Maybe wouldnt call it a date cause it has romantic implications but I have definitely took a homegirl out to eat at a nice restaurant (and vice versa’s been done for me) simply cause we felt like it

I did mention s***, which is why I said it led to arguments.

Normalize my whole s*** gettin sucked

if my girl dressing up and eating out in a place with another man, then she isn't my girl

Thats a sad outlook bruh.

And yeah, I’d hope she would allow you to do the same with your female friends.

I had a homeboy from college who’s girl would literally get into toxic arguments with him over....mutual friends from college leaving hearts on his facebook for his birthday. Being told he couldnt hang out with certain ppl (ppl who never had any romantic feelings in the years we've all known each other)

That’s textbook isolation to faciliate abuse my nigga

Luckily, they made a breakthrough and worked her issues out.

I mean it's more gray than black and white like with the examples you made.

If she going for a business trip or celebrating a bday party with friends. But a 1v1 friendship date late at night is not a thing and I doubt most average girls won't let there man rock like that either lol

There is such thing as boundaries and those are healthy too

Thats a boundary sure. But there are such things as an unhealthy boundary. Like why can’t I or she hang out with someone that I or they’ve known for years and literally never had romantic feelings?

And yeah that’s unhealthy cause girls want this thing that they gotta be your girlfriend AND your best friend at the same time.

And that’s just impossible fam.

I never said you can't hang out with someone. My gf has male homies she went to go have lunch with and I'm fine with. Same way I can go help a girl homie with her moving out of her apartment and get a quick bite of lunch afterwards.

But if the dude asked her out to a nice restaurant and dress up for no reason that's a red flag from the guy

So wait, is dressing up the red flag here?

I mean act ignorant or what not, but living my life I have never seen a straight person in a relationship go out hanging 1v1 with the opposite s***on a casual dinner date like the way guy in OP is showing. That's what I'm referring to.

And in living my life I have. Nigga I’ve been the guy. and the girl was someone id known for years and the restaurant wasnt the type where I’d just wanna wear some casual bum s*** lol.

Why cant people just dress up to just go out.

I’m not above admitting I would never let any woman that’s with me do this

And I would never do this myself

I don’t have many pet peeves but this is just one of them

I understand that it’s a flawed perception but I just don’t care lol

Then cool do you and I have no problem with that. My boundaries work for me in my relationships so maybe both can be reasonable boundaries

Aight

meek mill went to meet kim kardashian in a black t-shirt and jeans but yall need 2 dress uP

Depends on the situation, I wouldn't be only wearing a black t shirt when going to a fancy restaurant lmao

LOL to be f***ing honest

A black t shirt and jeans that prolly cost more than regular suits.

What you wear doesn’t determine whether or not you tryna smash cause hypothetically he could show up casual and still scheming.

Idk why you even brought him up the internet STILL was killing him and Kim making up dating rumors even with him wearing a t shirt and jeans. Which was OD corny but its the internet.

It dont matter what you wear because our society (as shown by this thread) has made it clear that a straight man and a straight woman cant possibly go out to eat or do...any activity one-on-one without s***having to be involved.

I mean it was a Beverly Hills rooftop restauraunt with a billionaire there to discuss prison reform, it's quite the situation

Niggas is killing me with these arguments lol.

Like if I was gonna scheme in a suit what makes you think scheming in casual bum s*** wouldnt do the same thing

It is a well established concept that dressing up is usually done to influence/incite a certain feeling of seriousness but ig u can just pretend like that doesnt exist or wateva

what was your viewpoint on this? I don't know much about the meek mill s*** other than Ye got spastic about him meeting her lol

Yeah no s*** sherlock.

That dont mean im tryna f*** tho. Yall dont like getting compliments on yall outfits?

Meek's $20 outfit (in the sense that you could copy it with $20) in a high-top public Beverly Hills restaurant with one of the most famous women in the city, alongside a billionaire's wife gives off the vibe he's more than likely not there to try and swoo her in the middle of public, but people will believe whatever they want