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  • Dec 8, 2019

    So when I’m high, I become the biggest mute of all time. I'll be kinda engaged in any group convos going on, but I will most likely not say a peep unless its to someone I know. But if you catch me sober or drunk, I’m a social butterfly (if I’m in a good mood).

    So if I’m like this, is it kinda weird to others?

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    I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know

  • Dec 8, 2019

    Extroverts often don't understand quiet people. They're going to judge, but it shouldn't matter. Don't worry about it. You don't owe anyone anything as long as you're polite and respectful.

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    BVL

    I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know

    That s*** is horrible bro

  • Dec 8, 2019

    nah, i'm the same way. weed and psychs really make it hard for me to talk but most people understand if they know. worst case they judge or laugh at u but i just learned not to care

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    HITSLIKEDIETCOKE

    That s*** is horrible bro

    yea man... the girl im talking to wanted me to come meet her friends and there was like 4 of them and I was just standing there awkwardly

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    BVL

    I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know

    I need to work on functioning when I’m high but I just be so lazy and worried about talking outta turn lol

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    i feel like its only weird if youre aware of it

    some people just be vibin

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    Known Loner

    I need to work on functioning when I’m high but I just be so lazy and worried about talking outta turn lol

    when im high I become more social for me

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    BVL

    when im high I become more social for me

    Thats crazy lol

  • BVL

    yea man... the girl im talking to wanted me to come meet her friends and there was like 4 of them and I was just standing there awkwardly

    Oh s*** that's happened to me. They just start bird talking and I'm just there like ....

  • Dec 8, 2019

    one of the reasons i dont smoke or drink.. on some great gatsby s*** you'll never get caught lackin

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    small talk is trash.

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    Like I was out and I feel like this girl wanted to talk to me. Sober or drunk me woulda said wassup. High me just forgot she was beside me

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    VOTE FOR KANYE

    small talk is trash.

    I’ve come to like it. Idk maybe I’ve just come to actually like talking a lot more than I used to (with people I don’t know)

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    BVL

    I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know

    idk if anyone else can relate

    but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off

    they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.

    same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things

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    Tigre

    idk if anyone else can relate

    but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off

    they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.

    same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things

    Felt that

  • Dec 8, 2019

    and honestly no, u can stay quiet an entire night and still not be weird.

    just be involved, laugh at a joke, nod ur head and what not. sure someone might wonder why u arent talking but just assure them ur having a good time regardless.

    just dont look like u dont wanna be there cause you'll drain everyones energy as well.

  • Dec 8, 2019

    Not really tbh
    Sometimes I talk sometimes I don’t

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    Tigre

    idk if anyone else can relate

    but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off

    they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.

    same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things

    idk I feel like I have to watch what I say tbh... like If I dont really know the people, I have to act different or they will not like me or something

  • Dec 8, 2019

    Yes it's weird.

  • lucid 🌹
    Dec 8, 2019

    no, most outside convos aren't worth s*** to me.

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    There's an art to that small talk s*** that I need to work out, on God

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    HITSLIKEDIETCOKE

    There's an art to that small talk s*** that I need to work out, on God

    S*** easy when I’m sober. I just overthink high

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    BVL

    I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know

    I be trying extra hard around strangers cuz I get this feeling too but they never reciprocate

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