you either heal yourselves now or you end the relationship

but you gotta TALK to her about this

My ex used to abuse me dont let that b**** put her hands on you

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Cut her off now while you can. She will not get better

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If she has good character/is a good person outside of all this — and if you think this truly was a spur of the moment mistake based on her past trauma — then forgive her and stick with her. If not then free her.

I hope things get better for u OP this isn't easy at all

If I could go back in time I would have kicked my ex out my car and made her walk home the first time she punched me f*** that

i see you saying you don’t wanna give up on it, but you pushing someone to the point that they wanna punch you and said person being capable of putting hey hands on you is a sign y’all at least should take a break from each other

Went through a similar situation a few years back, u have to really set boundaries and communicate about it if you really want this relationship to keep going. Stuff like this is very serious and it's totally normal for you to feel bad about it

Sorry you went through that. So sad to see people joking about it itt. You shouldnt have to go through abuse and my advice its that you should cut her off your life but to each his own. Good luck and I hope you are doing better!

Just dump her. But if you do forgive her and y'all happen to get in an argument again that leads to her punching you in the face again, then you have every right to clock her and then dump her.

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no need to put up with that at all, even as a one time thing (which it never is)