DAVIDP

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Jerry Seinfeld

Jerry Electricity

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You get it

DAVIDP

5y

So i got the covid shot like 3 days ago, been having a fever and arm pain today

Jerry Electricity

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Everyone I know that’s gotten it has gotten sick.. that’s why I haven’t tried to get it yet.

DAVIDP

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Yeah it's kind of wack

16g

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c**

DAVIDP

5y

does he smell bad

DAVIDP

5y

@blonded post your avi

blonded

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post some b****es

blonded

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aha

DonutHole

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The doctor thing is on you. Just take care of yourself i guess."

It is but study show that despite urging men to take care of themselves they have better chances at being healthy in a relationship

Not to mention not being lonely and depressed at an old age (goes for both partners) cuz they decided to create a family (I heard that loneliness is the leading cause of death for adults aged 65+)

Nowadays both parters work tho, and the household tasks are divided unless someone’s getting exploited. In case that a parter is making enough money to allow the other to stay at home, then he or she should have enough to hire someone to do the housework. And either way is less housework if you’re singles

Studies show that married women still do more household tasks even if they work full time as well (probably due to gender roles, they're not being forced to but there's a strong societal influence/conditioning maybe that pushes them to do more of it, especially when they have children)

Also usually the partner that stays at home takes care of the kids and household tasks for way cheaper than actually hiring a nanny and housekeeper.

In your opinion a person should pay for a nanny (if kids involved), a housekeeper ans whatever expenses go with having a romantic partner (dates, gifts, dinners etc)???
I mean if you got it like that go ahead but this isn't realistic for most people, like I bet that 9/10 men/women can't afford that

If you want to learn how to commit, there are multiple other things you can commit to.

I adressed this by saying "commit to a project, lifestyle or partner" - I'm not saying you can only learn how to commit by getting married, I'm saying some view marriage as a worthwhile commitment to their significant other

Having children is indeed the purpose of many many people and that can indeed make them happy, but isn’t it sad that people want to have children in order to be happy?

No I don't think that human beings procreating in order to be fulfilled in life is sad - when a mother gives birth there's a flood of hormones that will make her bond with her child - I think the feeling of love might be necessary to ensure animals (humans included) procreate cuz if we didn't feel a way whatsoever what would be the reason we'd even go through that hassle of giving birth, feeding, teaching raising a child (note that humans take significantly longer to mature into adults compared to other species so we might need to be able to give a damn on a deeper level to complete that task - achieving it, rightfully, comes with a great sense of satisfaction, I don't see anything wrong with that)

I agree with adopting and making the life of a suffering child easier, and that’s way better than having a child imo.

I can agree with this but it's not a possibility for most people- adopting a child is a difficult process that can be costly as well

Not to mention how much discrimination there is : ie. gay couples not being allowed to adopt in certain (I think most actually) countries'

DVLPR

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Not marrying and not having children doesn’t mean you’ll be alone after 65, specially if you had a successful life.

Are you saying that one of the benefits of marrying a woman is that they do housework even if they work full time? Because even if i were to change my mind and decide to marry I wouldn’t want my wife to work full time AND do more housework than me.

No kids involved, so no nannies. The housekeeper thing is in case you don’t want to do the housework for whatever reason. Again, it’s way less housework if you live by yourself.

Compare wanting to have a kid because you want to be happy, versus not feeling that you need to have a kid (or marry) to be happy. That’s why i think it’s sad. Like, I’d be down to adopt a kid if i could provide for them, but if i do, i would do it because i want to help, not because i want to be “happy” or have a purpose. Happiness can definitely be a result of having/adopting kids, but that doesn’t mean that that should be the reason people want to have them.

Now, if I couldn’t afford to adopt a child or i was rejected for whatever reason, then that’s fine because I wouldn’t be doing it for the sake of my happiness.

Semi

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Helo

PleaseDelete

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Made this tier ist (No trolling(

What you think?

DAVIDP

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i cant read all dat s***

Cant pick

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lots of words