouettes and wearing mysterious Stussy/Denim Tears/Needles/Kapital/Bare Knuckles/Beams pieces

    You don't wear Aime Leon Dore?

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    gnarlynasty

    You don't wear Aime Leon Dore?

    Just their clogs and the black pinstripe cardigan. Most of their good stuff is way out of my price range. I'm not paying $800 for a suede shirt

  • Oct 24, 2023
    Malafe

    Just their clogs and the black pinstripe cardigan. Most of their good stuff is way out of my price range. I'm not paying $800 for a suede shirt

    I have a couple of nice shirts from them, and a dope bucket hat in yellow. I feel you on the pricing, but at the same time, compared to other high end brands, their actually not priced that bad. Polo might be slightly more expensive then ALD right now, or their both neck & neck.

    If you want to see a brand with eye popping prices, look up Miu Miu gear.

  • By design yes.

    see what I did there

  • Oct 24, 2023

    no

  • Oct 24, 2023

    sounds like a you problem

  • Oct 24, 2023
    Malafe

    Where do you draw the line between self expression and empty consumerism?

    Everything I wear just happens to be brand new overpriced streetwear/designer pieces?

    That line is drawn depending on how it makes you feel, "empty consumerism" is an expression of how you feel too, it just doesn't come from a very thoughtful or interesting place

    The most thoughtful and interesting people in fashion to me aren't advocating for overconsumption in general, the cost is irrelevant

  • Oct 25, 2023
    Malafe

    Where do you draw the line between self expression and empty consumerism?

    Everything I wear just happens to be brand new overpriced streetwear/designer pieces?

    I kind of feel you on this one and have thought about this a lot.

    Most people just buy whatever they like and throw it away after (less than) a season: the average American wears a piece 7 to 10 times before throwing it away! There’s little sense of style evolution, it’s just a matter of looking trendy to them and thus they discard the clothes as soon as they’re tired of them, which is exactly the mindless consumerism you mentioned. On the contrary, if you’re into fashion, I’d say your style is slowly ever-evolving and thus you’ll occasionally buy a couple of new pieces and sell some old ones. If it’s more about the journey than the destination, you’re not just mindlessly consuming, but a true hobbyist. That’s where I draw the line.

  • Oct 26, 2023
    Malafe

    I feel like an overdressed narcissist flexing on people who don’t give a s*** half the time whenever I post fits on IG

    My goal has always been to look fly and presentable to women with my own personal touch, but I feel like I overshoot my target sometimes and come off as effeminate and intimidating to some people. A lot of women prefer the regular, sweatpants/h&m button up-wearing guy and being the pretty one in the relationship

    I’ve built my identity to a large degree around setting myself apart from others and I’m not totally comfortable with the consequences of that

    why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with someone wearing sweatpants and an H&M button up?

    Put another way – so your aesthetic tastes are filtering out people who are intimidated. Are those people you would want to be with anyways?

    Wear what you want, be who you want, and the people comfortable with who you really are will gravitate. Why worry about who you're pushing away? Start thinking about who you're pulling in.

  • Oct 26, 2023
    Classique

    people that kind of treat fashion like jeopardy like "what is marc jacobs s/s 2001" type s*** are doing too much but if you enjoy fashion and enjoy dressing a certain way you shouldn't really care what people think imo just dress how you like

    this and done.

  • Nov 7, 2023
    gnarlynasty

    Op gonna post himself in a Kenneth Cole sweatsuit

    i just checked kc and denim tears website

  • Nov 7, 2023
    Lord187x

    dont stop

    those are not men in my eyes,

    they are little boys that cant wear anything but a t shirt and shorts.

    we have to up the game as men

    woman hate that their guy dont go as hard as them, i can see it in their faces when they look at me in public and wish i was their man instead of the little boy they are walking with while the woman makes a fire fit but the guy doesnt want to do the same.

    low effort guys dont last long in relationships or their woman definitely have a side dude hitting it how she wished to be hit.

    we are the exception and dont stop

    Get a load of this guy

  • Nov 7, 2023

    I've made the most friends out of fashion, forums and old school campouts than anything else in life so f*** no

  • Nov 7, 2023

    Yes it is but we STILL puttin that s*** on

  • Nov 11, 2023
    Lord187x

    dont stop

    those are not men in my eyes,

    they are little boys that cant wear anything but a t shirt and shorts.

    we have to up the game as men

    woman hate that their guy dont go as hard as them, i can see it in their faces when they look at me in public and wish i was their man instead of the little boy they are walking with while the woman makes a fire fit but the guy doesnt want to do the same.

    low effort guys dont last long in relationships or their woman definitely have a side dude hitting it how she wished to be hit.

    we are the exception and dont stop

    “woman hate that their guy dont go as hard as them, i can see it in their faces when they look at me in public and wish i was their man instead of the little boy they are walking with”

    I feel the same way

    Real one

  • Nov 11, 2023

    Isolate my nuts