I noticed it is hard to find genuine friends that care about you. If a friend knows you are doing wrong they tell you straight up. Why is it hard to find good friends in life.

Takes a lot of consistency to have good adult friendships

Personally I like napping after work and that makes finding consistent time with friends or potential friends very hard lol

Yeah. You risk something being honest with people you care about. There's potential conflict and confrontation involved. Most aren't capable of doing it.

That's why it's so important to hold onto the ones who will tell you when you're f***ing up.

Reminds me of one of my favorite Neil Young verses:

But the subways are empty
And so are the cafes
Except for the farmer's market
And I still can hear him say
You're all just pissin' in the wind
You don't know it but you are
And there ain't nothin' like a friend
Who can tell you you're just pissin' in the wind

discovered one today

I never take for granted how lucky i am to have had the same friend group since childhood as a grown man

Its not hard, in my experience the hard part is you believing that they care about you.

op is

real

def don’t take that for granted, i’m jealous of people like you lol

No

How long do you nap for? What are the benefits for you?

friends are useless. become a lone wolf

Same it’s really special and I feel very lucky

My tire blew up on my work truck on the way home from work yesterday, called my boy and he was there to scoop me within 20 mins real friends are amazing to have

I don’t really do it for any benefits, maybe 1-2 hours. I’m just tired after work and wanna rest before I enjoy my later evening

I used to do the same after coming home from classes

Don’t sleep through life

I’m an old ass man in a young persons body tbh

If I don’t nap I’m cranky as s*** or can’t pay attention to anything

A lot of friendships require time to develop trust

energy is real

surround yourself with the right people in the right spaces

It's hard enough to have friends at all, so have ones who care about you... lmao

It’s hard to find people who care about anyone other than themselves.

My mom consistently told me when I was a teenager that: You find out who's your real friends as you get older. It's been true to this day and I realized I have three friends I can count on for anything. Check on me and I check on them. I can talk about anything with either without judgement but get real feedback.

I'm socially tapped out after work and both understand we're adults and don't have to talk everyday to understand we're friends. We can go months without talking and know it's no hard feelings. When we do connect the energy is unimaginable and it's usually a highlight of my week/month/year.

Imo it become easy to make friends as an adult with experience you start to notice who actually cares about how you feel and vice versa. You can tell when someone is just their for their own selfish reasons and it's a hell of a lot easier to cut those kind of people off.

Hell yea

more luck based

but its not difficult, usually

meet them as you do the things you like to do

!dream furry lone wolf all alone

Facts. Not many friends care for one another. Like if they see you on a wrong path or doing wrong they confront you.