Aug 4, 2021Hey guys. I'm doing pretty bad right now. I'm so conflicted and I've been having suicidal thoughts. I'm at the point where I don't want to live.
This girl and I were dating for about a year and some months but we broke up and went separate ways. 5 months later she hits me up and we start hanging out again. We hook up days straight and we both pour out our feelings towards each other. So we get back together and there's a major issue. In the 5 months we were not together I met this other girl and we had sex.
So now she wants nothing to do with me because I came clean that I hooked up with another girl. I told her everything because I really care about her and I want to move forward with her free of guilt. The last few days have been dark. I care so much about this girl I can't let her go. Those few months without her were the hardest. And I seem to have lost her again. I don't know what to do.
Aug 4, 2021Crazygu yHey guys. I'm doing pretty bad right now. I'm so conflicted and I've been having suicidal thoughts. I'm at the point where I don't want to live.
This girl and I were dating for about a year and some months but we broke up and went separate ways. 5 months later she hits me up and we start hanging out again. We hook up days straight and we both pour out our feelings towards each other. So we get back together and there's a major issue. In the 5 months we were not together I met this other girl and we had sex.
So now she wants nothing to do with me because I came clean that I hooked up with another girl. I told her everything because I really care about her and I want to move forward with her free of guilt. The last few days have been dark. I care so much about this girl I can't let her go. Those few months without her were the hardest. And I seem to have lost her again. I don't know what to do.
don't view relationships as the entire fabric of your life
- Aug 4, 2021
This is lowkey a brag thread
I see what you did there
- Aug 4, 2021·1 reply
If she's trying to control what you do when you're not together then she isn't worth dealing with, IMO. Drop her.
- Aug 4, 2021·2 repliesDAVIDP
If she's trying to control what you do when you're not together then she isn't worth dealing with, IMO. Drop her.
dude doesn't realize he'll forget about this in 6 months lmao
Aug 4, 2021·1 replyTheres a lot more life to live than this moment rn
Move on for the sake of yourself if its really effecting your mental health that severely- Aug 4, 2021Twist Your Cap
dude doesn't realize he'll forget about this in 6 months lmao
Yeah honestly. Not worth getting tangled up with manipulative girls who do this stuff.
Aug 4, 2021·1 replyCrazygu yHey guys. I'm doing pretty bad right now. I'm so conflicted and I've been having suicidal thoughts. I'm at the point where I don't want to live.
This girl and I were dating for about a year and some months but we broke up and went separate ways. 5 months later she hits me up and we start hanging out again. We hook up days straight and we both pour out our feelings towards each other. So we get back together and there's a major issue. In the 5 months we were not together I met this other girl and we had sex.
So now she wants nothing to do with me because I came clean that I hooked up with another girl. I told her everything because I really care about her and I want to move forward with her free of guilt. The last few days have been dark. I care so much about this girl I can't let her go. Those few months without her were the hardest. And I seem to have lost her again. I don't know what to do.
Dang bro this is def a weird situation but she needs to realize that you’ve been open about everything and if she can’t comprehend why you told her then that’s on her. If you need to talk lemme know
Aug 4, 2021·1 replyWhy did you guys break up?
What did she say was an issue with you going to other people?
She sounds like a loser if what youre saying is accurate. If you cant see that youre setting yourself up for failure.
Aug 4, 2021You lost her for 5 months and survived, i know it sounds heartless but you are not defined by a relationship.
Odds are she gonna be back sooner than you think, her friends prolly gonna ask her why is she buggin about you fucjing other chicks while yall was broken up
Aug 4, 2021y’all weren’t together for 5 months
i’m sorry but she sound childish af bro
Aug 4, 2021·1 replyHonest advice, you should move on from her. If she mad about what you did when you two wasn't in a relathionship (and not even talking), then she does not care for you like you do for her
- Aug 4, 2021·edited
I really appreciate everyone who took the time to read and reply to this thread. It really means a lot.
- Aug 4, 2021BALLS
Dang bro this is def a weird situation but she needs to realize that you’ve been open about everything and if she can’t comprehend why you told her then that’s on her. If you need to talk lemme know
Thanks bro it means a lot.
- Aug 4, 2021RRRBBB
Why did you guys break up?
What did she say was an issue with you going to other people?
She sounds like a loser if what youre saying is accurate. If you cant see that youre setting yourself up for failure.
We broke up because things weren't going right. We were always arguing over little s*** and I could never get thru to her. We decided to split and leave each other alone
Tadow 🥀Aug 4, 2021JodyTheres a lot more life to live than this moment rn
Move on for the sake of yourself if its really effecting your mental health that severely- Aug 4, 2021
It's really hard to move on. 5 months without her and not a single day was easy. Some were better than others but I dreaded waking up with a heavy chest and sleeping with an empty stomach. It's been really hard
- Aug 4, 2021·2 repliesMIXTAPEHNDRXXFREE
Honest advice, you should move on from her. If she mad about what you did when you two wasn't in a relathionship (and not even talking), then she does not care for you like you do for her
Honest question. If she didn't care then why would she be so angry at me for sleeping with someone else while we weren't together?
Aug 4, 2021·1 replyCrazygu yHey guys. I'm doing pretty bad right now. I'm so conflicted and I've been having suicidal thoughts. I'm at the point where I don't want to live.
This girl and I were dating for about a year and some months but we broke up and went separate ways. 5 months later she hits me up and we start hanging out again. We hook up days straight and we both pour out our feelings towards each other. So we get back together and there's a major issue. In the 5 months we were not together I met this other girl and we had sex.
So now she wants nothing to do with me because I came clean that I hooked up with another girl. I told her everything because I really care about her and I want to move forward with her free of guilt. The last few days have been dark. I care so much about this girl I can't let her go. Those few months without her were the hardest. And I seem to have lost her again. I don't know what to do.
WHY is she mad you f***ed someone else while you guys were SINGLE?
She’s a controlling jealous manipulative b****. Get away from her.
Never mention who you f***ed if you were single, and if they ask lie and say you were focusing on yourself. Only miserable sacs of s***s would ask if you had s***with someone while you were single and get upset over it.
I’m angry cuz I’ve been in your shoes recently. She’s poison and you need to leave her.
- Aug 4, 2021·1 replyCrazygu y
Honest question. If she didn't care then why would she be so angry at me for sleeping with someone else while we weren't together?
She doesn’t care about YOU. She only cares about having you for HERSELF because she is SELFISH and CONTROLLING.
That’s why she was mad, because you were doing things on your own accord. She don’t care about how YOU WANT to live your live. It’s HER WAY or the highway. Take the f***ing highway.
- Aug 4, 2021·1 replyHusk_
WHY is she mad you f***ed someone else while you guys were SINGLE?
She’s a controlling jealous manipulative b****. Get away from her.
Never mention who you f***ed if you were single, and if they ask lie and say you were focusing on yourself. Only miserable sacs of s***s would ask if you had s***with someone while you were single and get upset over it.
I’m angry cuz I’ve been in your shoes recently. She’s poison and you need to leave her.
Do you mind sharing your experience? I'm just curious. And thank you. It means a lot. A lot of the replies to this thread, including yours all have the same direction. Maybe she's not good for me.
- Aug 4, 2021Husk_
She doesn’t care about YOU. She only cares about having you for HERSELF because she is SELFISH and CONTROLLING.
That’s why she was mad, because you were doing things on your own accord. She don’t care about how YOU WANT to live your live. It’s HER WAY or the highway. Take the f***ing highway.
- Aug 4, 2021Crazygu y
Honest question. If she didn't care then why would she be so angry at me for sleeping with someone else while we weren't together?
Husk_ basically explained what i was tryna say. Hope everything goes better with your life bro
Aug 4, 2021are you seriously asking a internet music forum for help instead of a trained professional?
the most mf on this site gonna do is tell you to drink some water - Aug 5, 2021·1 reply
but srsly op go to someone who has a DEGREE in this'
we cant help the most we can do is console
