you could always quit, citing mental stress and other legitimate causes, take 3 months to relax and find yourself mentally and then get back on the horse either at the same job, or a new one

if you truly been grinding since high school then you should be fine taking 3 months of employment insurance while you relax

otherwise you are just complaining?

i guess you could also get a better job with higher pay, benefits and more time off?

its almost like you want KTT to tell your people to go to work because you are too scared lmao

I work for a lumber company, so I just load customers with lumber all day long.

lmao

G s*** bro these are sometimes the difficult things you have to deal with as an adult. Personally I believe in an equal contribution relationship. That’s how I was raised and that’s how my future family will be. Not saying you’re wrong, but letting your girl slide on contributing because you love her can lead to be taken advantage of in a sense. You really need to figure out what’s important to you taking emotions out of it

Keep grinding. It’ll pay off and be much more satisfying versus getting a handout

I have a s*** ton of bills, I'm a home owner, new car owner, layered fees ect so I'm a long ways off from being able to take off three months without pissing my savings away and starting myself at square 1. I'm not expecting anyone to tell anyone to work, it's literally just a venting thread and seeing if others have been feeling similar.

your girl and your sister are taking advantage but you dont see that and that's the problem

just quit, go on EI for 2-3 months and stop paying for everything, you not their daddy

I feel bad for people who don’t have jobs but there are tons of jobs out there, lotta folks jus don’t have the humility to work at McDonald’s or Amazon. And why would u when u can get unemployment

Respectable. Take a weekend off and take a vacation bro

I was this way too @op now my shorty done bossed up n she lowkey making just as much as me

I feel the opposite, I was seeing people unable to get jobs after graduation and I felt for them cause it’s a tough job market. I kind of avoided talking about my job, it can be tough being in that position

if you make about 3 grand a month and you been doing that for a few years im sure you can take some time off while keeping things afloat

you personally have a house and a car and you are upset that you gotta keep that going while other people pay rent/freeload and take the bus?

bro you are a king just stfu and stand strong otherwise removing the problem is your only solution, the problem = paying for people

That's where I'm trying to get her. Scared to invest in a car for her because if she don't get on her grind w the job s*** then I'ma really be tight. But she boutta start moving s*** for me while I'm at work so I guess that's enough.

cant find career positions

but day jobs are everywhere

factories, grocery stores, construction, etc

Yeah that's the big difference. There's an abundance of jobs, but the really nice ones are a needle in a haystack unless ridiculously educated AND experienced

Ay man. I'm not going to tell you what you should do with your girl/sis but you should take a small vacation by yourself.

Oh man our situations are so similar. Yeah she didn’t have a car living with me as well begging me for a car I just kept telling her ass yo you don’t go anywhere why do you need a car rn

Don’t buy that car until she get a job fr

If this continues, you'll prob end up hating both of them since it clearly bothers you

Have you ever took a vacation by yourself? Just curious

my thoughts exactly

Nope

Same s*** sound kinda wack fr lmao

Yeah. Not a long ass week by myself but a long weekend

You get paid decent at least?

How was it?