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Does anyone else get really (maybe unreasonably) excited whenever someone they know comes out to them, or at least expresses that they're questioning their sexuality? Like, it's at least one less person you have to hide from, and if, like in my case, it's someone you've already come out to, you have another person that you can really relate to in that way.

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It's smart you're doing that though. Settle into your real quirks slowly maybe? So you don't 'shock' them. Idk the environment but the majority of people gay or not are indifferent even if you're a complete queen lol majority aren't that involved with each others feelings or personal lives like that

Pretty good. Finding stuff to do around the house today and checked in with the bf. He’s doing ok just putting on a little weight being trapped inside and a little frustrated lol. So imma send him a home workout and hopefully he cheers up a bit. Other than that nothing else 😺

How did any of you know for sure when you weren't your birth gender? I'm 18 years old and think I might be mtf or non binary or something idk. I just hate being myself for being a man and I just hate my masculinity but I don't know if it's just me hating masculinity cuz it sucks or because I don't want to be a man if that makes sense . I'm not even sure if I've ever really felt like this before but I'm scared that I'm just wasting my time thinking about this. sorry if this is ranty but idk where else to ask.

Why do you hate masculinity?

Try not to think about it and try to be you one day at a time, with whatever comes natural

you're gonna change a lot in coming years too, not a lot of us know what we're gonna be much less who we really are

I just hate how it oftentimes just hurts people that I know and usually the people who have hurt me and those around me the most in my life were being the most performatively masculine. I hate how it hurts people and I feel like if I have any of that in me it means I might do those same things as a result.

thank you for the advice. Idk about not thinking about it though since most of my free time rn is just thinking in quarantine at home lol.

thank you so much for this. I've definitely tried finding some more lgbt people to look up to, especially with music. IDK about RuPaul cuz of the whole fracking thing tho but I appreciate that piece of advice, it makes sense!

LMAOOO IM SORRY that's just the first thing I think of when he comes up now.
I should try it out, and hopefully once all this quarantine stuff is done I'll be able to visit some friends who're willing to help me out with trying that. thanks

I would disagree that being masculine would mean that you will do harm to others in any way, as much as I understand what you mean.

I'd say what you're talking about is more toxic masculinity (as much as that's just a buzz word these days) and that you can definitely be masculine in a healthy, positive way.

I've been discovering myself as nb the last year or so and for me it's just personally that I don't really connect with the idea of being a man or a woman, but just give yourself time on that one.

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i dont like masculinity or care about being masculine. unfortunately i come off as masculine though according to my friend 😭

not that big of a deal but id rather be more feminine. i guess realistically id be ok with being somewhere in between. like i really wish i could be super feminine like girls, but i feel like thats just not me

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I already know emu's apartment is gorgeous

your avys are always so good