Not really different than rejecting somebody based off height, looks, social economic status
Which happened to pretty much all of humanity
Oh boy lmaooooooooo
It is a big deal to be rejected in all parts of life including romantic relationships when u can't fit in anywhere based on something you litteraly can't control, you wouldn't tell someone who suffers from racism to just "keep it moving, better luck next time" would you? You wouldn't tell someone who's disabled to just move on lol its not that big of a deal would you?
You’re right I don’t deal with all of those things, and I hate that trans people have to deal with that.
But at the same time, it’s not my responsibility as a cisgender heterosexual person to automatically make my body feel an attraction to someone that it doesn’t naturally feel just so that person can feel better about themselves.
I have seen and been around many trans people and have never felt a sexual attraction. There’s literally absolutely nothing I can do about that
Nobody's asking you to do any of this
Wow I wonder how you would react if someone you were into just told u "yeah its not gonna do it i can't date cis people sorry" I'm sure ud feel absolutely OK with it, nothijg wrong, just keep it moving right
yes? what the f***?
sexuality isn't some rational choice being made by an individual
yes? what the f***?
sexuality isn't some rational choice being made by an individual
Let's just ignore all the posts I've made after this one right
Nobody's asking you to do any of this
Okay so then don’t call it transphobic for me or other cisgender people not feeling a sexual attraction to trans people
We can’t force our bodies to be attracted to someone they aren’t naturally attracted to
yes? what the f***?
sexuality isn't some rational choice being made by an individual
So why are there ppl saying itt that if a cisgender make dates a transgender woman that doesnt mean their straight then?
So why are there ppl saying itt that if a cisgender make dates a transgender woman that doesnt mean their straight then?
way i see it, nature grants us a body type, and a mind type. regular formula for a human male is male body, male mind. sometimes the process f***s up and you get male body, female mind.
now a "person" is what you connect with right? its the thing behind their eyes, not their body? so a male body w/ female mind is a woman
but sexuality doesn't work that way.
Okay so then don’t call it transphobic for me or other cisgender people not feeling a sexual attraction to trans people
We can’t force our bodies to be attracted to someone they aren’t naturally attracted to
I'm not calling you as a person transphobic, it won't kill you to admit the social forces and logics that are influencing the way we think are transphobic in the way they operate, just like you can't deny there are racist, sexist, homophobic social forces that weigh on us, it's just the way western society is made, you contribute to it whether you like it or not... You may not be transphobic as in you won't go out of your way to hurt trans people but you might hurt trans people unknowingly because society never thought you and most people how to act around us, and that's why you get actual Transphobia happening
way i see it, nature grants us a body type, and a mind type. regular formula for a human male is male body, male mind. sometimes the process f***s up and you get male body, female mind.
now a "person" is what you connect with right? its the thing behind their eyes, not their body? so a male body w/ female mind is a woman
but sexuality doesn't work that way.
And you’d be wrong but hey go off lol
theres way too many women walking this planet for me to look at trans lmaoo u def gotta have a thing for men at that point
who liked this post is what i wanna know tho
Nobody's gonna force you to date someone you don't wanna date nobody's gonna hold a grudge against you for it most of the time, but if you go out of your way to clearly say I'm not gonna date à trans person because they're some way and that way and it disgusts me and blablabla then big news you may be transphobic
So why are there ppl saying itt that if a cisgender make dates a transgender woman that doesnt mean their straight then?
if a cis man dates a person with a p****... i mean. its pretty cut and dry. you guys are turning this into something its not.
its not fair but sexuality is not rational
And like please for once in your ktt life just listen to the actual trans people telling you about trans related stuff
I'm not calling you as a person transphobic, it won't kill you to admit the social forces and logics that are influencing the way we think are transphobic in the way they operate, just like you can't deny there are racist, sexist, homophobic social forces that weigh on us, it's just the way western society is made, you contribute to it whether you like it or not... You may not be transphobic as in you won't go out of your way to hurt trans people but you might hurt trans people unknowingly because society never thought you and most people how to act around us, and that's why you get actual Transphobia happening
How else should we act around you other than treating y’all like any other normal human being? I treat trans people how I treat literally any other person, like they’re normal human beings
if a cis man dates a person with a p****... i mean. its pretty cut and dry. you guys are turning this into something its not.
its not fair but sexuality is not rational
P****es and vaginas are f***ing organs, you don't say someone has a male heart or a female liver do you? Why should it be different?
how? lol
Nigga i been saying attractive from day one i aint talking bout no personality. I been saying if you as a man saw a woman that you found attractive in every way and would be down to sexually engage and naked they looked like a regular woman but the only thing that stopped you was the whole trans thing, maybe its something there.
Feels like i been saying a variation of this at least 50 times
if a cis man dates a person with a p****... i mean. its pretty cut and dry. you guys are turning this into something its not.
its not fair but sexuality is not rational
a person is just their genitals got it
P****es and vaginas are f***ing organs, you don't say someone has a male heart or a female liver do you? Why should it be different?
sexual organs are pretty much the basis for sexual orientation lol.
Nigga i been saying attractive from day one i aint talking bout no personality. I been saying if you as a man saw a woman that you found attractive in every way and would be down to sexually engage and naked they looked like a regular woman but the only thing that stopped you was the whole trans thing, maybe its something there.
Feels like i been saying a variation of this at least 50 times
sexuality is not rational
How else should we act around you other than treating y’all like any other normal human being? I treat trans people how I treat literally any other person, like they’re normal human beings
Then that's great and if everyone acted that way it woild be great too, it's litteraly that simple, we only wanna be respected as regular people, we don't need people debating whether or not it's "gay to like trans people" whether or not we should be allowed to go in that bathroom or this bathroom whether or not kids can be trans like we litteraly just wanna be seen as PEOPLE