Who's that?

Ok lemme rephrase. 🙄 Where do you live now?

Beaverton. It's a suburb of Portland.. and I'm not from here originally. I'm from Cali

Lmao

So I did a background check on this guy that really hurt me. Will he know that I did a background check? Getting nervous

so none of you guys are gonna post in the actual section?...

what do you mean background check

I used truth finder.

and I thought I had it bad.. damn

i see both sides like chanel

why are grindr niggas so entitled

One of my fav KTT users. Rumor has it he was abducted and he now lives in Russia with his bf. I miss him. LGBTQ thread kinda died after he left.

Lucky for you, this is cashmere 🤗 but I'm sure you already knew that lol

OMG you are back! 😍
No I wasn't sure until Glitter Boy said it. I'm too naive for this world. How are you?? What have you been up to?

Yes, the infamous cashmeredog has returned to KTT. Lol. but I'm good for the most part.. just have been going through a rollercoaster of emotions.

It be like that sometimes. Rollercoasters have their lows but the highs make it worthwhile. Everyone got their Ls, you're just one of the few who have the courage to talk about it publicly. At least you're trying. I've stalled out. 😭

It's okay to stall out.. it happens sometimes. I feel like I stalled out last Saturday when Joe wanted to get with me again but I turned him down. I'm so conflicted about this whole thing.. it's not something I've experienced before, with any guy. I have strong feelings for him and it's pretty clear he has them for me too.. he wouldn't have approached me again, or tried so hard to get my attention, if he didn't have feelings for me. I'm conflicted because he told me he's a s***, but at the same time I feel like I could be making a mistake by not giving him another chance. I acted really standoffish last Saturday.. I think I hurt his feelings because he left the club right after I turned him down.

Baby f*** his feelings. Focus on yours first okay. I could never give someone another try once I decide to move on. There is always that guilt feeling but you gave this man enough chances already. It's 2020. We're trying something new. 😤

You're absolutely right about all those things. but then, what I am supposed to do when he sees me at the club this Saturday?

Me, I would ignore him and anything he says. Just remember what he did.

but he apologized.

Why did he do it in the first place. In my book, cheating is even worse when they're trying to come back. He basically thinks that you're desperate enough to still take him back.

I'm not sure.. it's just weird how one minute he doesn't want me, then the next he wants me again. I'm having a hard time understanding this