Idk if this has happened to anyone else but my ex used to sexually force herself on me when things didn't go her way or i wasn't saying or doing things to her liking. She would corner me in the room and despite me clearly saying no she would give me head by force or kiss me all over. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation or know of anyone who has? I feel like this isn't talked about much

It takes a lot of courage to admit this, respect OP. I’m glad you got away from that toxic relationship.

This is a topic that goes unspoken far too often.

Thank you. I've brought this up with my friends but they just joke about it and we just move onto the next topic. It has alot to do with my lack of trust these days cause i never thought that s*** would happen to me

damn that’s tough

I’ve never been sexually assaulted but I’ve been sexually harassed in the past. There was one girl who would never leave me alone in high school constantly following me, catcalling me, commenting on posts and photos. All her friends just encouraged it too. Made me really uncomfortable and I didn’t know how to make it stop especially when friends would just tell me to go for it

also just a heads up for this thread. Men can be sexually assaulted and harassed but please don’t feel the need to diminish the issue of women being sexually assaulted or harassed in here. Victims are victims

That’s absolutely awful man, that girl was f***ing crazy. And it’s sad your friends don’t realize that just because someone shows interest you you should reciprocate it

definitely goes under the radar and rarely noticed, pretty messed up when you think about it

You may need to find some more empathetic friends man, I’m sure their good guys outside of this but someone opening up about their trauma isn’t a joke. And I hope you can heal and regain your ability to trust again

Sorry you had to go through that. You're kinda powerless in situations like these because on one level people can say u should be happy she's showing interest but then again its blatant disrespect

Yeah it really doesnt get talk about enough cause of ideas of "guys like that" or similar s***.

Heard stories from 2 different guy about their first time having s***was when they were 15, one of them with a girl who was 21 and the other with a girl who was 32. Stuff like that is pretty common but usually overlooked

What makes it worse is shes never properly acknowledged it. I texted her last summer cause i was tryna gain some perspective and she denied it ever happened. Then immediately after the denial, she said "fine if admitting i hurt u emotionally, physically or mentally will make you leave me alone and start a life of your own then I'm sorry, idk what came over me:

I’ve gotten catcalled a lot, unwanted physical advances, and groped by random drunk girls but that’s about it

The double standard is odd

I’m so sorry OP. That’s f***ing horrible

This thread reminds me of a video by YouTuber DJ Ghost were he admitted to him being assaulted by much older women as a minor. The commenters were saying you’re lucky, I wish that was me, guys can’t get raped etc and it disgusted me. Sure he’s not being forcefully penetrated, but some 30+ female taking advantage of a kid who’s scared to speak up isn’t okay in any circumstances

i got catcalled by a lot of the older ladies at a part time job i had for 3 years and thought nothing of it until i got older

My first girlfriend took my virginity by that exact way, she used to insinuate I was gay if I wasn’t in the mood to hit.

Rape Culture is definitely prevalent and normalized on the opposite side.

It needs to end regardless of gender. Period.

S*** is absolutely unacceptable

Women were always slapping my ass in school, one time one b**** groped my d***. S*** seems so normal and crazy if it were the other way

Holy s***,that's awful. We're not f***ing machines, we should be allowed to say no to sexual advances without being accused of being gay

The craziest thing about it is after it would happen for some reason, I would tell her i liked it?? Was that me tryna normalize it or..wtf is that

Proof that women are hornier than men

Double standards is a b**** tho

Yeah man she f***ed me up badly. I still suffer due to that shii

for all my niggas in this thread.

It hasn't happened to me but I definitely know a lot of men that as we've gotten older, come to grips with how the way they lost they virginity was f***ed up.

This normalization of Rape Culture on the opposite end comes from the f***ing toxic mentality on Men’s role in the world having to be Dominant forces with a immense h**** energy at all times.

s*** is f***ing disgusting.

trying to infer that men who don’t appreciate your advances are inherently less masculine (as if that’s suppose to be a bad thing) or gay and or submissive (again as if anyone should be ashamed) ironically detracts and dehumanizes women as well who are “seen” and labeled as the submissive sex.