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24 year old girls want 30+ year old guys just as much as 30+ year old guy want 24 year old girls

Literally all of my friends who are girls all dated at least one 30-40 year old when they were in their early 20s

The only women who complain about age gaps seem to be 28+ year old women tbh

Got something to say

Everyone gets rejected, you don't have to accept (or internalise) what they tell you whether it's truth or not

There's plenty of women (millions, billions even) that want someone their own age or even younger, telling yourself something to disqualify yourself from going after what you want is never gonna help you!

This has been my experience as well

I mean by this point everybody prob knows that dating apps are 95% filled with psychos and losers

51 and 19 is pretty insane tho

LOL, it wasn't my intention to come across as defeatist or make a broad generalization about what every woman wants... Obviously, people want all sorts of things. My point was the fake outrage online where men get side eyed for pretty much everything at this point, like dating women just a few years younger than them while that's only half the story and people tend to ignore the fact that plenty of women actively seek partners much older than themselves. There's statistical evidence that shows the average age gap in first marriages is roughly four years, the average woman dates older, it's just a fact and it's fairly consistent across countries (some closer to three, others closer to five), some of this dumbass online outrage gets blown way out of proportion making men feel like monsters for something that's literally how the world functions, it's like getting mad at water for being wet

The internet is a fake ass shoot first ask questions later environment. Every bit of nuance died long ago. The faster and louder you react, the more visibility you get and s*** like this is perfect for low cost signaling and engagement farming but it has real life consequences. People seriously need to contain their own lust for attention and personal frustration, stop talking about stuff without context or nuance and stop constantly evaluating other people's personal choices, like f***ing mind your own business

keep in mind that whatever type of outrage exists out there its specific to western-influenced, english-speaking, and even more precisely american world

should be banned for sharing a AmIOverreacting post

op got way worse threads he shoulda been banned for

I would carry immense shame if I raised a son who turn into d*** police…

Bruh, I get what u saying, I may even agree, but “online outrage” aren’t real issues.

No one actually cares. I’ve never heard anyone complain about this in person. You seem passionate, and have a strong opinion, but this ain’t a worthy target…

using "weird" in an argument makes me so mad

yea I mean it's complex and extremely hard to quantify, you're right that most people are just living their lives and don't think in the hyper ideological terms you see online but I still feel there are consequences, the whole gender war dynamic was largely incubated on the internet, it doesn't dominate real life behavior but it's dangerous background noise that birthed radical voices on both sides and it absolutely shapes the psychological background a lot of people operate in, I think the internet def makes a lotta men and women second guess their preferences, question their self worth (ig and dating apps are cancer), reevaluate what's considered "normal" or problematic, what is appropriate to say, etc. it's not an irl majority but it doesn't exist in a vacuum either

also keep in mind we grew up before the internet fully shaped our identity, I'm a lot more pessimistic about gen alpha tbh

I’m 30 and routinely get mistaken for 19-20.
Don’t know what the f*** to do tbh.

Don’t let these women trick you. Get a bit of age, get your money up, get a younger woman. That’s how it should be.

Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do.

Is it fair or reasonable to point out the fact that Kai Cenat has really fell in love with reading as he kept going after his timer went off 😭😭

So

the concept of a 50+ year-old man wanting to date women in their 40s and 50s but he doesn't have the competitive requirements so... he dates a 19-year-old instead (??????)

Mfs dumb ashit lol

51 to 19 has NO explanation

The reason you don't see 60 year old women with 23 year old guys is that the guy doesn't want them. But some 23 year old girls want a 60 year old guy so what's the problem.

I have way worse threads than this but I really don’t think I deserve to have been banned for any of them

you're right

She could have been in her late 20s, or a few years older than him , the point is that we shouldn’t be projecting our own personal standards for dating partners onto others or shaming them for not meeting those requirements, many of us are desperate to have someone to love and be loved by and should be judged by the way we treat our wives and girlfriends and not arbitrary notions of exploitative dynamics where they may not even exist