BasedBoy

5y

Do it :)

ferris

5y

how come the lqbtq photo tags on twitter are 98% women?

i wanna join in sometimes but i feel like the gays don't do that for some reason lol

ferris

5y

how come the lqbtq photo tags on twitter are 98% women?

i wanna join in sometimes but i feel like the gays don't do that for some reason lol

Flower

5y

It's the Tumblr refugees that moved to Twitter. Mostly white, female presenting NBs. I see a lot of bi and genderqueer culture in those trends. "Traditional" older gays and lesbians are rarely part of those hashtags because they appear to come out of nowhere and are organized by those Gen Z teens. But the other day I learned that Twitter private group chats are popping and that's where they organize.

Not that they got it much easier but younger, white, female LGBTQ members are more likely to get positive feedback from their peers so they post more frequently than say an older black trans person who will prob get turned into a meme. We can break the cycle and get more representation but who's gonna make the first step and do we even want to?

lostintheworld

5y

This is my first post here, I'm a former ktter, and made an account on ktt2 to ask a question I can't reveal in real life.

I have always been straight. Rarely ever thought about gay sexuality. I never see my friends that way and rarely any othe men.

But lately my dating/sex life has been non existent. I have had some health problems that caused me to lose weight. I lost confidence in my thin frame. I also dated some really crappy women, which I accept much of the responsibility. And it made me realize how emotionally immature I was and caused a lack of trust in women and myself. I just didn't feel ready between feeling bad and unsure of myself.

Well on the occasions that I get inibriated, I get gay fetishes. I have a fantasy of being a bottom to older men. Preferably big and slightly overweight. Idk why this is, it just always felt like something that turned me on in the right moments. Although I am primarily attracted to women, seeing them cam both turned me on and made me want to be them. I'd see this hot women exposing themselves to all these random people, spreading their pussies and smoking on cam. It was a huge turn on, and something I wanted to try.

I tried chaturbate a few times. I liked it but felt kind of paranoid. This fetish rarely showed itself, and it wasn't something I felt ready to share with people in my everyday life. I have no problem being a straight man doing "guy things". This was an alter ego.

After a few more times of riding the edge and testing the waters, I finally went on grindr. I got loads of attention. I have a slender body that is perfect for a bottom, and long beautiful hair. I actually look quite feminine when properly posed. I decided to do a quick meet up with a 50 year old man (im 27) and give him head and swallow his load.

He came to my house and we hooked up in his car. At first I felt like I shouldnt be doing this. I didnt want my roomate to wake up and go to work. I didn't want neighbors to see. It was 4am, but she wakes up early. But as I got into it, it was fun. He was a good looking black man with a huge thick cock. He talked dirty to me, and made me gag, which is something I loved watching in p***.

I was a little nervous about being dominated by a man, it actually put me in a womans shoes for a bit, and made me realize how being a woman can be a scary thing in certain circumstances. But when he wanted to go farther aka go inside me, i told him i wasnt ready. he was very sweet and kissed me before i went back down on him. I swallowed his load and he left.

I'm not sure how I feel about it. I mean it was fun, but will sober me want to be open to that? It seems purely an inebriated fetish. Sober me really just thinks about women 100% of the time. Gay fantasies sober are rare when I masturbate. I feel confused, but I'm tired of being ashamed. Maybe this will help me be open again in general with sex. It;s been almost two years since I've been with a woman, but honestly, my slender frame is perfect for a man to be turned on by.

What do you guys think?

genghiskharti

5y

it costs 20 dollars a month just to use grindr?? how are you guys okay with this? like is tinder not free?

Old Sport

5y

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Guess who I saw at the club last night? Go on, guess. but guess what happened.

Flower

5y

Oh no what happened?

Old Sport

5y

TL;DR - Guy I met at the club and had a great time with played me. I'm an emotional wreck.

Idk if you saw or not, but remember when I asked you guys if I should text him? Well it's that guy. Anyway.. I met him at the club a few weeks ago, I think like a Saturday or two before Christmas. He was visiting from LA. I had seen him checking me out from across the bar when he was with his friends. so 30 minutes before the club closed, he finally approached me and sat next to me on the couch. We start getting acquainted then he puts his arm in mine, hands held, with his head on my shoulder.. then we start making out. He asks if I wanna go to his Airbnb to cuddle and hang out or whatever, so we Uber there after we left the club. We had really amazing s***and our chemistry was off the charts. There was some great cuddling and nice music playing.. at times he'd grab my hand and kiss it. He treated me real sweet, and well.. I guess you could say I kinda caught feelings? His charm when we were at the club is what swooped me right in. so after all that was done, he drove me home from Portland (with his rental) and held my hand the entire way. We get to my house and what caught me off guard is that when I went in for a kiss, he dodged it and gave me a quick half hug instead. We exchanged numbers and parted ways. A week later, I come on here and ask you guys if I should text him. So I did. We talked for a bit and then he just stopped replying.. I was the last one to send a text. I figured I would just let it go because I didn't want to seem clingy/needy.

Fast forward to last night (Saturday). I went to the club alone and guess who shows up at my table and surprises me out of nowhere? That's right, him. I turn to my left and there's Joe standing right beside me. That turned my night from melancholy to happy in a split second. So we chat for a minute and he puts his arm around my shoulders, I put mine around his waist. I'm all ecstatic and in disbelief, with a big ass smile on my face.. I said I couldn't believe he was there and that I thought I'd never see him again. I asked him if I was dreaming (A little dramatic, I know. but can you blame me?) but he didn't seem as thrilled to see me as I was him. That's when I knew something was up.. but I should've known better after he stopped replying to my texts. Basically, nothing happened. He walked away and went to the other side of the club (there are two areas. the main club and then a more laid back bar, called the "Rainbow Room"). He curved me hard and left me alone. I didn't see him for the rest of the night. I ended up still being alone but a few different groups of straight women and lesbians came to my table and sat with me. They saw how down I looked so some of them bought me drinks and told me to keep my head up. They said I'm a 8/10 and that's great for straight women's standards, and that I'm gorgeous and very clean with the way I dress. They felt really bad that he did me wrong. I ended up getting drunk and crying in the Uber from the club all the way to my house. Took all my clothes off and threw them on the floor, jumped in my bed and put the comforter over me, started simping and listening to sad s*** for the rest of the night.. then cried some more til I passed out. Do you think he did me wrong? or am I being too over dramatic/sensitive?

Flower

5y

Aww don't let this get you down. The new decade just started. Look at it that way. You will definitely find not just someone new but someone who is better.

Smoofer

5y

Reddit sucks! You didn’t do anything wrong, he was just being manipulative and is probably missing something in his life that makes him act how he does.

Old Sport

5y

I don't understand why he would even approach me in the first place after he stopped showing interest. I knew he didn't want me yet I still liked him and tried to get with him again. I'm dumb.

Smoofer

5y

He probably just wanted the validation he knew he could get from you. Sorry to hear that and I totally get why you would feel used

Old Sport

5y

It's all good cuz if he's there next Saturday, I'm gonna look good as hell and he's gonna feel like a dumbass.

Smoofer

5y

👏👏👏👏