Unless she's actually in love with you, don’t do it; she'll, eventually, lose respect for you the more you do it.

Move to CS

Did someone hurt you op

Well the key is not overdo it but they fw honesty and vulnerability in the right dose

yes

it's easy to overdo it, so not doing it at all is the safest option

You’ll be alright

Yeah this my problem tbh

I don’t go into my issues with girls I’m into but I’m def overly passionate and I think that scares girls off tbh

But idk that’s how I’ve always been. Super passionate about things I like (music, movies, video games, etc)

Depends on what your worries are and how visibly emotional you get about it

If you’ve had a traumatic experience, suffer from depression, have financial issues (etc.), don’t do it

I don’t say s*** and now i forgot how to share things in a healthy way and girls start panicking

True

It's completely true

Assume you’re a teenager op

I wish

Better to not share than over-share, trust me

Nah

Damn they got you in shambles

Hate it had to be you OP

I've always gotten opposite results. Get em on the phone, make em laugh, get them to open up, tell em f***ed up s*** about my family's past, then they tell me f***ed up s*** about their past, then we stay in contact until I can take them out on a date

It can work, I guess it also depends on the girl and how much of a connection the two of you share together. But, as a rule of thumb, it’s best not to do it, and if you still want to do it, always spin it in a positive light.

that's not healthy to keep those thoughts bottled up, it's called communication. At a certain age, not doing so will result in you losing her quicker than you thought. No grown ass woman wants a man that thinks he's too insecure to show emotion/vent

Not disclosing things doesn’t mean you’re insecure; you’re trying not to make it seem like the problems are part of who you truly are. If you keep mentioning it to her, she will feel less inclined to want you as a romantic partner because - unfortunately - women will see you as weak the more problems (of yours) you share with them.

Never tell ur problems to anyone

U just look weak

imagine having problems pst cant be me im good all the time

it is insecure, you thinking that women automatically will see you as weak for venting about worries or problems is an insecurity lol

seems like you've just been in a bad relationship b

this does not at all apply to all women/romantic interests and to assume so is quite weird