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  • Aug 5, 2021
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    Crazygu y

    Do you mind sharing your experience? I'm just curious. And thank you. It means a lot. A lot of the replies to this thread, including yours all have the same direction. Maybe she's not good for me.

    It’s essentially the same thing . We had been broken up but she never wanted to be official with me as in GF BF. But she still wanted me to talk , hang out and s***.

    She told me, “I don’t even know if I wanna date you anymore.” Then later on goes to say “if you’re talking to other girls I don’t want s*** to do with you”

    So you DONT want to date me and be exclusive but you also DONT want me to to do what I want since we’re both single?

    Lol ok. I blocked that stupid hoe lol

  • Aug 5, 2021
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    Twist Your Cap

    dude doesn't realize he'll forget about this in 6 months lmao

    honestly this op…how old are you? I remember feeling like this my first break up and then well time healed everything, then s*** my 2nd breakup felt the same and it actually took longer the 2nd time but the same result. Just give it some more time but it really does always fix this

  • Aug 5, 2021
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    Husk_

    It’s essentially the same thing . We had been broken up but she never wanted to be official with me as in GF BF. But she still wanted me to talk , hang out and s***.

    She told me, “I don’t even know if I wanna date you anymore.” Then later on goes to say “if you’re talking to other girls I don’t want s*** to do with you”

    So you DONT want to date me and be exclusive but you also DONT want me to to do what I want since we’re both single?

    Lol ok. I blocked that stupid hoe lol

    Point blank that does sound pretty toxic. It's easier said than done tho. Im so emotionally attached to her. It hurts so bad

  • Aug 5, 2021
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    capers

    honestly this op…how old are you? I remember feeling like this my first break up and then well time healed everything, then s*** my 2nd breakup felt the same and it actually took longer the 2nd time but the same result. Just give it some more time but it really does always fix this

    I'm 24 already. I've been thru 3 other long relationships and this attachment is unlike the others. I really want something with this girl. I'm just conflicted

  • Aug 5, 2021
    Crazygu y

    I'm 24 already. I've been thru 3 other long relationships and this attachment is unlike the others. I really want something with this girl. I'm just conflicted

    you gon be alright, trust time

  • Aug 5, 2021
    XenoMorph

    but srsly op go to someone who has a DEGREE in this'
    we cant help the most we can do is console

    I've gotten professional help before few years back. The guy didn't help much. The most he tried to do was distract me by talking sports. Nothing much else

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    Crazygu y

    Point blank that does sound pretty toxic. It's easier said than done tho. Im so emotionally attached to her. It hurts so bad

    Love and hate are on an extremely fine line. You have strong emotions for her right now. You may like her now , but when you stick around long enough you will begin to hate her. And she will begin to hate you more. You think it’s dark now, you ain’t seen nothing yet.

    You’re wasting your time with a girl who isn’t meant for you. Relationships are supposed to be easy. They enhance your life not stress you out to the point this hoe got you running to KTT for advice.

    The right girl won’t have you asking others for questions, the right girl wouldn’t break up with you, y’all won’t fight. You over here scared to leave a b**** that is obviously not meant for you.