I mean it’s levels to this s*** no? It’s not really “you either love yourself or you don’t” I would say most people probably exist in a state of flux between “hate myself” and “loving myself more everyday” yno? I genuinely love myself and find myself to be legitimately sexy and beautiful after years of hating on myself and being degraded (I grew up as and still for the most part am a bigger dude) so I can definitely say the s*** is real