Old Sport

5y

TL;DR - Guy I met at the club and had a great time with played me. I'm an emotional wreck.

Idk if you saw or not, but remember when I asked you guys if I should text him? Well it's that guy. Anyway.. I met him at the club a few weeks ago, I think like a Saturday or two before Christmas. He was visiting from LA. I had seen him checking me out from across the bar when he was with his friends. so 30 minutes before the club closed, he finally approached me and sat next to me on the couch. We start getting acquainted then he puts his arm in mine, hands held, with his head on my shoulder.. then we start making out. He asks if I wanna go to his Airbnb to cuddle and hang out or whatever, so we Uber there after we left the club. We had really amazing s***and our chemistry was off the charts. There was some great cuddling and nice music playing.. at times he'd grab my hand and kiss it. He treated me real sweet, and well.. I guess you could say I kinda caught feelings? His charm when we were at the club is what swooped me right in. so after all that was done, he drove me home from Portland (with his rental) and held my hand the entire way. We get to my house and what caught me off guard is that when I went in for a kiss, he dodged it and gave me a quick half hug instead. We exchanged numbers and parted ways. A week later, I come on here and ask you guys if I should text him. So I did. We talked for a bit and then he just stopped replying.. I was the last one to send a text. I figured I would just let it go because I didn't want to seem clingy/needy.

Fast forward to last night (Saturday). I went to the club alone and guess who shows up at my table and surprises me out of nowhere? That's right, him. I turn to my left and there's Joe standing right beside me. That turned my night from melancholy to happy in a split second. So we chat for a minute and he puts his arm around my shoulders, I put mine around his waist. I'm all ecstatic and in disbelief, with a big ass smile on my face.. I said I couldn't believe he was there and that I thought I'd never see him again. I asked him if I was dreaming (A little dramatic, I know. but can you blame me?) but he didn't seem as thrilled to see me as I was him. That's when I knew something was up.. but I should've known better after he stopped replying to my texts. Basically, nothing happened. He walked away and went to the other side of the club (there are two areas. the main club and then a more laid back bar, called the "Rainbow Room"). He curved me hard and left me alone. I didn't see him for the rest of the night. I ended up still being alone but a few different groups of straight women and lesbians came to my table and sat with me. They saw how down I looked so some of them bought me drinks and told me to keep my head up. They said I'm a 8/10 and that's great for straight women's standards, and that I'm gorgeous and very clean with the way I dress. They felt really bad that he did me wrong. I ended up getting drunk and crying in the Uber from the club all the way to my house. Took all my clothes off and threw them on the floor, jumped in my bed and put the comforter over me, started simping and listening to sad s*** for the rest of the night.. then cried some more til I passed out. Do you think he did me wrong? or am I being too over dramatic/sensitive?

Tgtkftiwb19

5y

I hate when men do this. I mean this happened to me with a guy named Tyler and I have so much hate for him. I’m very sorry that happened to you. It really hurts and I know there’s a lot of pain involved. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been talking, the pain is so strong and has a bad hold. You’re going to feel better.

Flower

5y

https://www.advocate.com/youth/2020/1/14/ky-teen-expelled-lifestyle-violation-rainbow-shirt-and-cake

Whitefield Academy, a private Christian school in Louisville KY, booted Kayla Kenney after her mother, Kimberly Alford, posted a photograph of the teen wearing her rainbow shirt and birthday cake. Kenney had been celebrating her 15th birthday with her family at a restaurant at the time.

The social media post was shared with faculty members of Whitefield, who took issue. Shortly afterward, Dr. Bruce Jacobson, head of the school, contacted Alford via email to inform her of the expulsion.

The photograph, Jacobson said, "demonstrates a posture of morality and cultural acceptance contrary to that of Whitefield Academy’s beliefs." Whitefield claimed that the rainbow cake and attire were the latest of Kenney's "lifestyle violations" over the course of two years.

Kayla's mother now worries about how the religious school's treatment of her daughter could affect her in the long term — and even observed hypocrisy in its actions. "You know we teach our kids what would Jesus do," Alford told WAVE. "What would he do here?”

Dead at "lifestyle violations". Tell me hets are not pressed.

Flower

5y

I feel misled. I didn't know Cara had a sister so I was dumbfounded when Poppy showed off her own room and I was like wtf do they sleep in separate beds? So I googled it and Poppy is just her sister and remembered she's with Ashley Benson. Flower you get taken all the time for a fool 😑
I'm not feeling that green anyway. I fw the theme but it feels like the type of house you would see on a PBS kids show. I'm trying to see how rich gay people decorate their homes so I can get cues for my lil place.

genghiskharti

5y

but you're not rich though

Flower

5y

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I'm not lesbian either. Not a problem. You can get the same furniture pieces, bells and whistles from the thrift shop, China, ebay fym. They look the same but at a fraction of the price because they're not from a designer and you're not going through some expensive interior design firm and just DIY.

genghiskharti

5y

wait why do you care about how rich gay women decorate if you are not gay not a rich woman?? bruh just throw some lawn chairs and an air mattress in that bih and call it a day

Flower

5y

Cause I'm bi and I try to find something in the middle. Also ew no? wtf.

genghiskharti

5y

your lose bro my living room looks like this and i get hella compliments

Flower

5y

Yeah you def go to SDSU

Flower

5y

Hey @Spyro where you from?