OPNov 21, 2024·7 repliesAnother update, we argued this morning about her bar situation. I kept on inquiring time after time again, at first she only said they “Kissed and touched” but now fully admitted to s***happening. They got super drunk, he brought her over to his place and they proceeded to make the deed happen right there and then. Worst part? This is another younger, Latin guy and I’m just flabbergasted.
She keeps on telling me it’s a drunk one-off situation, she felt disgusted the next morning and immediately left his place afterwards. I’m frustrated, as the 1st she invited me to her place, we decided to wait on getting physical (had to sleep on her couch that night, but that’s another convo). I brought her up about the pacing she said it’s simply her right to her choices and I was “entitled” for bringing that up, like wtf? Got very angry at me and kicked me out of her place this morning, for hurting her feelings and she needs space now. Even texted me afterwards about how much she loves me but to never bring that up ever again
- OPNov 21, 2024·3 replies
Wally3500She’s gonna cheat on you moving like this wtf
She needs to be worried about YOU the way you’re worried about her.
You’re right, my trust in her slowly degrading away and I woke up this morning feeling frustrated about what she did. We argued on and on this morning
- OPNov 21, 2024·4 replies
ValentineWomen can be cold and heartless, I wish more niggas realized. When her guts were getting twisted, she probably complained right before to that nigga about you, and a complaint where she’s s***ting on your manhood lmaoo
The mental images of her getting drunk and doing the deed with this guy is f***ing me up
- OPNov 21, 2024·2 repliesValentine
Shorty got treated like a c***rag and you took her back. Good luck buddy
!https://youtu.be/HERPF9cmySg?si=QzNCs-oqY22zS8o3On the flip side while I’m agitated about her encounter and mental images, I really really do love her with all my heart. She means so much with her supportiveness of my son, and willing to accommodate to my personality.
Nov 21, 2024She lied, gonna have to cut her off and move on
Calling you entitled is a garbage move
Nov 21, 2024·1 replynot worth it but if u think it is accept her for what she is n stop prying asking details about any woman's past gonna break your heart even if she a virgin the fact you're asking the paranoia already getting the best of you
Nov 21, 2024·1 replyGhomaThe mental images of her getting drunk and doing the deed with this guy is f***ing me up
those mental images will f*** you up a lot more if you can't get them out of your head. it's truly a s***ty feeling, and telling you to not think about it is way easier said than done. sorry dude, but this girl is clearly not right for you, so to help distract yourself, go holla at other females and f*** around until you heal from these mental images
- OPNov 21, 2024mdmadon
not worth it but if u think it is accept her for what she is n stop prying asking details about any woman's past gonna break your heart even if she a virgin the fact you're asking the paranoia already getting the best of you
My ego and pride is over the top
- Nov 21, 2024Ghoma
On the flip side while I’m agitated about her encounter and mental images, I really really do love her with all my heart. She means so much with her supportiveness of my son, and willing to accommodate to my personality.
Please don’t ask her about her s***life and if she wants to share tell her you not tryna hear about another man tbh
save your own mental since you not letting her go. Glad she good for your son. They need mothers 
Nov 21, 2024·3 repliesGhomaThe mental images of her getting drunk and doing the deed with this guy is f***ing me up
Mans complaining about free jerk off material
- Nov 21, 2024
dont get how u flabbergasted tbh the signs been there young mr latinos r her type she generally gets into fling/one night stands when single she's shown u who she is multiple times
- OPNov 21, 2024·2 repliesTAXI
those mental images will f*** you up a lot more if you can't get them out of your head. it's truly a s***ty feeling, and telling you to not think about it is way easier said than done. sorry dude, but this girl is clearly not right for you, so to help distract yourself, go holla at other females and f*** around until you heal from these mental images
Maybe I’ll need to restart my man-whore phase? Had a brief one in college (while getting to know my ex-wife, though it was s***ty of me looking back). Might have to start hitting the gym, bars, and start asserting my dominance all over the map
Nov 21, 2024yeah step away
ive been both the one cheated on and the one cheating in the past and s*** never works out.for guys its usually lust but for women its deeper than that s***
- Nov 21, 2024
sometimes u just gotta accept you incompatible it someone
- Nov 21, 2024·3 replies
Man I remember my first breakup
Used to wake up like
to the thoughts of her getting f***ed 
Nov 21, 2024GhomaAnother update, we argued this morning about her bar situation. I kept on inquiring time after time again, at first she only said they “Kissed and touched” but now fully admitted to s***happening. They got super drunk, he brought her over to his place and they proceeded to make the deed happen right there and then. Worst part? This is another younger, Latin guy and I’m just flabbergasted.
She keeps on telling me it’s a drunk one-off situation, she felt disgusted the next morning and immediately left his place afterwards. I’m frustrated, as the 1st she invited me to her place, we decided to wait on getting physical (had to sleep on her couch that night, but that’s another convo). I brought her up about the pacing she said it’s simply her right to her choices and I was “entitled” for bringing that up, like wtf? Got very angry at me and kicked me out of her place this morning, for hurting her feelings and she needs space now. Even texted me afterwards about how much she loves me but to never bring that up ever again
DAMN, sorry op. gon be tough but let her ass go
- Nov 21, 2024
or remain in the relationship but keep these thoughts paranoia questions prying to yourself as its not gonna help moving forward
Nov 21, 2024GhomaMaybe I’ll need to restart my man-whore phase? Had a brief one in college (while getting to know my ex-wife, though it was s***ty of me looking back). Might have to start hitting the gym, bars, and start asserting my dominance all over the map
that’s not gone save you brother and STI’s stronger than ever
don’t self sabotage. yes to hitting the gym though- Nov 21, 2024Ghoma
Another update, we argued this morning about her bar situation. I kept on inquiring time after time again, at first she only said they “Kissed and touched” but now fully admitted to s***happening. They got super drunk, he brought her over to his place and they proceeded to make the deed happen right there and then. Worst part? This is another younger, Latin guy and I’m just flabbergasted.
She keeps on telling me it’s a drunk one-off situation, she felt disgusted the next morning and immediately left his place afterwards. I’m frustrated, as the 1st she invited me to her place, we decided to wait on getting physical (had to sleep on her couch that night, but that’s another convo). I brought her up about the pacing she said it’s simply her right to her choices and I was “entitled” for bringing that up, like wtf? Got very angry at me and kicked me out of her place this morning, for hurting her feelings and she needs space now. Even texted me afterwards about how much she loves me but to never bring that up ever again
You are being gas lit my boy. She trying to tell you how you should feel and threatening you.
- Nov 21, 2024Ghoma
Maybe I’ll need to restart my man-whore phase? Had a brief one in college (while getting to know my ex-wife, though it was s***ty of me looking back). Might have to start hitting the gym, bars, and start asserting my dominance all over the map
stay strapped like 50
dont turn into ghomorrhea 
- Nov 21, 2024Ghoma
You’re right, my trust in her slowly degrading away and I woke up this morning feeling frustrated about what she did. We argued on and on this morning
I didn’t read every page so idk if you answered this already, but did y’all lay out any clear boundaries with each other when the break started?
If not, then, even though it does suck, she’s totally entitled to do what she did
- Nov 21, 2024
be hot, don't anticipate any action.
Nov 21, 2024HURRY UP K DOGMans complaining about free jerk off material
- Nov 21, 2024Ghoma
UPDATE
We got together for dinner last night and cleared up some misunderstandings. I owned up to my lack of boundaries and guidance when setting, which I apologized for. Ended up breaking down and crying, telling her how much she means to me and can’t imagine losing her. On the flip side, she apologized for her actions, stating on how that bar hookup meant nothing to her. She assured her loyalty and commitment to the relationship from this point forward.
I treated her to a great restaurant and ended the night well! I still appreciate everyone’s input and advice itt
Yeah if you didn’t lay out any boundaries when the break started then she had every right to do stuff with other people, you really can’t be mad at her
WINTER 🌨️Nov 21, 2024HURRY UP K DOGMans complaining about free jerk off material
LMFAO