I must stay strong
I saw a couple with a baby today and I instantly thought “well maybe one isn’t that bad”
But I promised myself I wouldn’t bring a child to this world until I could give him the life I didn’t have, I must stay strong brothers the feeling is killing me, is holding strangers babies for 5 minutes enough therapy to kill this feeling? Should I get a cat?

having children feels like a burden more and more massive with each passing day

get a cat

Having my son is literally the greatest thing to ever to happen to me

Yeah…get a pet bro, if you’re lifestyle is not suitable financially or otherwise for having children it’s a lot of work it requires selflessness & patience

I have a child and I love it but yeah you gotta be in the right space. You can’t be on any selfish s*** at all. Zero.

same 😭 op not ready though

I want a daughter

Plants try to not open your mouth for 30 minutes brother

lol no

I think it’s called baby fever brother

What’s the cure for this, I’m this close 🤏to have a baby

Hangout with your nieces or nephews for more than an hour and it should go away once you remember how tiring it is

become a eunuch

pnc

That’s bad cause I’ve got nobody close to me that fits the “oh look I’m a dumb kid who’s gonna make you hate the idea of having children” box, they just range from 12 to 16, grown ass mfs who might tire me as well

As a huge Drake stan my son is cool af

He won’t stop chanting OVHOE tho

This does it for me

So draining

F*** them kids

Idgaf I want kids

Same bro. Nothing like your son screaming your name in excitement and running/crawling up to you when you come home from work

My son is only 8 months so he ain't talking yet but that smile when he sees me when I get home or he wakes up

Amazing

It only gets better man

I feel bad for these dudes who don't want kids. Like u gotta have low self esteem or be depressed to not want kids, it's deadass the most important thing u can do in life

Ngl I didn't want kids till recently, after realizing my own potential as a man