fucknick

3y

had chilli last night so me too

Orangutan

3y

gonna need pics later to asses

earthwalka

3y

DEFINITELY should have dropped it after the “let you know” post. No girl that wants to f*** with you will give you the let you know text, that’s 100% facts. If they saying they will let you know, go on ahead and wrap that s*** up because you’ve got no chance.

Now at the back of mind I knew this information but a part of me just wanted to test the theory to the limit.

Oh I was congratulating her on her song release, she had been like all my posts around that time so I just decided to return the favor

BlueChew Sean

3y

https://ktt2.com/you-got-the-yes-for-a-date-now-what-32497230
Wish I knew the first paragraph earlier, was in this thread making a damn fool of myself She grey ticked me on Whatsapp a few weeks ago. Now I just look at her statuses and think about what I could've done better to avoid fumbling

BlueChew Sean

3y

I read those messages again and maybe she got weirded out by the times you responded You mentioned your working hours but responding at like midnight maybe made her think you shouldn't be up that late responding to her when yall barely know each other

And then she responds at like 2pm with the "I'll definitely let you know" - I recently found out on here that this could be a girl's way of rejecting you I'm not sure if you're supposed to drop it after this and just wait for her to get back to you. But I can see how the quad text with the date idea could be seen as a little strong

But what happened when you messaged her again in September though?

EDIT: Damn, niggas in here quick af Good to know we saying similar things so I'm not completely wrong

Mmm Hmm

3y

@SOLARIS

You sounded mad thirsty fam.

Like you hadn't gotten p**** in years.

Girls can smell that.

And if they do it's GG

earthwalka

3y

and she just never responded huh?

yea bro it's a soft rejection and I take it as that unless told otherwise but 10 times out of 10, she won't ever "let you know" lol.

BlueChew Sean

3y

We were just chatting platonically because I didn't want to bring the date up again. I was asking her about her Masters and whether she recommends I do it next year, she congratulated me on winning a pair of Air Max Pattas I posted, s*** like that. She apologized for falling asleep and only replying the next morning, I started my reply to that off with "Don't worry about it" and she just never opened that message I feel like overcompensating for her apology maybe turned her off somehow. Now we just peep each other's statuses and don't speak

But f*** it, even getting a yes from her in the first place is a massive confidence booster for me

GottaGloUp1Day

3y

Cant be down bad if you never try

earthwalka

3y

I was desperate brotha

rustcohlestan

3y

how could it get any worse?

earthwalka

3y

had matched with this baddie on Hinge and we had a good convo on there and she sent me her insta so this where it starts

getting rejected AFTER matching with a chick had me f***ed up no lie because why bruh!

but we take these Ls as lessons and move on

earthwalka

3y

Yea for sure, I’ve been the chill nigga and it’s worked out, I got to f*** and all that yada yada but really I do want to be THAT genuine guy who takes a girl out and has fun with her THEN smashes later, I mean I don’t even prioritize f***ing, because it’s not that big a deal to me. It’s just hard to have that balance of being assertive in what you want so a girl don’t just see you as a friend but also not being too eager and then scaring them away.

Honestly dawg, this s*** is too much work. Relationships should be organic, all this push and pull s*** is for the birds man. Dating apps just reinforce the games men and women play to get what they want out each other

earthwalka

3y

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soccerfanj

3y

classic thread

internationalhov

3y

WHY COULDNT IT BE ME????