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  • Zezima

    Not defending him pursuing a surfer and not wanting her to post sexy surf pics. That’s between them and we have no idea how they met or hit it off for this to even be the situation.

    My only point is he is entitled to his boundaries, weird as they may be. If she doesn’t like it then she can leave. She isn’t entitled to being able to break his boundaries, just as much as he isn’t entitled to forcing someone into his.

    I would disagree with the sentiment more if he was attempting to force it on her or was being verbally or physically abusive to get the result he wanted. He just spoke his mind and gave her the choice, and she chose to leave. /thread

    Bro looking for a Mary Poppins type.

    Also, pretty ironic how he slid into her DMs over the same surfer pics. To her, it's prolly another Tuesday, but to him it's 😍😍😍🥰😘🥵🥵🥵🥶🥶

  • Pinhead

    the man smashed Lauren London

    pretty sure he’s doing something right

    CGI iirc

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Oscar Winner

    Exactly. Everyone can see it comes from an insecure place, and yes it looks dumb to US because we don’t have those insecurities he has.

    Outting him like this when I expected full on abuse in some form. Obviously yes this is still psychological and STILL BAD but she can leave. She can set a boundary and be like "damn you are insecure we are done" . With guys like this THIS WAS NOT THE FIRST TIME HE WAS INSECURE OR THAT THIS WAS COMMUNICATED TO HER IN SOME FORM. She had so many chances to leave. She just wanted it in text to down him on the internet and get support. Someone giving someone an option and things to do although again in this case stupid and insecure as f*** is being clear

    "I want to show them my best surfing videos" lol like Jonah Hill wants a partner who is less engaged with social media and getting likes in general it seems while also balancing what makes her happy. Cause he likely has been cheated on. Men like things on instagram to show we watching or to eventually get in dms sometimes. most men aren't liking a photo on instagram because of their love for surfing

    Jonah has been super reserved photo wise since he lost weight and everything he has insecurities. He is a human being so now demonnizing him like he hit or her or did something wild when really he is hyper fixated on cheating or too much male attention is like come on.

    The guy with the Usher situation was funny though

  • Jul 8, 2023

    Jfc what a clown

  • Jul 8, 2023

    It’s only a misuse cause she doesn’t agree with his subjective boundaries. It’s not a misuse in my eyes, even if I don’t agree with his points, which I don’t, but that’s his prerogative and he is entitled to it, just like she is entitled to leave if she doesn’t like it. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Smacked Voodoo

    Like that text reads like he's already aware of what she's about. So if he already knows that, why even try to get with her?

    Stuff like this happens all the time.

    Man pursues a “hoe” and gets mad she’s still a hoe.

    Woman pursues a nigga who’s a rapper then gets mad about his rapper lifestyle she knew about prior.

    It’s the “can’t turn a hoe into a housewife” mentality.

    And no that’s not me calling this girl a hoe, at all, I’m saying the “figure of speech” represents a mentality of people getting with someone in hopes they’ll “change” once in a relationship…even tho the need to “change” is dumb af, especially here.

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Like there's a very clear cut difference between setting boundaries and tryna put rules on somebody. It's extremely clear that's the point she is getting at. But it should never be a surprise that KTT misses something so simple and obvious.

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    insertcoolnamehere

    damn it's almost like she

    LOVED the nigga.

    They were barely dating at that point no ?

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    1st world melodramatic abuse lol. Just leave the dude, god you don’t have to try to get people cancelled just cause you don’t agree with them. Jesus

  • Jul 8, 2023
    maxx

    its simple ur either team jonah or team adam22

    Lmaooooooo….nah this post Wild funny

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Oblivion X

    They were barely dating at that point no ?

    if jonah is sending texts upon texts of guidelines it must've still been important enough to both of em lol

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Q3D

    Of course ktt users find something to defend here

    They love their white men

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Zezima

    1st world melodramatic abuse lol. Just leave the dude, god you don’t have to try to get people cancelled just cause you don’t agree with them. Jesus

    He'll be fine lmao

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Pinhead

    the man smashed Lauren London

    pretty sure he’s doing something right

    The same Lauren London that wanted them to CGI their kissing scenes so she wouldn’t have to actually kiss him?

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    If you feel insecure that your girl surfs with some guys, then I have bad news for you but the relationship is dead on arrival.

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Pinhead

    the man smashed Lauren London

    pretty sure he’s doing something right

    That's her L cus clearly the nigga is a bozo

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Oblivion X

    Hows that forcing her, that's giving her an option to do it or not. Forcing her would be making her do it without giving her the option to leave

    Bro but they had been in a relationship months before that giant list…I searched and they went “IG official” September 2021….that list was December 2021

    They were in the middle of the relationship …in love with eachother and he randomly went thru her IG and told her to delete a bunch of pics…of course she’s gonna feel pressured to comply…she doesn’t want the relationship to end

    I hate the over use of the word but…That is manipulative

    How tf you gonna date a surfer and then get mad when they continue to surf and post themselves surfing plus the bathing suits aren’t even extra

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    aglow

    If you feel insecure that your girl surfs with some guys, then I have bad news for you but the relationship is dead on arrival.

    When your girl interacts with someone else

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    insertcoolnamehere

    I don't want to in anyway make excuses for him or look like I am coming down on her

    you aint doing such a good job there my guy

    this is a two sides thing of both being humans in a relationship I am not in. In a relationship I am saying he has communicated his insecurity surely many times . I have seen relationships like this play out plenty of times. They COULD AND SHOULD BOTH LEAVE EACH OTHER IF THEIR INSECURITIES ARE NOT CONGRUENT.

    in relationships like this their personalities and insecurities simply dont match. Their lifestyles dont match. lol I have seen it play out . I have never been bothered by what a woman wears but have seen men that are insecure yet they stay or women who know their man is insecure and pushes it farther rather than JUST BREAK UP

    no one was forcing her to date jonah hill and jonah hill like "this is my boundary" even though my boundaries tend to be less superficial if the nigga said thats his boundary otherwise we need to break up he is being honest. You can't take his boundary and throw it against him on the internet NOW NIGGA EVEN MORE INSECURE AND WONT SAY S***

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Smacked Voodoo

    Like there's a very clear cut difference between setting boundaries and tryna put rules on somebody. It's extremely clear that's the point she is getting at. But it should never be a surprise that KTT misses something so simple and obvious.

    I be forgetting lot of people don't be that adjusted to the real world or to the perils that the opposite gender goes through.

    and some people just be in they devil's advocate bag when they clearly smart and knowledgable enough to know what the problem is here ( @ShintaroKago love you bro but this obtuse s*** you be doing is aggravating lmao)

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    Regardless how you feel about what he said posting that s*** publicly is so wack

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    Let’s just be real, men will always be seen as wrong regardless of how things go down in 2023. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • Jul 8, 2023
    Zezima

    Not defending him pursuing a surfer and not wanting her to post sexy surf pics. That’s between them and we have no idea how they met or hit it off for this to even be the situation.

    My only point is he is entitled to his boundaries, weird as they may be. If she doesn’t like it then she can leave. She isn’t entitled to being able to break his boundaries, just as much as he isn’t entitled to forcing someone into his.

    I would disagree with the sentiment more if he was attempting to force it on her or was being verbally or physically abusive to get the result he wanted. He just spoke his mind and gave her the choice, and she chose to leave. /thread

    The problem here is wanting to control another person instead of addressing his insecurities

    He was definitely ok with the pics being up for his entertainment, then courted her and then told her to change who she is/what she does/her social circle (big red flag that's screams abuser per psychologists/experts) if she wanted to be in a relationship with him. She did do some of those things because for whatever reason( humans are irrational especially when it comes to our desires)

    Him even opening that door says ALOT.

    Again this isn't about boundaries, y'all need to stop using it in this context because it doesn't fit
    What were being notified of here is a situation of CONTROL. The end.

  • Jul 8, 2023
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    HaroldsChicken

    this is a two sides thing of both being humans in a relationship I am not in. In a relationship I am saying he has communicated his insecurity surely many times . I have seen relationships like this play out plenty of times. They COULD AND SHOULD BOTH LEAVE EACH OTHER IF THEIR INSECURITIES ARE NOT CONGRUENT.

    in relationships like this their personalities and insecurities simply dont match. Their lifestyles dont match. lol I have seen it play out . I have never been bothered by what a woman wears but have seen men that are insecure yet they stay or women who know their man is insecure and pushes it farther rather than JUST BREAK UP

    no one was forcing her to date jonah hill and jonah hill like "this is my boundary" even though my boundaries tend to be less superficial if the nigga said thats his boundary otherwise we need to break up he is being honest. You can't take his boundary and throw it against him on the internet NOW NIGGA EVEN MORE INSECURE AND WONT SAY S***

    Respectfully, if a woman simply just interacting with another man makes you that insecure, jonah should probably just not say s*** and keep a 15 mile radius away from all woman romantically for a minimum of 3 years.

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