Oct 26, 2022
THANOSnot a parent, but i have 3 nieces and nephew all under 5 y/o and i’m a huge part of their lives
as someone that grew up being beaten (it’s not ‘discipline’ it’s child abuse - i got hit with a rolling pin once. nothing a 5 year old does warrants being hit with a rolling pin) i would never condone physical discipline with kids. there are better ways. miss me with the “spare the rod spoil the child” s***
real for that clarification. i think ppl need to hear it more often. hitting a child is child abuse, no way around it. miss me with all that fake ass discipline s***
Oct 26, 2022·1 replyDoes taking things away and sending them to their room not work?
- Oct 26, 2022
CherrywineSpanking is only one form of positive punishment, but there are also other things like labor, extra chores, etc
What is the most effective method of punishment?
i believe positive punishment is more effective in the short term than negative punishment (don't quote me) but ultimately positive reinforcement is the best way to condition behavior i believe
- Oct 26, 2022Mac Wit Da Cheese
Does taking things away and sending them to their room not work?
That’s called negative punishment and seems to be less effective
Oct 26, 2022The best way to discipline is to develop a strong enough attachment to your kids to the extent that they mostly value your rules/boundaries and want to mimic you rather than outside influences.