Lol not admitting it’s a you problem and instead blaming outside forces is part of the problem. All those things can be presented to you, and you have to have the strength to simply say no, look away, and go do something else.
Failing simply means you’re either insatiable, missing something in your life that you are seeking in those instant gratifications, or you’re an addict who needs to look in the mirror and seek help or clean up your surroundings/life
Everything in life is basicly a you problem but denying outside factors is simply just ignorant. These are billiondolllar companys doing everything to suck the youth in, and the earlier you get sucked in the harder it is to quit.
It's a sociaty problem because it's accepted AND advertized everywhere. Ofcourse it all leads up to the Individual eventually but when you're a young kid searching for your identity it's easy to become brainwashed and stuck just so you can fit in or w.e.
When it comes to p***, I fail because I'v probably watched p*** since I was 10. That's 20 years of watching it on and off. It's a lifestyle at this point. Again, this is a problem amongst many, people are just afraid to speak on it.
Everything in life is basicly a you problem but denying outside factors is simply just ignorant. These are billiondolllar companys doing everything to suck the youth in, and the earlier you get sucked in the harder it is to quit.
It's a sociaty problem because it's accepted AND advertized everywhere. Ofcourse it all leads up to the Individual eventually but when you're a young kid searching for your identity it's easy to become brainwashed and stuck just so you can fit in or w.e.
When it comes to p***, I fail because I'v probably watched p*** since I was 10. That's 20 years of watching it on and off. It's a lifestyle at this point. Again, this is a problem amongst many, people are just afraid to speak on it.
Those outside factors are never gonna stop thats reality. So at the end of the day its all on you
Excessive p*** consumption will rot the brain. Man or woman. Excessive consumption of anything really but we’re talking about p*** specifically so I’ll keep it there.
Probably the most destructive thing about p*** is that yes it can absolutely ruin people’s expectations of how s***is initiated, and what actual sexual intercourse looks like on average.
At my worst I probably watched p*** 4 times out the week. Sometimes I’d do just twice a week, but I’d beat off back to back. And my session aren’t quick. I treat myself. Lay a towel down. Get my oil. Might light a candle. I’m edging it for at least 30 minutes before I find something to nut to. I also like storylines and a plot to my p***. I’ve been able to get it back under control. I beat off to p*** no more than 2 times a week. About an hour each. Even this I’m trying to get it down to once a week.
I didn’t really start consuming p*** until I was 22-23 tbh. Prior to that I’d maybe watch some softcore s*** or lesbian p*** (Girlfriend Films goated) every couple months but I never beat off to it. Kinda miss those times. Use to get hard for damn near anything. Just me riding in a whip would get my d*** hard back then
I was suffering from intense performance anxiety dealing with this one girl at 22-23. Anytime we would try and f***, I’d either nut super quick, or I couldn’t get hard at all. I ended up using p*** to teach myself how to edge and stay hard. It actually worked, a lil too well cause I then ended up having the opposite problem for a while, I couldn’t nut from s***for a good 7-8 months Id get close to the edge, but I’d have to pull out and beat off in order to nut. You’d think it’s a good problem to have, but nope. Women will take your problems and make it their own and you won’t be able to figure your s*** out cause you gotta console her feelings about your inability to nut because she thinks she’s the problem. 🙃
TLDR; Everything in moderation.
Excessive p*** consumption will rot the brain. Man or woman. Excessive consumption of anything really but we’re talking about p*** specifically so I’ll keep it there.
Probably the most destructive thing about p*** is that yes it can absolutely ruin people’s expectations of how s***is initiated, and what actual sexual intercourse looks like on average.
At my worst I probably watched p*** 4 times out the week. Sometimes I’d do just twice a week, but I’d beat off back to back. And my session aren’t quick. I treat myself. Lay a towel down. Get my oil. Might light a candle. I’m edging it for at least 30 minutes before I find something to nut to. I also like storylines and a plot to my p***. I’ve been able to get it back under control. I beat off to p*** no more than 2 times a week. About an hour each. Even this I’m trying to get it down to once a week.
I didn’t really start consuming p*** until I was 22-23 tbh. Prior to that I’d maybe watch some softcore s*** or lesbian p*** (Girlfriend Films goated) every couple months but I never beat off to it. Kinda miss those times. Use to get hard for damn near anything. Just me riding in a whip would get my d*** hard back then
I was suffering from intense performance anxiety dealing with this one girl at 22-23. Anytime we would try and f***, I’d either nut super quick, or I couldn’t get hard at all. I ended up using p*** to teach myself how to edge and stay hard. It actually worked, a lil too well cause I then ended up having the opposite problem for a while, I couldn’t nut from s***for a good 7-8 months Id get close to the edge, but I’d have to pull out and beat off in order to nut. You’d think it’s a good problem to have, but nope. Women will take your problems and make it their own and you won’t be able to figure your s*** out cause you gotta console her feelings about your inability to nut because she thinks she’s the problem. 🙃
TLDR; Everything in moderation.
Lmmfao, that nigga there just likes to complain like a b****. There's never any point to it aside from just being emotional
as a male, it is possible to watch p*** and be a net-positive human to their family and society. that is a stance i am willing to argue on KTT2.
i am not sure what the counter argument is. eradicate all p***? that is not realistic. never has been and never will be. why even eradicate it if normal functioning folks can consume it without abnormal impacts to their life.
over consumption of p*** = bad. i doubt anyone is really arguing against that in good faith. so what is the point here?
Part of the problem is defining what "over consumption" is. How often should p*** be watched before it becomes unhealthy? Many people are in denial about the harmful effects of p*** in the first place, so they'll definitely be in denial about having an addiction to it
Eradication might not be the solution, but the accessibility of p*** to minors and a societal push towards it being "normal" should definitely be combatted. We can load up literally millions of hours of videos containing strangers having s***on a device we carry around with us everywhere. For free. That s*** is wild and changes need to be made
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Thanks for these
It almost ruined me tbh. Most of my life i had one night flings and i was in relationship for like 3 years total so i beat that s*** a lot alone. Now i got a new gf and i struggled a bit in the beginning tbh. Couldn’t believe this s*** but its real. Now its getting much better and i stopped p*** completely for good. P*** is poison , at least for some people.
Everything in life is basicly a you problem but denying outside factors is simply just ignorant. These are billiondolllar companys doing everything to suck the youth in, and the earlier you get sucked in the harder it is to quit.
It's a sociaty problem because it's accepted AND advertized everywhere. Ofcourse it all leads up to the Individual eventually but when you're a young kid searching for your identity it's easy to become brainwashed and stuck just so you can fit in or w.e.
When it comes to p***, I fail because I'v probably watched p*** since I was 10. That's 20 years of watching it on and off. It's a lifestyle at this point. Again, this is a problem amongst many, people are just afraid to speak on it.
Man nah, I grew up in the same world as you with the same s*** thrown at me.
Self control is self control. If you lack that, then you’ll fall victim to the repetitive cycle of stimuli that does not serve you for the better. All you gotta do is say no, you ultimately have power over your brain and what you decide to do. My nephew can say no and he’s 16 lol and they been having this s*** thrown at them from a way earlier age than you and me. Everyone has the ability of self control, it’s at the end of the day up to you
Like it hasn't ruined s***for me but I feel like p*** has definitely made my expectations of s***higher, therefore when it's not like what you see it's disappointing and you can't get as turned on
1. P*** is instant gratification. Any time you want, you can have it, any type of fetish you want (big b****, milf, a*** etc.) it's up to you to decide. Irl women aren't like that, you can't just be hey I wanna have sex, and guarantee they're gonna be down. You can't say hey babe can you dress up as a nurse cause I have that fantasy rn, no. 90% of girls would be like heck no I ain't doing that.
2. P*** also leads to unrealistic expectations of women, like you think all women dress up to be sexy for you but that's not true. Most of the time women are dressed comfortably, they aren't trying to be sexy for you.
3. P*** and jerking off means you don't feel h****, therefore feel like you don't need sex. This can also hurt your relationship because you lose intimacy.
You are 100% right and my life has been so much better since I moved on from it. It seems silly in hindsight how I even thought it was worthwhile. But a lot of people aren't ready to discuss this topic seriously, since people are ashamed to admit it and it's a taboo topic so you'll get a lot of dismissals and driveby posts.
Our brains are simply not built for that level of supernormal stimuli on command. No matter how you slice it or try to say it is ok under X condition, at any level imo it's affecting our brain chemistry to different extents. Which in turn affects the literal fabric of your experience and life.
Internet p***ography takes advantage of our brain chemistry and normal bodily processes and hijacks it so you can stay consuming it. It desensitises you to normal sexual experience. The main issue is a lot of people mix up p***ography and masturbation and assume that you can't do the latter if you escape from the former.
NSFW, but a great one
Because 103 men where the mean age is past sexual prime is a good estimation for men everywhere?
Once again shawty good day lmao
You keep saying good day
Everything in life is basicly a you problem but denying outside factors is simply just ignorant. These are billiondolllar companys doing everything to suck the youth in, and the earlier you get sucked in the harder it is to quit.
It's a sociaty problem because it's accepted AND advertized everywhere. Ofcourse it all leads up to the Individual eventually but when you're a young kid searching for your identity it's easy to become brainwashed and stuck just so you can fit in or w.e.
When it comes to p***, I fail because I'v probably watched p*** since I was 10. That's 20 years of watching it on and off. It's a lifestyle at this point. Again, this is a problem amongst many, people are just afraid to speak on it.
People are ashamed to talk about it because it's viewed as something to hide. As well as the fact that p*** users always instantly dismiss and start attacking you and isolating you (whether they mean it or not) if you start to talk about how it's bad for our wellbeing and life in general. I get what you mean brother. It's a real problem a lot of men are facing, young or old.
You keep saying good day
Cause I was tryna wish her a good day!
Now good day to you sir!
The underlying problem to ALL of this that people aren't ready to discuss is overreliance on s***and sexuality as an emotional crutch. That firing of the nervous system during s***and the overreliance on that chemical change
Part of the problem is defining what "over consumption" is. How often should p*** be watched before it becomes unhealthy? Many people are in denial about the harmful effects of p*** in the first place, so they'll definitely be in denial about having an addiction to it
Eradication might not be the solution, but the accessibility of p*** to minors and a societal push towards it being "normal" should definitely be combatted. We can load up literally millions of hours of videos containing strangers having s***on a device we carry around with us everywhere. For free. That s*** is wild and changes need to be made
Yeah, I definitely agree. When it comes to p*** regulation I believe it should be completely focused on protecting children.