Knock her out next time @op stop bring p****

You should've fought back OP.

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Dr longstroke returns

Cut that stupid b**** off man ASAP. F*** all that trauma response bullshit

If op stays with her he deserves to be permabanned because i never wanna see another thread from him again

Damn she Ike you Tina

If your partner is capable of hitting you once, they will do it again.

Man you can forgive and wait for it to happen again

But depends how invested your life is into this one relationship. Wouldn’t settle for no one who would throw me under the jail under same circumstances.

@op current girl getting ready for the next argument

cut her off asap

Hey man I definitely wouldn’t call you a b****. It happened
, and it completely blindsided you. Most of us never think we will be harmed by people close to us and sometimes it happens anyways. I’m really sorry you went through this and I’m hopeful for you and your situation. I would definitely talk to someone you trust about this situation, or someone who specializes in abuse/trauma counseling.
I am just speaking from experience, but you being hit by your partner absolutely has traumatized you. Your brain has hardwired this completely unconsciously that this can, and could happen again. You’re going to probably have resentment and feelings of concern going forward towards your partner and inevitably this entire incident has probably damaged your trust towards romantic partners. Make sure you address this stuff internally now so it doesn’t live with you later. Remember the body keeps score !

I would give it a second chance personally if you really love her, emphasis on second, no more than that. it’s okay to be forgiving to an extent and understand that accidents happen. Was the argument worth escalating to yelling and cursing in the first place ? If you know the triggers yet proceed to activate them, both of you are in the wrong. She is more in the wrong of course but it was a preventable situation

I've always told myself that if I EVER get hit by my girl, I would leave. No questions asked

Your partner should always have enough respect for you to never put their hands on you, no excuses.

And the same way women expect their man to never hit them, men should have those same exact expectations...if you hit me im gone

Wtf

...neither is she yours

Worst post in this thread. Glad you got cooked for this.

Y’all shouldn’t be together

dump her ass

In this case really need to set a very firm boundary that in order to go forward this can 1: never happen again
And 2: the minute you two escálate find a safe word for when you feel overwhelmed so you Can time out, take a step back in arguments and return to each other with cool level heads.
3: make sure you’re speaking from a place of honesty, and not out of emotion too.
Emotions are inevitably high rn cause y’all just had a very traumatic incident together

Teenager brain

This s*** honestly pissing me the f*** off now that I re read it

You’re f***ing sick. I know you think you’re really smart because you read 20 pages of a few different philosophy books but I really hope you know everyone sees through your fake deep, pseudo intellectual nonsense you use to try to hide how f***ing ed every one of your opinions is. It’s truly amazing how blindingly dumb you are. Would you tell your mother to go back to her abuser? You’re a grade A weirdo. I feel really sorry for your professors that have to read the bile you spew to them on a daily basis