just fully read OP and the way Lauryn went off on this whole tangent talking about her life and duality
b**** just admit you f***ed up your kid
B**** went from Lil Peep and Juice"world" to Nazis and slavery
ramblings of a crazy person
Sourced from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3447048/
"One of the first such studies linked slapping and spanking in childhood with psychiatric disorders in adulthood in a large Canadian sample, and its findings have since been supported by an ever-growing number of studies. Physical punishment is associated with a range of mental health problems in children, youth and adults, including depression, unhappiness, anxiety, feelings of hopelessness, use of d**** and alcohol, and general psychological maladjustment."
(https://www.cmaj.ca/content/161/7/805.short)
"One of the first large prospective studies (1997, n = 807) controlled for initial levels of child antisocial behaviour and sex, family socioeconomic status and levels of emotional support and cognitive stimulation in the home. Even with these controls, physical punishment between the ages of six and nine years predicted higher levels of antisocial behaviour two years later."
(https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/article-abstract/518458)
"Researchers are also finding that physical punishment is linked to slower cognitive development and adversely affects academic achievement."
(https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10926770903035168)
"The evidence is clear and compelling — physical punishment of children and youth plays no useful role in their upbringing and poses only risks to their development. The conclusion is equally compelling — parents should be strongly encouraged to develop alternative and positive approaches to discipline."
These year 2000 kids really something else lmfao nigga we all got beat wtf. My grandma once whooped me with the switch you close the blinds with like shut yo weak ass up. Hate this attention seeking s*** the f*** you want sympathy? Your mom is f***ing Lauryn hill and your father is a Marley. Niggas out here got it it way worse shut the f*** up
Damn,I got beat with switches too by my Grandma and some of the best moments of my childhood happened at my Grandma’s house lol. We took that s*** and just moved on,2000 kids just not built like that I guess.
just fully read OP and the way Lauryn went off on this whole tangent talking about her life and duality
b**** just admit you f***ed up your kid
And it's people who didn't get beat who deal with the same issues...so what exactly is your point here?
How exactly do you think teaching your kid to physically fear you and that it's fine for your loved ones to assault you, will help them as a well adjusted adult?
people ITT who support beating your child the same dudes who beat their pets
Lol by who
what happens if your kid aint tough, you gon beat him? Raising a kid isn't black and white
If I’m mentally ill and get physically abused (not just whoopings) that won’t worsen things?
Clearly. But to automatically imply that every child who was beaten as a child for doing bad s*** is traumatized and has issues with their mental health because of it is a reach.
Physical discipline is not child abuse. Some children do not react to the more positive parenting styles and continue to act out. It's almost like every child is wired differently...go figure.
These year 2000 kids really something else lmfao nigga we all got beat wtf. My grandma once whooped me with the switch you close the blinds with like shut yo weak ass up. Hate this attention seeking s*** the f*** you want sympathy? Your mom is f***ing Lauryn hill and your father is a Marley. Niggas out here got it it way worse shut the f*** up
Someone tell mans about collective trauma
“I loved getting beat, it was actually dope and doesn’t bother me, in fact it’s good and inherently necessary” is a weird mindset to have
Our society needs revamping
It's a strange argument to be part of. I was a victim of extreme physical abuse and emotional mistreatment. There's a fine line between reasonable punishment and the wilful infliction of pain. Most countries just ban any form of cruelty to unblur the line
I see both sides, but you must understand that this is on a scale of degree
“I loved getting beat, it was actually dope and doesn’t bother me, in fact it’s good and inherently necessary” is a weird mindset to have
Nobody here said they loved getting beat
who liked this dumbass s*** expose yourselves
ill come out and admit it. I did
Clearly. But to automatically imply that every child who was beaten as a child for doing bad s*** is traumatized and has issues with their mental health because of it is a reach.
Physical discipline is not child abuse. Some children do not react to the more positive parenting styles and continue to act out. It's almost like every child is wired differently...go figure.
Nah I’m with you. People in this thread gotta learn the difference between physical abuse and physical discipline tho.
Damn,I got beat with switches too by my Grandma and some of the best moments of my childhood happened at my Grandma’s house lol. We took that s*** and just moved on,2000 kids just not built like that I guess.
4real like niggas in the thread writing think pieces and s*** lmfao hahaha this s*** is comical. I’d be a completely different person if my people didn’t whoop my ass from time to time and I’ve come across too many people who clearly didn’t get their ass beat enough
That tells me a lot of what I need to know about who I'm engaging with.
cept I don't even like Swift and I've only listened to her new album maybe twice these past few weeks
the fact that you went to that as your defense tells me a lot who I'm engaging with tbh