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  • Apr 10, 2022
    fun

    you been in here 46 pages on a Sunday

    go take care of your family you deadbeat

    was on page 3 and could already tell he was gonna be on page 47 still talking

  • Apr 10, 2022
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    Ooo

    Because one is a child the other is a grown adult. Are you dumb?one gets spanked for doing something they know is wrong. The other is an adult that you can talk to.

    I know you like to sound smart Cookies but nothing you said that is supposed to separate those situations is actually unique to the persons in question

  • Apr 10, 2022
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    blonded

    The point was figuring out why people think it's OK to hit their kid but not a girlfriend if you justify it the same way you do with spanking

    Depending on how you justify it the conversation changes. If you think you have the right to hit your kid because you brought them into the world then we talk about how there's all this stuff that goes against spanking

    But shaq and a lot of others mainly arguing off of emotion in here (which is understandable given the topic), like you got people saying that kids will literally never listen to discipline unless it's physical when this just isn't true

    I feel like they’re separate topics. You may have to discipline your child. Remove whooping and apply timeouts and taking their phone/tv/gaming console etc.

    You wouldn’t take their belongings away from them because they did something. I do understand what you’re getting at but I personally see them differently because the relationships aren’t the same.

    To the last point it’s wrong because it doesn’t always have to get to that point. Some things honestly doesn’t require anything but a talk. A popping should be the last resort.

  • Apr 10, 2022
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    blonded

    I know you like to sound smart Cookies but nothing you said that is supposed to separate those situations is actually unique to the persons in question

    Lol ok. Nobody cares if you spank your girlfriend. But guess what? No grown adult is gonna sit there and let you whoop them. They get punched and slapped. Actual abuse. That’s not a spanking.

  • Apr 10, 2022
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    Ooo

    Lol ok. Nobody cares if you spank your girlfriend. But guess what? No grown adult is gonna sit there and let you whoop them. They get punched and slapped. Actual abuse. That’s not a spanking.

    You aren't engaging with anything I actually said, you're just talking to talk.

  • Apr 10, 2022
    blonded

    You aren't engaging with anything I actually said, you're just talking to talk.

    Don’t know why I even talk to you tbh. Bye.

  • Apr 10, 2022
    blonded

    The point was figuring out why people think it's OK to hit their kid but not a girlfriend if you justify it the same way you do with spanking

    Depending on how you justify it the conversation changes. If you think you have the right to hit your kid because you brought them into the world then we talk about how there's all this stuff that goes against spanking

    But shaq and a lot of others mainly arguing off of emotion in here (which is understandable given the topic), like you got people saying that kids will literally never listen to discipline unless it's physical when this just isn't true

    My take is that while I personally lean towards not spanking kids I don't think its fair to label parents as abusers for giving out a couple smacks here and there.

    I wouldnt spank my children but I wouldn't judge another father or a mother for spanking theirs as long as they are nott over doing it.

    I think theres ways to say that you disagree with spanking without labeling the parents "shit parents" or abusers.

  • Apr 10, 2022
    A Mad Ass Nigga

    I feel like they’re separate topics. You may have to discipline your child. Remove whooping and apply timeouts and taking their phone/tv/gaming console etc.

    You wouldn’t take their belongings away from them because they did something. I do understand what you’re getting at but I personally see them differently because the relationships aren’t the same.

    To the last point it’s wrong because it doesn’t always have to get to that point. Some things honestly doesn’t require anything but a talk. A popping should be the last resort.

    To me they're the same, regardless of the relationship dynamic (which I agree exists), because I see physical violence inflicted on anyone as fundamentally the same except for rare circumstances like self defence.

    The point of the question was to figure out why people think they're different topics and then continue down that line. But people just want to think I said "well you can hit your kid so I'm going to hit my girlfriend LOL!!" when that wasn't the point of the question. Just another instance of this conversation being heavily emotionally driven. I wasn't trying to get anyone in a weird gotcha moment but just explore why they feel they have a right to physically discipline their child when there's mountains of research showing it's correlated with bad outcomes

  • Apr 10, 2022
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    bejewelry

    Cacs

    @blonded @americana

    theres no way in hell you're calling someone a c***when yesterday you were saying how you were ashamed to be Pakistani and were glad that you were white passing

  • Apr 10, 2022
    fun

    theres no way in hell you're calling someone a c***when yesterday you were saying how you were ashamed to be Pakistani and were glad that you were white passing

    Lmao u dont know me b**** dont quote me, i literally troll here 99% of the time

  • Apr 10, 2022
    fun

    theres no way in hell you're calling someone a c***when yesterday you were saying how you were ashamed to be Pakistani and were glad that you were white passing

    😭😭😭😭

  • Apr 10, 2022
    A Mad Ass Nigga

    Y’all gotta stop tryna get these type of jokes off on @Mace too. Stop coming for his parenting. Brah could be a father of the year type nigga but y’all tryna get jokes off because of his stance.

  • Apr 10, 2022

    The real question is, why are you writing a letter to you're mother's dead lover whom had he been alive would mean you wouldn't even exist.

    Be glad you exist and let your mother mourn her love life.

    Makes no f***ing sense to mourn him like some long lost friend of yours. Goofy ass family.

  • Apr 11, 2022

    " I woulda whooped her STOOPID assss"

  • Apr 11, 2022
    DevilOrAngelFM

    This why I can’t do social media, everyone wants to give their opinion on a topic and when people start disagreeing with you they’ll dig their heels on the “side” they’re taking, troll/say hurtful things simply by projection, and be purposefully obtuse and take every comment out of context and read what they wanna read to fit their narrative or whatever point they wanna get across

    Half the motherfuckers in here trying to take some moral high ground aren’t 1/2 as passionate about this topic as they seem, they just want to say “I’m right, you’re wrong”

    Always the same posters too.

    Mfs never stop lol lil speech debate experts

  • Apr 11, 2022
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    I'm trusting the Bible on this topic. Don't spare the rod. Or else that child will turn into a piece of s*** when they get older

  • It's not rocket science

  • Apr 11, 2022

    Not reading but I commend him for consistently proving that internet butthurt is just internet butthurt lol

    Nigga stay saying s*** that should be career ending

  • Apr 11, 2022

    gen z boosie.

  • Apr 11, 2022
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    thread exposing the trash ass parents on this site

  • Apr 11, 2022
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    HITSLIKEDIETCOKE

    I'm trusting the Bible on this topic. Don't spare the rod. Or else that child will turn into a piece of s*** when they get older

    Fam the Bible is filled to the brim with dumb and stupid impractical s***

  • plants 🌻
    Apr 11, 2022
    americana

    Fam the Bible is filled to the brim with dumb and stupid impractical s***

    sad to see him condemned to hell for wearing blended fabrics but hey it is what it is

  • Apr 11, 2022
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    thread exposing the trash ass parents on this site

    How does popping a child on the hand make you a bad parent?

    That’s like me saying parents who let their kids run over them and disrespect them like they’re outsiders are trash parents. There’s no right or wrong way to discipline a child. Y’all gotta stop coming for people parenting for internet brownie points.

  • Apr 11, 2022

    "I'd have whooped her dumbass"

    "And you on timeout"

    To be fair willow wrote it when she was 11 and thought that maybe pac was someone who was still alive

  • BLACK
    Apr 11, 2022

    jada wrote that s*** mane