Jul 8, 2023·2 replieslike he is insecure as f*** but no reason to leak all of these specific text and put us in the situation. She could easily say don't date an insecure man that ask you to take photos down in anyway. I don't want to in anyway make excuses for him or look like I am coming down on her but why was she at any point being like "yes I took 3 photos down" then doing this. her boundary she would set is saying "no this is bullshit or hey can you be specific from beginning or hey this is insecurity " vs doing all this
Jul 8, 2023·2 repliesHaroldsChickenlol wild this in movie section but the term boundaries is being used in so many different wants recently when its really just insecurity, anxiety and stuff.
Like the true boundary is cheating the other things that makes you think someone is cheating on you isn't boundaries its need to chill on the coke . Its being vulnerable and communicating or recognizing why someone would want to leave in the first place
But I am warry @insertcoolnamehere of calling him a psycho, misogynist, narcissist when its really just insecurity. Can call it manipulation all of those things its fair but this likely isn't the first time he has brought these insecurities or whatever up. Its also manipulation to reveal text out of context in a relationship or larger situation the internet is not a part of . That is all I am saying in the sense Jonah Hill isn't saying something leak worthy in the terms of immediate harm or directly lying or pertinent s***. he is insecure don't get me wrong
Exactly. Everyone can see it comes from an insecure place, and yes it looks dumb to US because we don’t have those insecurities he has.
- Jul 8, 2023
Its wildly insecure again don't get me wrong but there is much more serious abuse out there than " stop posting your ass on instagram for likes from men"
Jul 8, 2023
Oblivion XList is stupid but it's not like he forced her to do those things, he gave her the option. She didn't like it and left, that's really all there is to it lol
Niggas getting mad for no reason. he told her his boundaries and said if she aint with it then she can leave.
Jul 8, 2023im about to watch all his movies now
Jul 8, 2023·1 replyLike that text reads like he's already aware of what she's about. So if he already knows that, why even try to get with her?
Jul 8, 2023HaroldsChickenlol wild this in movie section but the term boundaries is being used in so many different wants recently when its really just insecurity, anxiety and stuff.
Like the true boundary is cheating the other things that makes you think someone is cheating on you isn't boundaries its need to chill on the coke . Its being vulnerable and communicating or recognizing why someone would want to leave in the first place
But I am warry @insertcoolnamehere of calling him a psycho, misogynist, narcissist when its really just insecurity. Can call it manipulation all of those things its fair but this likely isn't the first time he has brought these insecurities or whatever up. Its also manipulation to reveal text out of context in a relationship or larger situation the internet is not a part of . That is all I am saying in the sense Jonah Hill isn't saying something leak worthy in the terms of immediate harm or directly lying or pertinent s***. he is insecure don't get me wrong
He's being a lil bytch
Jul 8, 2023·1 replyOscar WinnerExactly. Everyone can see it comes from an insecure place, and yes it looks dumb to US because we don’t have those insecurities he has.
just bcuz there's a clear reason for it doesn't make it any more justified tho
Jul 8, 2023he real asf
Jul 8, 2023HaroldsChickenlike he is insecure as f*** but no reason to leak all of these specific text and put us in the situation. She could easily say don't date an insecure man that ask you to take photos down in anyway. I don't want to in anyway make excuses for him or look like I am coming down on her but why was she at any point being like "yes I took 3 photos down" then doing this. her boundary she would set is saying "no this is bullshit or hey can you be specific from beginning or hey this is insecurity " vs doing all this
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Jul 8, 2023·2 repliesHaroldsChickenlol wild this in movie section but the term boundaries is being used in so many different wants recently when its really just insecurity, anxiety and stuff.
Like the true boundary is cheating the other things that makes you think someone is cheating on you isn't boundaries its need to chill on the coke . Its being vulnerable and communicating or recognizing why someone would want to leave in the first place
But I am warry @insertcoolnamehere of calling him a psycho, misogynist, narcissist when its really just insecurity. Can call it manipulation all of those things its fair but this likely isn't the first time he has brought these insecurities or whatever up. Its also manipulation to reveal text out of context in a relationship or larger situation the internet is not a part of . That is all I am saying in the sense Jonah Hill isn't saying something leak worthy in the terms of immediate harm or directly lying or pertinent s***. he is insecure don't get me wrong
narcissist meaning someone that thinks of themselves as higher importance.
in one of the messages in the thread he says that time spent surfing is time away from him. In that example, he is putting himself over something that she has probably been into long before jonah even got into her life, probably long before she even watched a movie of his.
That is textbook narcissism. And as an artist I see this with a lot of folks that think they can put themselves above someone's passion that they've been into all their lives (women be doing this a lot if they nigga's an artist truss me lol) and then putting ultimatums on the relationship vs. their lifelong passions.
That's manipulation and narcissist. And maybe I'm biased cause I've seen/been through this but I'm 1000% calling anybody man or woman psycho that has this mentality
- Jul 8, 2023·3 replies
oh god we in paragraph mode
- Jul 8, 2023·3 repliesSmacked Voodoo
....so why even pursue her in the first place?
Not defending him pursuing a surfer and not wanting her to post sexy surf pics. That’s between them and we have no idea how they met or hit it off for this to even be the situation.
My only point is he is entitled to his boundaries, weird as they may be. If she doesn’t like it then she can leave. She isn’t entitled to being able to break his boundaries, just as much as he isn’t entitled to forcing someone into his.
I would disagree with the sentiment more if he was attempting to force it on her or was being verbally or physically abusive to get the result he wanted. He just spoke his mind and gave her the choice, and she chose to leave. /thread
Jul 8, 2023frenchpressoh god we in paragraph mode
- Jul 8, 2023brutallust
just bcuz there's a clear reason for it doesn't make it any more justified tho
Him having weird boundaries isn’t gonna be justifiable to us, and neither is her posting these text messages.
- Jul 8, 2023·1 replyHaroldsChicken
like he is insecure as f*** but no reason to leak all of these specific text and put us in the situation. She could easily say don't date an insecure man that ask you to take photos down in anyway. I don't want to in anyway make excuses for him or look like I am coming down on her but why was she at any point being like "yes I took 3 photos down" then doing this. her boundary she would set is saying "no this is bullshit or hey can you be specific from beginning or hey this is insecurity " vs doing all this
I don't want to in anyway make excuses for him or look like I am coming down on her
you aint doing such a good job there my guy
- Jul 8, 2023frenchpress
oh god we in paragraph mode
I must leave ktt
- Jul 8, 2023Zezima
Not defending him pursuing a surfer and not wanting her to post sexy surf pics. That’s between them and we have no idea how they met or hit it off for this to even be the situation.
My only point is he is entitled to his boundaries, weird as they may be. If she doesn’t like it then she can leave. She isn’t entitled to being able to break his boundaries, just as much as he isn’t entitled to forcing someone into his.
I would disagree with the sentiment more if he was attempting to force it on her or was being verbally or physically abusive to get the result he wanted. He just spoke his mind and gave her the choice, and she chose to leave. /thread
Maybe re-read "misuse of boundaries"...
Jul 8, 2023
- Jul 8, 2023·3 replies
its simple ur either team jonah or team adam22
Jul 8, 2023·1 replyProjecteurLiberal society obsessed with therapy talk is all about “setting boundaries” because that’s healthy.
Man sets boundaries.
Liberals call him out and try to attack him on his masculinity.That's not what setting boundaries mean per psychologists
- Jul 8, 2023Theory Talk Trader
Jul 8, 2023·4 repliesthe man smashed Lauren London
pretty sure he’s doing something right
Jul 8, 2023she should respect his boundaries
- Jul 8, 2023DonutHole
That's not what setting boundaries mean per psychologists
niggas be doing bad faith arguments as a gimmick full time on this site dawg