I used to be a lot less self aware. I've said some really disrespectful things to people. I've been feeling really convicted looking at people's social media, it's only like a couple of people. I've apologized to a few people though because I feel like it's not risky and appropriate.

Say sorry.

No

Just move on and leave it in the past

People probably moved on it’d be kinda corny to go back to apologize just learn from your lessons and keep on w life

flackojodye is one of the dumbest posters on the site, so if he says move on, you DEFINITELY know that’s the wrong advice

Imagine caring this much after so long

Too busy building my future to pay attention to the past

I feel you op, can be a humbling experience if you deliver it in the right way. If you need it for closure, then I don't see the harm in apologizing. Worst case these people read a message, oh well. But as long as it's sincere and isn't too pitiful, you're gucci

If you wronged someone they won’t care if you apologize

They gonna think you want something from them

the fact that you’re even asking means you’re insincere with your apology, ur only apologizing because u feel guilty and need to absolve yourself from that guilt

I mean how long ago was it ? If it was a couple months depending on how severe go for it, it it was like year plus then nah

They definitely want something alright

Do whatever will make you feel better, the people I have done wrong all pushed me out their life and I have no means of contacting them. I know my faults and yea sure I would apologize if I could but it doesnt eat me up that I cant

@skepta wonderim the same thing rn. like I ain’t necessarily do something wrong to them like hurt physyically or say mean s*** but I just like kinda ignored them (because I thought they was ignoring me). and like I try to get back in their life recently but I f***ed it up after like 4 days again, so I’m kinda plannin to airdrop them one of my notes pages whenever I see them next that just explains my mental headspace n why I do the things I do. And talk about how I still want them in my life but If they not tryna experience that cuz of how I was in the past then that’s cool too cuz they already gave me hella chances and I prob already gave the last straw that broke the back etc. U think this a good idea or trash? (either way imma do it prolly cuz like the whole time I knew them I have communication problems cuz I’m p**** with talkin bout s*** smh and it’s lowkey simp but I mean f*** it, at minimum they’ll have closure for why I did my actions)

You have to actually think it through and have empathy. If they've moved on, and it could potentially open up old wounds, then obviously don't do it.

I think if you want to have a relationship with them or you want to better your relationship with them, then yes. If not, it doesn’t make much of a difference

My name is earl headass

Exactly

and I’m gettin hate itt

you might be right. the people I've already apologized to I've really put myself in there shoes and really care for their wellbeing. I definitely do think feeling guilty is usually the source but if I think me apologizing helps your well being I definitely will apologize. With that being said I don't know if me apologizing months later to someone will help their well being or bring up old memories

just say sorry if you've had any interaction or contact in the past two months. I've just been saying basically that I'm sorry if I made them feel any type of way and then say what I'm sorry for

I mean yea we had contact but sorry ain’t finna cut it with her fam. like I been said sorry hella times but my actions ain’t change is the problem. and like in the past month a whole bunch of new s*** came up that f***ed it all up. but like the entire thing I’m writing is basically what I’m sorry for. Bro I was in a relationship with her for 11 months on n off (first girl I did anything with ever), and the only time we had s***was when she took my virginity. I never initiated (cuz she was always on her phone when we together and I figured she distracted n would rather be on phone), and made her feel mad undesirable n s***. then we hung out 3 times beginning of July and I piped 2/3 times (way better record now lol, and better at initiating and reading the situation). I’m such a dumbass for that tho

I think you should still apologize to be honest might work you dont have to get back with her though sounds like a toxic relationship so far

I mean yea I’m 100% apologize when I see her next. And imma
Leave it up to her if she wanna try again or not. And she got borderline personality disorder, do u think that got an influence on it too? And I know it’s toxic (and she acknowledges she was toxic to me in the past) but tbh I think mostly it was like that cuz I didn’t f*** her at all or do anything intimate with her cuz I was so shy n nervous to initiate

apologize then find better king you f***ing her the whole time would've barely made a difference