Mans really said that line of thinking is extremely dangerous man what you sounding white asl coming off that pressed.
It’s only transphobic if you are being discriminatory or hateful against them because of their status as a trans person.
Meanwhile continues going on a huge rant justifying…discriminating against a trans woman lmao.
Since we talking but what trans people going through, you wanna know what line of thinking is extremely dangerous and unfair?
Where the hell did I justify discriminating against trans women???
I said it IS transphobic if you ARE discriminating against them because of their status as trans, that’s not justifying the behavior
"I think trans women are real women... Now let me give 10 reasons why they actually aren't."
Saying something then saying the opposite doesn't make saying the opposite what you want it to mean you know
"I'm not sexually attracted to trans women, not bexause they aren't real women of course m, but you have to admit there's a big difference between trans and cis women, not that I am transphobic of course, but I would never date a trans women. Trans women are women by the way. "
How is it extremely dangerous lmao??? Cis people aren't in f***ing danger nobody's forcing your ass to date trans people, trans people are in danger because of YOUR thinking
It’s dangerous from a social and cultural point of view, and trans people should not be in danger with this way of thinking.
There are people that will get violent with a trans person after finding out they are trans, and that is obviously 100% not okay. I’m not defending people who do that, nor am I advocating that people do that.
If trans people aren’t your sexual preference, then it should be communicated to the trans person in a nice and respectful way.
"I think trans women are real women... Now let me give 10 reasons why they actually aren't."
Saying something then saying the opposite doesn't make saying the opposite what you want it to mean you know
Well if i say they arent the same to me as cisgender women when it comes to sexual attraction, i might get the ban
Where the hell did I justify discriminating against trans women???
I said it IS transphobic if you ARE discriminating against them because of their status as trans, that’s not justifying the behavior
“ Trans women ARE women. But, as a heterosexual/cisgender male, I, as well as many other cisgender hetero men, am attracted to solely cisgender women.”
“Have I seen a trans woman that I find attractive? Yes, but that doesn’t mean I am sexually attracted to them, nor does it mean I would pursue anything romantic with them.”

Well if i say they arent the same to me as cisgender women when it comes to sexual attraction, i might get the ban
No you wont, stop being dishonest when you know why niggas got the ban in here.
"I think trans women are real women... Now let me give 10 reasons why they actually aren't."
Saying something then saying the opposite doesn't make saying the opposite what you want it to mean you know
Where did I say that cisgender women are “real” women?
Because you’re only implying that I’m saying trans women aren’t “real” women because I said they are not cisgender. I never said that.
I said they are trans, and cisgender women are cisgender. Nowhere did I say that one was real and the other wasn’t.
It’s dangerous from a social and cultural point of view, and trans people should not be in danger with this way of thinking.
There are people that will get violent with a trans person after finding out they are trans, and that is obviously 100% not okay. I’m not defending people who do that, nor am I advocating that people do that.
If trans people aren’t your sexual preference, then it should be communicated to the trans person in a nice and respectful way.
And guess what, that’s transphobic lol
No you wont, stop being dishonest when you know why niggas got the ban in here.
Okay if i tell you the reason why i am not attracted to them than i might get banned bc i dont know how to word s*** right
It’s dangerous from a social and cultural point of view, and trans people should not be in danger with this way of thinking.
There are people that will get violent with a trans person after finding out they are trans, and that is obviously 100% not okay. I’m not defending people who do that, nor am I advocating that people do that.
If trans people aren’t your sexual preference, then it should be communicated to the trans person in a nice and respectful way.
Wow I wonder how you would react if someone you were into just told u "yeah its not gonna do it i can't date cis people sorry" I'm sure ud feel absolutely OK with it, nothijg wrong, just keep it moving right
Well if i say they arent the same to me as cisgender women when it comes to sexual attraction, i might get the ban
I don't care
“ Trans women ARE women. But, as a heterosexual/cisgender male, I, as well as many other cisgender hetero men, am attracted to solely cisgender women.”
“Have I seen a trans woman that I find attractive? Yes, but that doesn’t mean I am sexually attracted to them, nor does it mean I would pursue anything romantic with them.”
!https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UymN5scMpZMHow is that a contradiction?
You’ve never said to yourself “that’s an attractive person” without wanting to have s***with them???
Finding someone attractive =/= being attracted to that person.
I have male friends that I think are attractive guys but that doesn’t mean I want to have s***with them
How is that a contradiction?
You’ve never said to yourself “that’s an attractive person” without wanting to have s***with them???
Finding someone attractive =/= being attracted to that person.
I have male friends that I think are attractive guys but that doesn’t mean I want to have s***with them
That last part
Different types of attraction exist
Wow I wonder how you would react if someone you were into just told u "yeah its not gonna do it i can't date cis people sorry" I'm sure ud feel absolutely OK with it, nothijg wrong, just keep it moving right
I really wouldn’t give a f*** I would respect their choice and move on to the next person
That last part
Different types of attraction exist
I have two older sisters who I think are beautiful and extremely attractive women, that doesn’t mean I’m attracted to my f***ing sisters
These guys are insane if they can’t understand that finding someone attractive doesn’t mean you are sexually attracted to that person
Wow I wonder how you would react if someone you were into just told u "yeah its not gonna do it i can't date cis people sorry" I'm sure ud feel absolutely OK with it, nothijg wrong, just keep it moving right
Not really different than rejecting somebody based off height, looks, social economic status
Which happened to pretty much all of humanity
I really wouldn’t give a f*** I would respect their choice and move on to the next person
OK and u know why u would react that way? Because you don't usually get refused s*** because of your gender identity, because you don't get chased in the street because of it, u don't get random strangers telling you they want to kill u for no reason, u don't get weirdos harassing u asking u if you're a man or a woman and being scary af, u don't get s*** thrown at u because u don't fit, so just stop talking about all of this altogether please
Not really different than rejecting somebody based off height, looks, social economic status
Which happened to pretty much all of humanity
"it can happen to everyone so it's OK!"
OK and u know why u would react that way? Because you don't usually get refused s*** because of your gender identity, because you don't get chased in the street because of it, u don't get random strangers telling you they want to kill u for no reason, u don't get weirdos harassing u asking u if you're a man or a woman and being scary af, u don't get s*** thrown at u because u don't fit, so just stop talking about all of this altogether please
You’re right I don’t deal with all of those things, and I hate that trans people have to deal with that.
But at the same time, it’s not my responsibility as a cisgender heterosexual person to automatically make my body feel an attraction to someone that it doesn’t naturally feel just so that person can feel better about themselves.
I have seen and been around many trans people and have never felt a sexual attraction. There’s literally absolutely nothing I can do about that
Okay if i tell you the reason why i am not attracted to them than i might get banned bc i dont know how to word s*** right
As long as you not saying derogatory joke statements or making p**** comments you should be ok.
All that I and other niggas itt that have tried to break it down for yall is say if you met a woman that you found attractive and wanted to f***, and she was post op and nothing genitals was an issue, and the ONLY thing that stops this from happening is her saying she trans?
Maybe (and this is a part of the whole “not having friends that are trans itl) see it from her perspective?
Maybe ask yourself why that is?
Are you advocating for the extermination of trans woman by doing that? No. Are you ok with the discrimination that trans women go through in everyday life by doing that? No. Are you some sort of monster by doing that? No.
But you did make a trans woman feel unworthy as a mf for her transness because she checked off every box on your list but the “not a trans” box.
Regardless of your intent. Examine why that was a dealbreaker.