So when I’m high, I become the biggest mute of all time. I'll be kinda engaged in any group convos going on, but I will most likely not say a peep unless its to someone I know. But if you catch me sober or drunk, I’m a social butterfly (if I’m in a good mood).
So if I’m like this, is it kinda weird to others?
I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know
Extroverts often don't understand quiet people. They're going to judge, but it shouldn't matter. Don't worry about it. You don't owe anyone anything as long as you're polite and respectful.
I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know
That s*** is horrible bro
nah, i'm the same way. weed and psychs really make it hard for me to talk but most people understand if they know. worst case they judge or laugh at u but i just learned not to care
That s*** is horrible bro
yea man... the girl im talking to wanted me to come meet her friends and there was like 4 of them and I was just standing there awkwardly
I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know
I need to work on functioning when I’m high but I just be so lazy and worried about talking outta turn lol
i feel like its only weird if youre aware of it
some people just be vibin
I need to work on functioning when I’m high but I just be so lazy and worried about talking outta turn lol
when im high I become more social for me
yea man... the girl im talking to wanted me to come meet her friends and there was like 4 of them and I was just standing there awkwardly
Oh s*** that's happened to me. They just start bird talking and I'm just there like ....
one of the reasons i dont smoke or drink.. on some great gatsby s*** you'll never get caught lackin
Like I was out and I feel like this girl wanted to talk to me. Sober or drunk me woulda said wassup. High me just forgot she was beside me
small talk is trash.
I’ve come to like it. Idk maybe I’ve just come to actually like talking a lot more than I used to (with people I don’t know)
I feel like im awkward and weird when I dont talk when im in a group of people that I dont really know
idk if anyone else can relate
but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off
they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.
same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things
idk if anyone else can relate
but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off
they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.
same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things
Felt that
and honestly no, u can stay quiet an entire night and still not be weird.
just be involved, laugh at a joke, nod ur head and what not. sure someone might wonder why u arent talking but just assure them ur having a good time regardless.
just dont look like u dont wanna be there cause you'll drain everyones energy as well.
idk if anyone else can relate
but Im less anxious when around strangers/new acquaintances mainly cause I feel less self aware, all the pressures off
they dont know me so whatever I say wont sound like its "not me" or that im trying hard etc.
same way a friend can instantly tell when ur going out of ur way to impress someone, or sound funny etc. strangers dont notice those things
idk I feel like I have to watch what I say tbh... like If I dont really know the people, I have to act different or they will not like me or something
no, most outside convos aren't worth s*** to me.
There's an art to that small talk s*** that I need to work out, on God
S*** easy when I’m sober. I just overthink high