hope you have a good day today

man i’m so sorry bro

Yo no it’s not so bad. You lose hobbies and you pick new ones up. Don’t think this is the end, it’s the beginning. Makes you appreciate the little things more

Like I can’t watch a film by myself but a friend inviting me over to watch a bad film they really like is nice

Do you feel like losing these hobbies is losing a part of yourself?

yeah honestly.

feel like i'm losing every single thing I was originally known for liking.

music is still the only constant that has stayed so far.

everything else has just become a chore for me

I think it’s important to remember that who you are is greater than what you like. Don’t lose sight of the intrinsic traits and values you have that make you unique

For me, it was a good opportunity to strip down and notice basic, healthy forms of pleasure. Cooking and eating, exercising, meditation, etc.. I continued to listen to music to soundtrack these activities. Just shifting the focus from music being the main activity to the supplementary activity. Just so it doesn’t become a chore

You’ll find a method that works for you, don’t lose sight of your pleasure

Good luck 💕

What you think changed to the point you don't enjoy movies anymore?

I will admit I lost some interest in music lately because when I was single I used to listen all day everyday. But now I have a girlfriend who I need to give attention to, and I have become slightly more angry due to the lack of music.

Any idea what might have caused your shift?

Great advice tbh

In moments where we lost interest in hobbies, we really need to self evaluate to re-discover what we really enjoy. Sadly not all hobbies are life long and are extremely hard to let them go...but we can discover new more involving ones that pre-occupy our time better then the prior ones.

youtu.be/Xm_2zmX6Akc

This will help

I think it might have to do with college. College has absolutely ruined me. College is probably the reason as to why I stopped watching all these movies.

Yeah man, college is really hard for alot of people especially if their heart was never fully invested in it. Maybe talk to your folks about taking a break after this semester to really rebalance yourself.

Have you looked into or discovered anything else that interests you at all?

Gonna learn more about this guy and his beliefs.. thanks for the post.

ps. put a ! before the link

@sab explain to me again why therapy is for pussies?

I'm not sure about the last thread. But we back here trying to be better fam

Moods like a yo-yo lately but still better than a few months ago

In. Positivity, Mindfulness, Willingness and Acceptance. Let’s take it day by day in the present moment

World changed on a dime so we all really had to adapt to new rules and new lifestyles. That kind of stuff can really mess with a person emotions.

Glad to hear you improved from a few months ago!

True! Thanks for the kind words man

Exactly fam

We just trying to get stuff off our chests and try to sort some emotions out!

Gonna try to get this thread to live up to the previous ones!

All love fam!

I always need a constant distraction

i really dont like fridays. especially when im at work

why did the original thread get deleted? like the one with hundreds of pages. not the other new one. wait why did the newer one get deleted also

I don't have an explanation for what happened to the old threads. I was asked las night if I wanted to run it and I said yeah.

Gonna try to make it a great thread to live up to the previous ones!

Everything good with you bro?